Ukususela kwixesha elidlulileyo kwakukholelwa ukuba umntu ongokoqobo, ongenasiphelo, ohlala ehlazileyo kwaye engahlambulukanga. Uyakhumbula ukuba kwi-movie yakudala ibonisa njani uthando? Ukubukeka ngokukodwa.
Ngamanye amaxesha ixhoba lavunyelwa ukugqiba into enqwenelekayo kwintsimbi ekwamkela ngenkuthalo. Ngeli xesha, abaphulaphuli baqonda: oku kukhulu kakhulu kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, ngonaphakade ... Kwaye kwakuphi phakathi kwezithandani kwakungaphezulu, ngamnye wayezicingela.
Ewe, namhlanje kwizikrini esizijwayele kwi-Hollywood serial menome hands, zikhukhula ngamantombazana abo ngemifula yeentetho ezintle. Kuphela kwimeko yokwenene, ukuqonda kwabo ngesizathu esithile kudlalwa ngabameli bezesondo ezifanayo kunye nabo ...
Ngendlela, izazi zeengqondo ziqinisekisa oku kukhangeleka: amadoda anengqondo ngokugqithiseleyo, okubizwa ngokuba yi-demonstration. Ubume bubadale ngendlela yokuba isinkwa singasondli - makhe ndibonise kwaye ndipende. Eminye inqanaba "lokuthetha" kuxhomekeke kwizizathu ezibini: ukuzithemba kunye neqabane kunye nokukhuliswa ...
Akunjalo ngamazwi, kodwa ngezenzo
Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukuqonda oko ufuna: ukuvuma uthando kumntu othandekayo okanye ngamazwi amahle? Kuyakwazi ukulinda de ukuza kwesibini. Kodwa ngokubonakalisa iimvakalelo - kulula kakhulu. Emva koko, kuba amadoda "ahlukeneyo ahlukeneyo".
Umfazi onothando, njengomthetho, ubonisa iimvakalelo zakhe ngokukhululekile nangokuvuleka, indoda iya kwenye indlela. Ngokuchanekileyo - ngezenzo. Yenza ukulungiswa komntu wakho othandekayo kwindlu, ujike kwi-bulb ekhanyayo, uxoxe isikhonkwane kwidonga okanye uthele ioli kumatshini. Iintaba ziza kuba bubungqina beemvakalelo zabo. Kodwa-buthule. Ngomombo oziqhenkcezayo: khangela, bathi, ngokuba ndikulungele!
Into ephambili kukuba ufunde ukuqonda nokuqonda ulwimi lwabantu: ukuba akayikukunceda amandla okanye ixesha, isimo sakhe sengqondo kumntu wakho sinzulu kakhulu ...
Andiqinisekanga, cwaka
Uninzi lwa madoda luqinisekile: abo babememeza ngeemvakalelo zabo ngakwesokunene nangasekhohlo yiibhokisi zeengxoxo kunye nemimoya yomoya. Kukho elinye iphuzu elibalulekileyo: ngelixa i-testosterone idlala, kunzima ukuba amadoda aqonde indlela abaxhamla ngayo malunga nentombi yabo. I-Passions kufuneka ifake okanye ingene eyaziwayo, ngoko kuthetha, u-rut - ngoko uya kuthatha isigqibo sokuba ufuna ukuhlala nani nani ixesha elide ukuya kube sekupheleni kweentsuku zakhe okanye kude kube sekupheleni kweveki ...
Nantsi iqhotyoshelweyo!
Kwakhona kwenzeka ukuba loo mfazi ngokwakhe ubangelwa imbambano yecala lomntu xa ebonisa uthando kumntu othandekayo. Umzekelo, ngokukhawuleza emva kokuqaphela okokuqala, uqala ukuqwalasela loo ndoda njengepropati yakhe: ecatshulwa ukuba ukhetha ukudibana nabahlobo, kwaye engayi kumabhayisikobho kunye naye, ekunciphiseni inkululeko yakhe eqhelekileyo, efuna iimpawu ezingapheliyo zokuqwalasela, ukuncoma, amazwi omthandayo, ukulinda iingcebiso kunye nokuvunywa malunga nokuhlaziywa. Ngaba kuyamangalisa ukuba ngoku kukhwankqiswa yingcinezelo yintando ethandekayo yegama elixabisekileyo omnye akudingeki alinde ...
IQumrhu - ngesini
Ubumnene nobubele - kungekhona ngamazwi kuphela, kodwa nakwintetho yonxibelelwano yansuku zonke - ayingabonwa ngabantu abanobudlelwane bokuxhamla ngokomzimba kuphela nje kwisandulela sesondo. Naluphi na ukuthinta kwabo kunentsingiselo "esetyenzisiweyo". Kulula kakhulu ukufunda izinto ezinjalo: abaze bakhawuleza, abayi kudla, abayi kuwanga "njengaleyo." Kwaye abavumi ukuzithandayo xa "bathelelwa nganto." Ekubhedeni, aba bafana bayamangalisa kwaye bengaqondi, nangona bazenza njengamaqatha.
Ukuba, nangona kunjalo, ukuzaliseka kukulethe "okunomdla" okunjalo, zama ukuhlanganyela ekuboneni kwakhe ngesondo kunye noqhagamshelwano lomzimba. Yenza umsila wokukhanya, qiniseka ukumanga ngobumnene kwiintlanganiso kunye nokuhamba, uvuma, jonga imbonakalo yakho yeTV yeyona nto oyithandayo - eqinisweni, konke oku kumeko engenalo ukuthandana. Kancinci, iqabane lakho lihambela kwaye liqonda ukuba ziphi izivulo ezilethwa yizo "zintlungu".
Kwiminyaka kamva
Zingaphi iminyaka oye wahlala kunye, amazwi malunga nothando akayi kulahlekelwa ngumtsalane wabo. Kwaye ungacingi ukuba ukuva utywala kunye nokuqinisekiswa kweemvakalelo kukukholisa kuphela kumfazi. Amadoda ayazi nendlela yokuthanda ngeendlebe zabo! Ukongezelela, amagama amathathu omlingo anokukhutshwa kunye ne-sauce kwi-steak, oye wakhonza kuyo isidlo sakusihlwa. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ngamanye amaxesha kwenzeka: ulindele ukunyamekela nothando, kwaye UYE uyayikhohlwa nangomcimbi wokukhumbula umtshato! Ngendlela, musa ukulibala malunga nokuzikhethela kweengqondo zesintu - abazikhumbuli imihla ebalulekileyo! Ukuze ungabi kwisimo esifanayo, umkhumbuze ngeeholide ezayo.
Okanye ugxininise into ethile yesondo kunye nobudlelwane obusondeleyo, nje ngokuba uyazi ezimbini. Emva kwesikhumbuzo esinjalo ngaphandle kwesipho, ngokuqinisekileyo awuyi kuhlala!
Thetha ngayo
Yenza umgaqo-uchaze izenzo zakho kumntu, kuba akayiqondi isizathu sokuba wenza oku okanye isenzo. Soloko umchazela ukuba ukhubekile, kutheni ukhubekile - mhlawumbi akayi kukwazi isizathu sokuba nentukuthelo yakho kwaye uya kuhlala ephazamiseka ixesha elide. Awunayo ingqalelo ngokwaneleyo - uchaza oko ungathanda, ukufuna ukuxoxa ngekhanda lakho elitsha - mxelele ngalo, uzive ungenakucatshulwa - uthetha naye ngxaki.
Beka ithoni kwingxoxo. Qala okokuqala, njengokungathi ukude, kunye nemibandela engabonakaliyo kunye neyokungahambisani nendawo uze ufike endaweni efanelekileyo: ukuthenga into efunekayo, uhambo oludibeneyo kwiholide, ukuhamba ngosuku lwakho lokuzalwa kwiintsapho zakho, ukutyelela unyoko okanye uhambo oluzayo lwezoshishino. Kwaye enye ingongoma ebalulekileyo - kunye namadoda ohlala ufuna ukuthetha ngokucacileyo kwaye ngokulula - ngokucacileyo umbuzo okanye isicelo sibuzwa, ukukhonkxa ngakumbi umphumo uya kuba.
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