Ukuphuhlisa iikhathuni zomncinci

Iicathathu zazingomnye wemveliso ephambili yokuphuhliswa kwabantwana ukususela ekuqaleni kwekhulu lama-20. Izibini ezithathu kwiintsana kunye nabantwana abancinci zikhangelelanisa iiyure ezimbini ngosuku ngosuku lweTV. Ngethuba ukhangele iikhathuni, ingqondo yomntwana iququzelele imifanekiso eqingqiweyo, ulwazi lwezemfundo kunye nezenzo zobundlobongela. Ezi zinto zinefuthe elihle kunye nefuthe ekuphuhlisweni kwabantwana.

Into efanelekileyo yeekhathuni kukukhuthaza ukufunda. Ukusetyenziswa kwesicatshulwa esithintekayo kuvuselela ubudlelwane phakathi kwabantu, imfundo kunye nophuhliso loluntu lwabantwana.

Sonke sifuna ukuba abantwana bethu bahleleke kwaye bathobele. Namhlanje abantwana beenkwenkwezi zokufunda kunye nabantwana besikolo bachithe ixesha elide bejonge iikhathuni. Iimifanekiso zanamhlanje zabantwana zibonwa ngabantwana ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo kwaye zinempembelelo ethile kwi-psyche kunye nempilo yabantwana. Imvakalelo yabo nokuqonda kwehlabathi elikujikelezayo ngoku banokukhathazeka ngabantu abadala.

Into ebalulekileyo kwinkqubo yokuhlolisisa iimpawu zeekhathuni yimpembelelo entle ekuphuhlisweni komntwana.

Iipatroon ziyindlela enkulu yokutshintsha ulwazi kwingqondo yomntwana. Iicattoon kubantwana zingahle zihlekise kwaye ngexesha elifanayo ziqikelele kwaye ziphuhlise. Ukuphucula iikhathuni kunceda umntwana ukuba afunde ulwazi oluncedo kwaye ekusebenziseni kwakhe iimpawu ezilungileyo ebomini.

Ngokuqhelekileyo abantwana babuza abantu abadala, ngamanye amaxesha kunzima ukufumana impendulo. Indlela indoda isebenza ngayo, indlela amalungu ayo asebenza ngayo, kutheni iintaka zicula, kwaye inja iyabetha? Le mibuzo ayipheliyo. Abazali bazama ukufumana amagama afanelekileyo, bachaze umntwana kule nto okanye kuloo meko. Uncedo olunzulu lokukhula nolwazi oluphuhliswayo lubonelelwa ngeemifanekiso ezifundisa umntwana ukuba afunde, abale, abe nomusa, abe nako ukufumana abahlobo kunye nokunceda abadala.

Ukuphucula iibhotole kubantwana kuza ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo.

Imathematika isifundo esiyimpumelelo sokufunda ngokuphumelelayo, kodwa ezininzi zezifundo ezinzima kakhulu ukuziqonda. Indlela efanelekileyo yokuncedisa iziseko zezakhono zeemathematika kukuba neemifanekiso ezizithokozisayo ezinomthombo obalulekileyo wezakhono zemathematika.

Kwiintlobo ezininzi zeemifanekiso ezivakalayo ziyavakala. Abantwana bakukhumbula ngokukhawuleza amagama weengoma kwaye bacula kunye namaqhawe angamazwi.

Abalingiswa beCattoon bafundisa abantwana ukuba bagcine umyalelo, musa ukulahla amathoyizi, ungadlala ngemidlalo, thobela, uthembeke kwaye uchanile.

Abazali notitshala kufuneka banakekele kuphela ukuphuhliswa ngokomzimba nangokomzwelo wabantwana abancinci, kodwa kunye nophuhliso lwabo lwengqondo. Icandelo ngalinye lophuhliso lenza abantwana bahlolisise iimvakalelo ezintsha, bafunde into entsha. Iinkalo ezahlukeneyo zophuhliso zibonwa kalula ngumntwana ngokusebenzisa iincwadi, iikopi. Uphando lubonisa ukuba ukuvelisa iibhotole eziphambili zenze igalelo ekuphuhliseni ulwaphulo-bulumko, kwanababini ababukeli abaselula.

Ithelevishini namhlanje inendima enkulu ebomini bethu. Ukuziphatha kwabantwana kuxhomekeke kwiinkcukacha abazithola kwiimidiya, ngokukodwa, ukubukela iikhathuni. Ngamanye amaxesha abalinganiswa bobuxoki baba zizithixo zabantwana bethu. Ukuhlolwa rhoqo kweefilimu eziphathekayo kwenza umntu omncinane ukuba akholelwe kakuhle kwaye aqonde ukuba yintoni ububi. Uninzi lwa bantwana lufuna ukuba ngamaqhawe ebomini bokwenene, emva kokubukela ezinye iikhathuni.

Oogqirha bezilwanyana bancomela ukuba abazali banciphise ixesha lokujonga ixesha elipheleleyo leemifanekiso zezingane zamanje.

Izingane zidinga ukukhuselwa kwiimifanekiso ezibuhlungu nezoyikrakra, ngoku zizele ngokusasazwa kweTV. Musa ukulayisha abantwana ngolwazi oluphazamisa uphuhliso lwabo oluqhelekileyo.

Oomama abathandekayo! Ngebusika ekwindla nasebusuku busika, xa kungakhathazeki kwaye kubanda ngaphandle, hlala kunye nabantwana bakho ekhaya kwiTVs ukuze ubukele enye enye iikhathuni ezinengqiqo apho amaqhawe eendlovu efundisa ukulunga nokuziphatha okuhle. Ukufumana ulwazi olubalulekileyo kwiimifanekiso zezingane, umntwana wakho uya kuba ngumntwana othobelekileyo kunye nomntu onobubele kwikamva.