20+: "Oo, amandla wam enamandla ..."
Ubume obuqhelekileyo : njani amahomoni athatyathwa! Egazini nje kuhamba-testosterone, ekhuthaza intombi esezantsi ukuba iqalise imisebenzi esebenzayo -yodwa enye i-skirt kunye ne-neckline enkulu (kungeyena wayo kuphela) ayikwazi ukubonwa, ulwaphulo oluqhubekayo, umnqweno wobudlelwano obusondeleyo ngomhla wokuqala. Kule minyaka yobudala abantu bazivakalela ukuba bangama-giants of real sex, kwaye ngendlela, abayikude ne nyaniso. Basenokwenzela uthando kuze kube sekuseni, kwaye kusasa, njengokungathi emva kokuphumla okulungileyo, uye emsebenzini kwaye usebenze kuze kube sekukhukhuleni kwesixhenxe. Yaye ebusuku, iphinda ikhutshwe ngamandla, isondo. Njengomthetho, amatshontsho ayakuma, kwaye ukuba oko kwenzeka, kuphela ngenxa yezinto ezinokuthi zenzeke kwixesha elingenakwenzeka. La madoda ahlale ekulungele ukuvavanya, kodwa kaninzi abanalo umonde okwaneleyo. Ngendlela, kuyathakazelisa ukuqaphela ukuba phantsi kwegama elithi "ukuhlukahluka" bahlala beqonda kuphela utshintsho lwe-pose, kwaye ngokubhekisele kwenguqu ye-tempo, uhlobo lwe-preludes ye-Ilaska, yonke into apha inzima kakhulu, njengetanki. Ekugqibeleni, ndifuna ukongeza into enye: kule minyaka yethu i-bogatyrs eselula (Kakade, akukona konke oku kusebenzayo) akwaziyo ukulawula indlela yokulawula ukunyuka. Ngoko umkhiqizo weerabha kufuneka ube ngumncedisi wakho umxhelo wezinto ezithuthuzelayo!
Indlela yokumcebisa ngayo loo ngcamango, "eyona nto iyona intshaba yezinto ezilungileyo" ayinxulumene nesini. Ngoko thabatha umyalelo wesiluleko sobulumko nesigulane. Ukuqala, ukuze "uphucule ubugcisa bakho," ii-hawks ezineminyaka engama-20 kufuneka zifunde ukulawula ukunyuka. Oku kunokuncedwa ngokuqeqeshwa okulula kwezihlunu ze-nococcygeal, ngamanye amagama, iimisipha ezibandakanyekayo, xa kuyimfuneko ukukhusela inkqubo yokuthumela i-malaise yesidingo. Ngoko uchaze ukuba iqabane lakho kwaye utsho ukuba akulukhuni kunzima ukuqonda okokuqala. Kwaye ekugqibeleni, xa uneminyaka engama-20, unokuzama konke, into eyintloko oyithandayo kwaye ujabulele amaqabane omabini.
30+: i-connoisseur kunye ne-gourmet efanelekileyo
Ubume obuqhelekileyo : oku akusixesha, kodwa ubabalo lokwenene! Ubundlobongela benyama bwancipha, kwaye loo ndoda yaba yinto ebonakalayo. Kakade ke, oku akuthethi ukuba akayi kubeka ingqalelo kwiinyawo ezincinci eziya kuye ukuya kwintlanganiso, kodwa ngeli xesha nje sele engayi kuhlushwa kakhulu ngcamango engafanelekanga. Ngoku sekuyisikhathi sokubonisa i-aerobatics, equlethwe kwisigaba-esiteji esidlalayo-ukukrazula kwangaphambili kunye nokufundela imimandla engafanelekanga kuphela yabasetyhini, kodwa yabanye. Unesineke, unesineke, kwaye uyaphumelela ngokugqibeleleyo zonke izifundo ngokuphathelele ukuba ubungakanani bunikezele kumgangatho. Uvele esazi malunga nazo zonke iintlobo zesini, wazama waza wazikhethela oko akufunayo, ukukrazula iinkolelo ezingenangqondo. Oko kungabikho kwexesha kunokulilazisa umfanekiso wonke: kule minyaka, amadoda ayazinikela emsebenzini. Uninzi lwabo sele luneentsapho. Yaye yonke into apha iphezulu, kuquka ukulungiswa.
Yiyiphi isiluleko kuye. Ingozi kuphela eyongela umntu kule minyaka ngenxa yokuba 'unokushiya isondo esikhulu' ngenxa yokungabikho kwexesha. Ewe, oku akuthethi ukuba ufanele uphile ngokuvumelana neskimu: "isondo sixabiso elixabisekileyo! Ukukhathala, ukuphumla, kodwa ixesha elide ukushiya othandekayo ngesondo akufanelekanga. Shayela othandekayo "kwi-sex duel" yonke imihla, uvakalisa iintsuku ezithile zeveki kuphela ngeyakho. Kwaye ungacingi ngako, kuba ulwalamano olusondeleyo kwishedyuli luyingozi. Ngendlela, xa kuthelekiswa ngesondo esivamile, oku kuluhlu olugqithiseleyo loxinzelelo. Kwaye enye into - ubuyekeze imenyu yokucaca kwayo: utywala utywala, uncinci kunye nokusetyenziswa rhoqo kwemvelo, i-nati kunye ne-kefir. Apha unako ukwengeza iimvakalelo zezemidlalo kunye ezilungileyo.
40+: isiqhelo nesifiso sayo
Ubume obuqhelekileyo : izinga le-testosterone egazini lomntu liyancipha ngokukhawuleza kwaye uqala ukuba nomdla kwimincili yenyama. Ukunciphisa ukulungiswa kukukhumbuza nge-physiology. Amadoda kwiqela elithi "komas 40" kufuneka aqonde ukuba ibhiya eninzi kunye ne-cock chops basebenzisa, ngokuncinci banokutyelelwa "ngolonwabo" ngaphantsi kwelinqeni. Kwaye konke oku kukukho ukuba i-cholesterol ithinte kakubi imithana yegazi, kubandakanye nalabo ababonelela ngegazi ukulungiswa. Ngenxa yoko, ithathaka kwaye ibe ngumhambi onqabileyo.
Kodwa ke, "amashumi mane ngomsila" ngumfanekiso ophikisanayo. Ukuthozama kwiminqweno kaninzi kufumana ukuhambelana nomfazi okanye iqabane elivivinywe ngexesha, kodwa kungekhona nantoni malunga nokuvelisa, okuyiyo ndlela, indoda ifuna kakhulu. Kweminye imicimbi, intshebe yegrey isesekude, kodwa idemoni isele "ingene" kumbambo.
Indlela yokumnika iingcebiso. URutin yintshaba ebaluleke kakhulu kwisondo kule minyaka. Ukusuka kumlingane, indoda inamanyathelo amaninzi avuselela iimvakalelo, kodwa, njengomthetho, akenzi. Lapha kuwe kunye noqhelwano phakathi kwebala lokuthanda. I-borrowing inconywa ukuba iqhube indlela ephucukileyo-ividiyo yokuqhekeka, ukutyelela kwimivalo ye-striptease kunye neentengiso zesini. Kuya kuba mnandi ukwabelana nomhlobo nomhlobo wezinto zakho ezisondeleyo. Ixesha eliqhelekileyo ngumenzi wobubi kwaye ubulala indoda yonke into yesondo.
50+: "Kukho izibhamu kwiiflasks zethu!"
Iimpawu eziqhelekileyo : njengomthetho, amalungu enesini esomeleleyo kuneminyaka yobudala beeigneurs sele sele ede kunye nabo kwaye ininzi yazo yonke inxulumene nesigaba sothando. I-Order iyanciphisa ukulungiswa, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kwezinye iimeko, ngokubanzi, ukungabikho kwayo. Yaye iphoso ligqitywe imilambo yegazi egugile. Ngendlela, enyanisweni, njengoko kuboniswa ngabaphandi abaninzi bezesondo, isizathu esona sikhulu, esichasene nesondo, kuthathwa njengengendawo engezantsi kwibhande, kodwa intloko. Ngangaphi na umntu ecinga malunga neliphi ithemba elibuhlungu, bathi, "akukho nto kule plan ayiyi kuncumoza kum," amathuba amaninzi okuphumelela kwimiphumo embi. Ngoko ukuba umnqweno usaphila kwaye akukho sizathu sokuzitshutshisa ngokuqinisekileyo kwakhona. Amadoda athile kweli nqanaba aphelisa uhambo kwaye ahambe kwiinjongo ngezinye iindlela.
Unjani na isiluleko esinikwe kuye. Akwanele ukucebisa kulo mzekelo, kufanelekile ukuba wenze ngokuthe ngqo kwaye ngenjongo yokwenza! "Qala" umthandayo ngoncedo lokumomotheka okwenkqisayo kunye neengceba ezaneleyo ngezizathu. Ukuvuselela ngokukhawuleza yinto efunekayo ngokwenene! I-Ikstati, kuyimfuneko ukuthetha le ngxaki ngamandla kunye nokungakhathali. Kubalulekile ukukhankanya enye into: iqabane lingenakufikelela "ekugqibeleni" kungekudala, ngoko kufuneka ulungelele kwisihloko sento oza kuyenza ukuba ulinde ukunyuka. Ngamanye amazwi, ibhinqa idinga umonde kunye nokuthobeka okukhulu. Ngendlela, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba, ngokungathi ngokucacileyo ukhetho lwakho aludluli kwiiparitha, usenomdla kwaye unentshiseko enkulu yokuthandana, ukudibana, ukunyamezela, ukunyamezela nokunyamekela. Okokuqala kwaye ngokubalulekileyo, kuxhomekeka kwintombi ukuba indlela efanelekileyo yokuziphatha ngayo umntu - "kwakukho ityala" okanye "kuya kuba njalo!".
Kwaye ufuna ukufaka kwisihloko, umntu othe wachaza ukuba ngaphezu kweminyaka, abafazi bafana nendlovukazi yekhephu, apho inkundla yesigqeba ayinqabile kakhulu, unako ukuhleka ngokukhawuleza kwaye uqiniseke ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba nakweyiphi na iminqweno yamadoda ihlala ixhomekeka kuphela ukusuka kwabasetyhini nakubusini bakhe, kwindoda nangayiphi na iminyaka ngumntu ohlala kunye nobuthixo bakhe kunye neenkolelo, kwaye thina bafazi simele simncedise ukukhuthaza iingcamango zakhe kunye nokuphindaphinda! Khumbula, ubudala bezinto ezingengundoqo, umnqweno oyintloko kunye nokudibanisa kunye namathuba abo!