Umhla wokuzalwa uyiholide ngokwenene nawuphi na umntwana. Ngaloo mini ufumana izipho, ujikelezwe ngabahlobo kunye nezihlobo. Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu - umntwana uyazi ukuba lo suku unikezelwe kuye. Ngako oko, ngamnye umzali unqwenela ukuchitha usuku lokuzalwa lomntwana wakhe ukuze amkhumbule ixesha elide.
Yenza usuku lokuzalwa olulibalekiyo alukhuni kakhulu: udinga ukugubungela itafile elimnandi, ukumema izihlobo ezilungileyo, unike isipho esifanelekileyo kwaye ulungiselele umnandi. Ngomntwana kunoma yimuphi umdala umdlalo uyisibambiso sesimo esihle. Ngoko ke, kwinqaku esiza kukuxelela malunga nemidlalo engcono ongayichitha iholide yabantwana nanini na.
Indlela yokuzonwabisa ngayo abantwana abasuka kwiminyaka emibili ukuya emine ubudala
Ngelo xesha, abantwana abasayazi ngokucacileyo oko kwenzekayo malunga nabo. Kodwa nangona kunjalo, iholidi kufuneka imnandi ngomntu wokuzalwa. Emva kwakho konke, yonke imbuzi iyathanda ukuzonwabisa. Ngoko-ke, mema abaninzi abanezingane ezifanayo. Ungalibali ukuba kufuneka uhambe kwimemori emva kweeholide. Ukwenza oku, thumela ividiyo yeeholide uze umeme umfaki-zithombe okanye uthathe imifanekiso yakho.
Into yokuqala yokuyenza yinqanaba leendwendwe ezimenywe. I-Nestoit imemela abantu abangaqhelekanga, kuba bayayikrosa umntwana. Emva kokumisela abantu abamenywe, cinga nge-code yokugqoka yeeholide. Ngokomzekelo, unako ukumema bonke abazali ukuba bagqoke abancinci babo ngamaqhawe e-crochet. Unokwenza nje ngemibhobho eyahlukeneyo, iimaski, iinqanawa kunye nezinye izesekeli, ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kuphakamisa isimo sengqondo somntwana.
Ukukhetha imidlalo yabantwana balo nyaka, qwalasela ezinye iimpawu. Abantwana abafanelekanga, ngoko imidlalo kufuneka ibe yinto elula njengoko kunokwenzeka. Kwiimidlalo kufuneka kuthathe inxaxheba kunye nabantu abadala, ukuze ukuba kunyanzelekile, unokunceda umntwana ukuba alungise imisebenzi yakhe. Nazi ezinye imidlalo ezithakazelisayo kubafundi abaneminyaka emibini phakathi kweminyaka emibini nemine:
Penguin
Kule mpikiswano, uya kuba neebhola ezimbini kunye nezikhonkwane ezimbini kwangaphambili. Hlukanisa abantwana kumaqela amabini uze uwabeke kumgca. Umthathi-nxaxheba wokuqala ukusuka kwinqanaba kufuneka abambe ibhola phakathi kweemilenze aze ahambe naye kwi-pivot, ekhoyo nje emitha embalwa ukusuka kuye. Umntwana kufuneka adlule ubukhulu kwaye adlulisele ibhola kumntu wesibini othatha inxaxheba. Abantwana bancinci, ngoko abazali kufuneka bababambe ngesandla ngexesha lokukhuphisana ukuze bangawa.
Frog
Kule mpikiswano abantwana bamele bahlule babe ngamaqela amabini. Abathathi-nxaxheba kufuneka baqhekeze baze bagxume njengamafeng umgama othile kwijubane. Abaphumeleleyo banikezelwa ngeeskese, iziqhamo okanye ezinye iiswidi.
I-bubble Bubbles
Abantu abadala abangabodwa kufuneka bavuthele izibhulu. Umsebenzi wabancinci ukuwaphula. I-soap bubbles ekhaya yenza kube lula kakhulu. Unokuthenga ukulungele. Lo mdlalo unjengabantwana.
Ivuyile idonki
Zaraneena omkhulu u-Whatman udweba nayiphi na isilwanyana (kitty, idonki, inja okanye ubuncinane ibhola elula). Yenza umsila ngokwahlukileyo kwaye unamathele i-pin kuyo. Ingane ifuna ukubopha amehlo akhe kwaye yenze le msila ezandleni, ukuze idibanise kwindawo efanelekileyo. Ncedisa umntwana.
Indlela yokuzonwabisa nabantwana beminyaka yobudala
Kule minyaka, abantwana bathanda izinto eziqaqambileyo. Ngako oko, zihobise igumbi, ungalibali ngeebhola. Myalelo umntwana wakho ikheke elihle. Ngeholide, mema abantu abadala kunye nabantwana, kodwa ningakhohlwa ukuba abantwana kufuneka babe kwitafile ehlukileyo. Wonke umntu kufuneka abe namacwecwe ayo kunye nokusika. Ungathenga isidlo esihle nesicatshulwayo.
Kulo nyaka, abantwana bathanda ukudlala imidlalo ephathekayo. Kukulungele ukhetho olunjalo, apho bonke bangathatha inxaxheba ngokukhawuleza. Ngethuba lomdlalo, ubukho bomntu omdala bunyanzelekile.
Ulwandle luxhala kwakhona ...
Umdlalo onjalo uza kunceda ukwazi abantwana abasondeleyo. Kubalulekile ukuba bonke abathathi-nxaxheba bahlelwe ngokulandelelana. Ummemezeli uthi "Ulwandle lukhathazeka kanye, ulwandle lukhathaza kabini, ulwandle lukhathaza ngamathathu" ... Kulo mzuzwana, abantwana kufuneka baqhube, bagxume okanye badonse. Emva koko u-anchorman uthi ngokukhawuleza "Iintyatyambo, ulwandle, isineti (nayiphi na) isibalo kwindawo yeqhwa". Abantwana kufuneka kule mzuzu i-instantostanovatsya baze baveze uphawu oluchaziweyo. Phakathi kwabo bonke abathathi-nxaxheba, umbonisi kufuneka akhethe abantu abaningana aze abuze ukuba babonise isibalo esiphila. Ubuninzi bokusebenza kunye nobuchule buba yinduna entsha.
Ngonyama
Yahlula iqela kumaqela amaninzi. Omnye wabadlali makaqikelele igama kwaye ulizwile kulo nxaxheba kwisibini. Inxaxheba yesibini kufuneka, ngokuncediswa kwempawu, yenza umfanekiso, owakhulelwa. Iqela eliza kuqiqa amagama amaninzi kwaye abe ngabaphumeleleyo. Kulo mdlalo, abantwana bangadlala imizuzu engama-30-40.
Sihlalo ophezulu
Abathathu abathathi-nxaxheba kufuneka bathathe izitulo ezintandathu. Beka izitulo kwi-semicircle. Vula umculo. Ngoxa edlala, abantwana kufuneka bajikeleze izitulo. Ngokukhawuleza ukuba umculo uyeke, bonke abantwana kufuneka bahlale phantsi ngokukhawuleza. Ngubani ongenazo izitorelo ezaneleyo, aze aphelelwe ngumdlalo. Oku kususa esinye isihlalo esiphezulu. Umdlalo uyaqhubeka kude kubekho umntu omnye kuphela oseleyo.
Ngena kwibhaksi
Lo mdlalo ulungiselelwe abantu abangaphezu kwe-10. Ukuyithwala uyakufuna iibhola ezimbalwa kunye nebhakethi. Wonke umntwana kufuneka ahlasele ithagethi. Zonke iinzame zenziwe.
Tug yemfazwe
Hlukanisa abantwana kumaqela amabini. Kwiqela ngalinye kufuneka kube neqela labadlali. Cinga ukuphakama, ubunzima kunye namandla omntwana. Amaqela amabini kufuneka athathe intambo. Abaphumeleleyo bafumana umvuzo.
Njengabagcini bamabanga aphantsi
Ngelo xesha, abantwana abanabungane kakhulu. Ngokuqhelekileyo badibanisa kwiindidi zomdla, ngoko kubandakanya wonke umntu kumdlalo ngeke kube lula. Abantwana abaninzi baya kuba neentloni, yingakho kubaluleke kakhulu ukuwazisa omnye komnye kuqala.
Masiqhelane
Injongo ephambili yalo mdlalo kukuzisa bonke abantwana abaza kumthendeleko. Khetha enye inkokheli. Bonke abakhoyo kufuneka babe sesangqa. Umbonisi kufuneka aqale ukuzisiza aze athethe ngaye. Ibali kufuneka libe lifutshane. Emva koko umphathi kufuneka adlulisele ibhola kwenye yeso sikho kwaye kufuneka axelele ngaye kunye nezinto azithandayo. Ngoko ibhola idluliselwa kude bonke abathathi-nxaxheba bathethe ngabo.
Andikholelwa
Lo mdlalo kufuneka ulungiswe kwangaphambili. Qala ubhale phantsi iimbali ezimbalwa ezithakazelisayo malunga nomntwana ngamnye weendwendwe. Unokucela iifometha zezingane okanye abazali bazo. Xa wonke umntu ehleli etafileni aze adle, nikela ukudlala. Gcina ukhumbule ukuba imibuzo kufuneka ibe nomusa kwaye ingabantwana, ukuze ungakhubeki umntwana. Imibuzo ingahluka. Umzekelo, "Ngaba uPetya ufana ne-multi-kip Luntika?", "Ngaba i-Masha inayo idonsa kwesikhwama sayo?" Kwaye injalo.
Ukukhangela ubuncwane
Ngaphambi kokuqala kweeholide, zifihla into enomdla (i-chocolate, ithoyiyi, i-candy). Dweba amanqaku amaninzi kwiplani yegumbi uze ubhale indawo apho into efihliweyo. Dweba indlela ecacileyo kuyo. Emva koko, xa iholide iphelile, kwahlula abantwana kuba ngamaqela amabini. Baqikelele ngemigqomo emininzi kunye neenkcukacha, apho ukufumana iinqununu zekhadi. Xa amaqela athola zonke iinqununu zeemephu, kufuneka uqoke kunye. Emva koko, abantwana kufuneka bafumane ubuncwane.
Njengobuncwane, ungasebenzisa isifuba esincinci apho ubumnandi obuninzi bufihlakele khona. Kungcono ukuba neenkxalabo ezaneleyo kubo bonke abathathi-nxaxheba.