Umculi odumile uKatia Lel: Ndiziva ndikhululekile. Kuyisono sokukhalaza! Andizange ndikwazi nokuba i-toxicosis yintoni. Ndicinga ukuba ukubaluleka okukhulu kule nto kwadlalwa yinto yokuba ndandisoloko ndingena kwimidlalo. Nangona ndathi ndikhulelwe, ndaya ku-fitness, kuba nangona ndicwangcise umntwana, kodwa ... ke ndaya kudokotela, kwaye wandicebisa ukuba ndingayi kufunda kuze kube yiveki le-16 lokukhulelwa. Vumela umntu ohlala ngaphakathi ngaphakathi, uya kuqalwa aze athathe ingcambu ekuphumleni. Ngoko ndenze. Ndalindela ixesha, ndaphinda ndadibana nodokotela kwaye ndaqalisa ukusebenza kwiprogram nganye, eyenziwa ngumqeqeshi wam.
Umculi odumile uKatyya Lel, kwaye wenza ntoni? Kaninzi?
UKatia L.: Into efanelekileyo enokuthi ibe ngowesifazane okhulelwe kukuba, ke, ukubhukuda kunye nePilates. Kanye ngeveki, ndenza into enye, kwakhona, enye.
Ukutya okukhethileyo kukuphawula nayiphi na?
UKatia L.: Uyazi, okokuqala ngqa kwiminyaka engama-30, ndiyidla ngokupheleleyo. Ndandidla ukuzama zonke iintlobo zeesidlo ngexesha lonke, kwaye ke ... ndazinika ithuba lokuba ndonwabele ukutya. Ndiyidla into endiyifunayo! Into kuphela ehlala ingatshintshi kukutya okuhlukeneyo.
Ucinga ukuba, liphi ixesha elona lihle kakhulu lokukhulelwa, ngexesha lini?
UKatia L.: Ngokuqhelekileyo, ndaya kukhulelwa, ndazilungiselela. Ndalindela ixesha elibalulekileyo lobomi ukuba ndidlule kwaye ndibelethe umntwana ngoxolo.
Bamxelela njani intanda ukuba wayeza kuba nguyise?
KL: Nge ... iifom (ihleka). Uyabhala: "Mzalwana, kubonakala ngathi sinendaba ezilungileyo" ... Wabuyela ngokukhawuleza, ndamxelela yonke into. Watshitshiswa ... Ngovuyo, kunjalo!
Uthi ungatshintsha kalula imeko yakho ... Nangona kunjalo, ukukhulelwa ngumthwalo onzima emzimbeni.
KL: Uyazi, kunjalo, kunzima, kodwa ... Into ephambili yile mvavanyo. Yinto enye xa umva ubuhlungu nje ngaleyo ndlela, kwaye enye yinto yokuba ulindele umntwana kunye nokuncinciza okufutshane ... Ngokulindelekileyo ummangaliso kakhulu kwihlabathi, unokunyamezela yonke into.
Imfashini yokubeletha nomyeni wayo ihamba kancane. Kwaye ndifuna ukukubuza: ngaba uza kuzalwa nomlingane wakho?
KL: Hayi, ndicinga ukuba akukho nto. Makhembele kwithuba lokuqala lokubeletha, ndihambise ekuzalweni uze ubone umntwana emva kokuzalwa ... Ndicinga ukuba amadoda awakulungele ukuveliswa kwemvelo. Nantoni na into ayithethayo, ngaphezu kokuzithemba: inkqubo yokubeletha iya kumenza (kwaye kungekhona nje umyeni wam) ingcinezelo yengqondo.
Ngaba usuvele uqulunqa igama elincinci?
UKatia L: Ngoko, sikhetha ngokukhawuleza. Sifuna. Kuya kuba lunqwenelekayo, ukuba ukusuka kumacala onke kwakulungile, ngokudibeneyo kunye ne-patronymic, ifani. Ndandithanda ukuthanda amagama anjengoMaxim, uElizabeth, uAnastasia ... Ngakolunye uhlangothi, apha uzalwa, siza kumbona ebusweni - kwaye yonke into iya kuvela ngokukhawuleza.
Umculi odumile uKatya Lel, uqhubeka uqhuba okanye uthathe ikhefu? Emva kokubeletha uye eholide?
KL: Kakade, ndiyaqhubeka. Ngomntu ongenamsebenzi onzima ukuhlala ekhaya. Akunam kuba akuyami. Kwaye ndiyakwenza, kwaye ndidubula, ke, phantse zonke iinqwelo zokurhoxisa. Kwimeko apho. Kwaye ndiya kusebenza ukuba yonke into ihamba kakuhle, kwithuba lokuqala, andinakukucinga nje ubomi ngaphandle kwalo ... Umama uya kusinceda umntwana. Ngandlela-thile andifuni ukucinga ngamannies, kodwa umama unina. Yakhe, indoda ethembekileyo.
Katia, kwaye kwizicwangciso kufuneka ube ngumama okungenani elinye ixesha?
UKatia L: Ndicinga ukuba kufuneka kubekho abantwana ababini kwintsapho.
Katya, wabelane ngemfihlelo, uza kujongwa njani?
Katia L.: Ngokufanelekileyo. Ndiza kubuya ngendlela eqhelekileyo yobomi, ndiya kudla, inyaniso, ndiza kuba nemidlalo xa ndigqibile ukutya. Kwakhona ndiya kuza echibini, ubuyele kwimithwalo yangaphambili kwimpilo kwaye ... iya kuthi (kwaye yintoni oyenzayo?) Ukumamela, njengaphambili, ukutya okunempilo.
Katya, abantu abaninzi bokudala, ngokuchanekileyo, oomama okanye abaqinileyo, banomdla wokunikela into kumntwana wabo ...
UKatia L.: Kakade! Oku kucacile kwaye kuyaqondakala xa ufuna ukwabelana ngokuzonwabisa kunye nehlabathi lonke! Ndabhala ingoma ngomsana wam, kwaye uya kufaka i-albhamu elandelayo. Kuthiwani na? Kunzima ukuchaza ngamazwi. Xa ulindele ummangaliso, malunga nemeko apho umama ozayo, xa elindele ukuzalwa kwengane yakhe.
Ngokuncedwa ngamabali omculi othandwayo uKatya Lel, sazama ukukuxelela malunga noko wayeziveleyo, kwaye indlela yakhe yokukrazula ngayo yayingaphakathi. Kungekudala umculi othandwayo uKatya Lel wazalelwa umntwana onobubele nonempilo.