Indlela yakhe: indoda yangempela. Yaye yintoni na umntu oyinyani omele akwenze? Akalokothi akhulume ngeengxaki zakhe, ephuma kwiintetho zomsebenzi ezifana "Konke kulawulwa." Kodwa ubuza malunga neengxaki zakho kwaye uchaza ngokucacileyo ukuba yonke into iya kugqitywa. Uqobo. Emva koko udibanisa ibali lokunqoba iintshaba. Iyintoni umcimbi: Uyakhumbula ukuba ekuqaleni kwentsapho yakho yenzani ukuhlambalaza ngokukuthwala kwiingalo zakho nokukhupha izicucu zomhlaba? Ufuna ukuba kube njalo, kwaye inkwenkwe yakho ayinanto yokwenza kodwa ibonisa indoda yangempela. Uyesaba ukuvuma ukuba akakwazi ukwenza oko - kodwa kuthekani ukuba uyamjonga ngendlala kwaye uyeka?
Ukubheka kwixesha elizayo: usakwazi ukujamelana neengxaki zakhe, kodwa uhlala ungaguquki. Kwenzeka ukuba izixhobo zakhe zidibanisa kuphela. Uthukuthele, kwaye uyaqhawula, ukuze ubuncinane wenze ngezinye izinto ngenye into.
Lifebuoy: zama ukubeka isithsaba kwaye utshintshe indima. Ngokuqinisekileyo imeko isele ikukhathaze, ngoko kuthethwa ngobumnene kumfana: ufuna (kunye nokubaluleke kakhulu, unokukwazi) ukujongana neengxaki zakho, kuba kungenjalo uya kuziva ubuthathaka kwaye ungenalucalulo, kwaye uya kuhlala esindoda. Kodwa uhlala ujabule ngeengcebiso kunye noncedo lwakhe. Futhi umcele ukuba ahlanganyele iingxaki, kuba uyamthanda kwaye ufuna ukukunceda. Njengoko uzimisele "ukuthobeka", unokwenza okuninzi.
Ukuzama ukubukeka okhethekileyo.
Isitayela sakhe: umthengisi webali. Kwi-kindergarten, walondoloza ama-hostage ayikhulu, kwaye unyaka odlulileyo waqaphela kwiqela kwaye wabiza ukuba adlale kwi-Broadway, kodwa akazange avume ngenxa yobuhlobo bakho. Yenziwe kakuhle. Kodwa, lo ngumntu wokwenene.
Yintoni engalunganga: ukungakhuselekanga kokungabikho kwakhona kwakhona. Umntu uyesaba ukuba uya kulahleka ngaphandle kwemvelaphi yezinye iifestile, okanye ufuna ukuphuma ngaphandle kwakho (okwenene, yayiyinkokheli yehlabathi karate kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo indoda yinyani). Ukuqwalasela kwakho, umntu ohluphekileyo ulungele ukuseka nayiphi na into, kwaye enze nantoni na.
Ukujonga kwikamva: kungekudala okanye kamva uya kufumanisa ukuba konke oku buxoki. Ngaba uthandana nomntu ongekho nje? Ewe, ungamangalisi ukuba uthetha into yokuba wayeqamba amanga kuwe ngenxa yezinto ezibalulekileyo zikaRhulumente.
Lifebuoy: ukuba le ndoda iyithande kakhulu kuwe, thatha yona ezandleni zakho. Akunakuqonda ukuthetha ngokuthe ngqo ukuba uyazi ngamanga akhe - ebanjwa ngamanga umntu osondeleyo uhlambalaza. Ngokuqhelekileyo zibuza malunga nezinto eziqhelekileyo kwaye ungayilibala nakwizinto ezintle (kodwa yonke into efanayo).
UJulia Sobolevskaya , ngokukhethekileyo kwisiza