Abasetyhini abaninzi benza impazamo kakade kwiminyaka yokuqala yobomi obatshatileyo, ngaphandle kokubandakanya umyeni ukuba ancede ngeenxa zonke kwendlu. La mabhinqa azama ukuba ngabahlali bezindlu, ukuba basindise umyeni wakhe ekuhlaselweni kwezoqoqosho, ukulawula yonke into. Kodwa kukho abantwana, imisebenzi eyongezelelweyo kwaye umfazi uyayeka ukujamelana nayo yonke into. Yaye le ndoda sele ichithwe kwaye iyanqwenela ukunceda malunga nendlu. Nangona umtshato wakho usemncinci, nangona uthando nothando lungabanda, kulula ukuba uxoxisane nomyeni wakho. Ukususela ekuqaleni kobomi bakho bomtshato, yenza ukuba uhloniphe umsebenzi wakho kwaye wabelane ngemithwalo yemfanelo yasekhaya. Umtshato wakho ngumanyano olinganayo wabantu ababini abanothando. Kwaye ukulingana akumele kubonakaliswe nje ekwenzeni imali, kodwa kunye nokutshala imali kunye nexesha lakho kwikhaya kunye nobomi. Thetha malunga nabani bakhetha ukwenza imisebenzi yasekhaya. Ngubani owaziyo, mhlawumbi umyeni wakho uhlale ephupha ukuba ngumpheki wevenkile enkulu kwaye iqulethe italente. Masibabonise. Ukulahla iziganeko zokuthi ezi zinto zixanduva lwabasetyhini.
Ukusola kunye nezikhalazo awuyi kufumana uncedo kumyeni wakhe. Yiba nesicatshulwa kwaye ube nexhala. Umyeni uya kuphendula ngokugatya naluphi na izicelo zakho, qalisa ukulala emva komsebenzi kwaye uzame ukuba phantsi ekhaya, oko kukuthi, apho ehlala ehlambalaza kwaye enyanzelekile ukuba enze into ethile.
Amadoda amaninzi anamhlanje athatyathwa ngokukhuliswa koomama. Kodwa ubuvila obufumanekayo kunokwenzeka kwaye kuyimfuneko ukulwa. Vumela indoda yakho ingaboni isidlo sakusihlwa, sidle izitya, ihlambuluke kwaye i-ironed shirts njengento enoba kunjalo. Nokufundisa oonyana bakho, khumbula iingxaki zakho nomyeni wakho, ufundise kwaye uncede umntwana wakho ekhaya ukusuka esemncinci.
Indoda ephangiweyo iya kulala phambi kweTV ngaphandle kwesazi yesazela, ngokubhekiselele ekubeni uyakhathathele, kwaye uya kukhwela njenge-squirrel evili. Mhlawumbi sinokusola ngolu hlobo?
Ungesabi ukuba buthathaka. Bonisa ukuba awukwazi ukuhlangabezana ngaphandle komyeni. Yaye maye wazi ukuba ungatshintsha njani ibhabhu ekhanyayo, ukunyanzelisa isikhonkwane. Vumela indoda yakho ingazi ngale nto. Amadoda afana nokubonisa ukuphakama kwawo nokubaluleka. Ngoko sebenzisa oku. Ungazami ukuba ngumfazi wesinyithi kunye nomntu ozimeleyo, oqinileyo. Hlala udumisa umyeni wakho nayiphi na uncedo malunga nendlu. Musa ukuzibonga ngendumiso, yenza njalo ngokukhawuleza kwaye kunokwenzeka kangako. Khuthaza amanyathelo omyeni wakhe, nokuba akayikuhlamba izitya njengoko usetyenzisiweyo. Nakuphi na ukugxekwa kuyabulala umnqweno wokwenza into ezayo.
Makhe umntu abe ngumntu. Ngenxa yokuba soloko siqhatha amadoda ethu. Buza umyeni wakho uncedo kwaye uthembele kuye ukukunceda. Ukuthembela okunjalo kumyeni wakho kuya kubuyiselwa kuwe ngekhulu. Ukususela kwangoku, awuyi kuluchitha amandla kunye namandla ekutsala umyeni wakho ukuba ancedise indlu.