Wheel of Happiness
Kule minyaka kuye kwaba nzima kunene ukuba ndigcine le "lilangatye elingunaphakade" kum kunye nomyeni wam, ndoloza ukutshatyalaliswa kwembono. Esikhundleni sexesha eliqaqambileyo, elingalilibaleki lafika ubomi obulinganisekile, saqala ukucima kwixesha eliqhelekileyo. Imemori yeentsuku zokuqala, iinyanga kunye neminyaka yobomi kunye kunye nesibini sibini sihlala sisinxantathu. Iimbini ezininzi zikholelwa ukuba ebomini babo i-bouquet-candy period yayivuyayo. Emva koko ubomi bemihla ngemihla buqala, apho kukho ukugaya, rhoqo kuhamba kunye namava amaninzi amaqabane. Kwaye ukukhululeka, ubuhle bobudlelwane, ukuvakalelwa kwimihla ngemihla yeeholide, ephawulekayo ekuqaleni kwebali, kufuneka libaleke. Kule meko, umntu unokuthanda umntu, abe nesithandwa kuye, kodwa ngelo xesha aziva ehlelekile kuye. Kule minyaka, kukho ingozi yokufumana ingxabano kunye neengxabano zasekhaya. Ukuzalwa komntwana kunokuba nzima ukuxubusha imeko. Emva koko, phantse lonke ixesha kufuneka linikezelwe kwintsana, kwaye ngaphantsi nangaphantsi komnye nomnye. Kodwa intsingiselo yobambiswano, ubudlelwane bomtshato abuyiyo kuphela ukujongana nemiba yasekhaya kuphela. Akukulibali ukuba abazali banabantu abasondeleyo, abatshatileyo, abathandi ... Akunzima ukubuyisela umva wokuvuyela ekukhulumisaneni nomnye. Iingcali zentsapho zincoma iresiphi yendalo yonke ... rhoqo iya kumhla nomnye.
Buyisela ubuhlobo ubudlelwane
Iintlanganiso zisinceda sizive ukuba ubomi abukho nje kuphela kubazali kunye nokulwa nobunzima bekhaya. Ngomqondo wokubuyela kwesoxesha elimnandi kwiintlanganiso zokuqala, xa sasiqhelana kwaye sathandwa ngabanye. Umqalisi wendlela enjalo unokuba ngumntu. Nangona kaninzi ikhona ingcamango yokubuyisela ukutshatyalaliswa kwemibono ebuhlotsheni obuvela ngqo kumfazi okhuselekileyo kunye nomoya. Nguye ovakalelwa ukungabikho kobudlelwane bokomoya nomyeni wakhe, umthandi, umlingane. Imeko ebalulekileyo yaloo ntla nganiso kukucwangcisa imibandela edibeneyo, ongayize (okanye wenze) ixesha elide. Oku kuyimfuneko ukuze ukwazi ukubona umlingane ngokukhanya okuhlukile, ukumazi omnye, kude kube ngoku engaziwayo kwicala lobuntu bakhe. Ezi ntla nganiso kwiimeko ezingavamile zingaboniswa. Ngesinye isikhathi, omnye wenu wayefuna ukuhamba ngeenxa zonke ezixekweni ngokuhlwa, unyule enye intlanganiso kuloo ndawo apho ufikelelwe khona umhla wokuqala. Kwaye ke, ngaphandle kokukhawuleza, uya kudlula kwiindlela eziyaziwayo ukuba zonke izibini zinezi: iigceke ezithulekileyo phakathi kwendawo, iindlela, iifenki, iipaki. Unokugqiba ukuhamba kwi-cafe oyithandayo okanye kwindawo yokutyela. Kodwa akukho ngaphantsi kwekharityhulam yalezo zihlandlo eziye zacatshangelwa kakuhle kwaye zicwangciswe nguwe. Ngendlela, akukhathazeki ukuba wenza ntoni kulezi zure, into ephambili kukuba uya kuzichitha kunye (unokunyamekela abantwana kunye nomntwana okanye uhlele kunye nootatomkhulu). Kwakhona khumbula ukuba into oye wanquma ukuzinikezela iiyure ezimbalwa, kufuneka ihambisane nawe.
Kunokwenzeka, nangona kunjalo, ukuba ezinye izibini zingabonakali, kodwa ngelo xesha, ixesha lokuzonwabisa elihle kakhulu ... ubusuku bentsapho phambi kweTV. Ukuzonwabisa okunjalo okuzolileyo kuya kuba kukutya, umzekelo, bexakeke kakhulu kwi-shishini kunye nemisebenzi yabo, abafazi abangekhe banako ukufumana ukunethezeka kokuxoxisana nabanye ekhaya ... Ukuba izinto zakho zokuthanda kunye neminqweno ayifani, ungachaza iinkcukacha. Masithi ungumdlali wemidlalo ye-theater ongaphuthelwa yinye iqela lokuqala, kwaye ibhola liye lisondele kuye. Ngoko uthengela amathikithi amabini kwindawo yokuzonwabisa kwaye umemele kumdlalo. Yena-amabini amathikithi ebhola lebhola, kwaye ubona umdlalo wekhulu kunye ndawonye ... Ngokombono wethu, into esondeleyo yokusondelana isoloko isithsaba somhla wokuthandana. U-Rendezvous kunye nomyeni wakhe akupheli ngobudlelwane bezesondo. Ngaphandle kwimeko apho isondo kuphela sigcina eso sibini ndawonye. Ukuba ubuncinci omnye wabasetyhini bafumana ukungathandabuzeki okanye ukungathandabuzeki, akufanele ugxininise kule nto. Ukuze abatshatileyo, kubalulekile ukuba bakwazi ukugcina uxhatshazo phakathi kobudlelwane kwaye ungazami ukuvuselela ubomi bocansi, ukuzama, umzekelo, umlingo obulalayo, ongafanelanga wena. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba umothuke umntu. Nesiqingatha-amacebo, achukumisa ngamanye amaxesha, ukuncoma - konke oku kuya kumenza aqonde ukuba nguye kuphela ofunayo kuwe.