Indlela yokujonga umthandi omhle kumntu

Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukuze uqonde indlela umntu oza kuziphatha ngayo ebhedeni nokuba ngaba ufanelekile kakhulu njengomthandi, ukwanele ukugcina indlela yakhe yokuziphatha, ukuhlaziya ezinye iinkalo zentetho yakhe kunye nezenzo kunye nezigqibo ezifanelekileyo. Apha sinika ezinye zeempawu ezingabakho kumthandi omhle.

Ikhulile kwaye inenceba

Ukuba umntu uyabonakala ukuba ungumntu onyanisekileyo, ububele obubonakalayo, imbeko kunye nokunyamekela, ngoko ngokuqhelekileyo ebhedeni uya kuba nobubele kwaye abathandekayo. Ukuba akayi kukuphazamisa, uthi emva kokuba usuqedile ukuthetha, uvula iingcango phambi kwakho kwaye uphonsa isihlalo sakho, ngoko kwiimeko ezininzi uya kuphulaphula nawe ebhedeni. Ngokuqhelekileyo, unokuphulaphula nayiphi na isicelo kunye nesifiso, kwaye uya kulungela nantoni na ukuba uyambonisa ukuba uyamjonga njengomntu ongcono kwihlabathi.

Ukukhangela koqhagamshelwano olunxibelelwano

Ukuba uhlala efuna ukukuchaphazela, kuyo nayiphi na inxalenye yomzimba, kwaye uzama ukuthintela ngokungathi ngengozi-oku kuthetha ukuba wayenomdla kuwe. Indoda enjalo iya kuhlala ikuxhasayo ngendoda, i-podustruku, ivula iinwele kwizinwele - kwaye konke oku kuthetha ukuba xa elala, uya kuchitha ixesha elide lokuqala. uncedo apho angayenza intombazana ibe yintlaba yezinto ezilungileyo. Ukuba unolwazi, uya kwenza ukuba achukumise kwaye asebenze ngokungaqhelekanga, okuqhelekileyo kubangele umnqweno ovuthayo kumfazi. Ukuba uwela yonke imida kwaye uzama "ukubamba" ibhinqa, ibonakalisa ukugula kwakhe nokungahambi kakuhle kuphela ithuba lokulala nawe.

Soloko i cebisa

Ukuba umntu unomdla wokuqala kwintlobo yokutya intombazana ekhethayo, kwaye ke ikhokelela kwindawo yokutyela xa engayi kuthanda kwakhe xa eya kwi-cinema, kodwa kuye, ukuba ukhetha isipho ngokuhambelana neminqweno kunye neminqweno yentombazana ngokwayo, ehleli embhedeni uya kuba yinto efanayo, Ndoloko ndibuza ukuba yintoni into enjengentombazana, yintoni eyenza ukuba yintoni na engayamkeliyo i-podkakim. Oku kufana nabasetyhini, kuba esi simo sengqondo sibonisa ukuba bayabongwa kwaye bayathandwa. Ukuba umntu akayikunyamekela oko intombazana ifuna, ngoko kunokwenzeka ukuba kuye kukho iimpawu ezifana nokuzithanda kunye nokuzingca, okuhlala kubonakala kwiindawo ezithandanayo, ngoko akunakwenzeka ukuba ujabule kunye.

Ndiyathanda ubukhulu kwaye andithandi ukukhawuleza

Ukuba iqabane lithanda ukwenza konke ngokugqibeleleyo kwaye ngokunyanisekileyo, kungekhona ukukhawuleza naphi na ukuzisa umphumo ukufezekisa-phawula le ngongoma. Ngokuqhelekileyo, isondo kunye nomntu onjalo uya kuba yinto efanayo - engenaswele, enhle, enokuqala kwangaphambili, kunye neengxoxo ezide. Nangona kunjalo, into ephambili apha akuyikudibanisa ubuchule kunye nobutyebi obuqhelekileyo, akuyinto efanayo.

Uthanda intombazana

Ukuba umntu uthanda nje umlingane wakhe kwaye ulungele ukungena nantoni na, ngoko kwisicwangciso sesondo uya kulungele yonke into. Ngaba uyamxabisa iqabane lakhe kwisambatho sakusihlwa? Ngoko xa uya kumnqumbisa, amehlo akhe aya kutshisa ngomlilo omkhulu. Ukusebenzisa ngokunjalo oku, kulandela ngokucophelela kwaye ngobuchule ukuba umntu ulungele ukumnqula ngokukhawuleza.

Izibalo

Iingcali zenzululwazi zaseCanada zenze uphando olubonisa ubudlelwane phakathi kokuziphatha komntu olele embhedeni kunye nombala weenwele zakhe. Iziphumo zinike iziphumo ezilandelayo: ii-brunettes zihlala zihlala kumbhedeni zizama kwaye zilawula, zihluke ngcamango enomdla, i-blondes echasene neqondo lokuzola, ukulungelelanisa phakathi kwezi zimbini ezigqithiseleyo, nto leyo eyenza ukuba ingabonakali. Yaye ukuba iinwele zinzima kwaye zinzima, loo mntu uya kusebenza ngakumbi kunene eneenwele ezithambileyo.

Kuyinto engafanelekanga ukuba umntu ophethe umntwana, ungcono. Nangona kunjalo, abaninzi abanokholo kwengqondo bathi le nto ayinjalo-ukuba umntu akanelisekanga ngobukhulu bendoda yakhe, uya kuzama ukuhlawulela "ukungabikho" ngothando kunye nomdla kumlingane, ngexesha elifanayo njengoko abanikazi beefowuni eziqhelekileyo abavumi ukunyamezela iqabane, bekholelwa ukuba kuqhelekile.