Akukho mfazi unokukwazi ukuphila ubomi bakhe ngaphandle komntu, ngokusemthethweni, njengokuba engenaye. Kodwa bonke abafazi abanokuziqhayisa ngokuba nomntu onjalo. Emva kwakho konke, ukuze angabi nje kuphela kuwe, kodwa wakuthanda kakhulu, kufuneka uqonde indlela yokwenza umntu onwabileyo. Emva koko, kuphela xa evuya, nawe uya kuba njalo.
Uninzi lwesiqingatha esomeleleyo luchaza ukuba umsebenzi ophumeleleyo, ngokwesondo, kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, ubhiya - ezi ziiminyango ezintathu eziyinyaniso apho zonke izolonwabo zoluntu zakhiwa. Kodwa ngaba loo nto injalo inyaniso? Okanye ngaba kunjalo uluhlu lwento umntu ayifunayo ngokwenene ulonwabo, akunjalo? Qonda ukuba impendulo yombuzo obonwe ngolonwabo loluntu isisombululo kwingxaki yolonwabo. Emva koko, isondo esinamandla, njengabo bonke abantu, sinoxinzelelo, ngokukodwa, njengabesifazane ngokwabo. Nantsi nje imvelaphi yezinto ezinjalo zokulahla zihluke kakhulu. Ukongeza, ayenzeki njalo. Ngokuqinisekileyo isizathu esona sikhulu sokuxinezeleka kwindoda kungabikho kwemali, kunye nokunganeliseki ngokwesini. Nangona kunjalo, oku akuzona kuphela iingxaki zamadoda ethu. Enyanisweni, kukho iindlela ezininzi ezinokukunceda ukujika umthandi wakho ube nethemba kwaye wenze indoda ibe nemihlali.
Endaweni yemali. Uninzi lwezesiNgesi ososayensi, ngenxa yezifundo, bakwazi ukubonisa ukuba umsebenzi olala embhedeni nomfazi ubatshintsha nge-akhawunti yebhanki. Emva kwakho konke, kuba isondo esomeleleyo kakhulu, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ube ngumnikeli, kwaye ube nekhredithi eninzi. Nangona uphando luye lwabonisa ukuba abaninzi abantu abanobudlelwane bobulili becala banomdla ngakumbi, banolonwabo kunabo abanemali ephezulu kakhulu. Ekubeni ubulili bemihla ngemihla ngenye yezindlela eziqinisekileyo zokonwaba, ngokuqhelekileyo, nayiphi na indoda. Musa nje ukuzama ukusungula nayiphi na iisksi. Ukongezelela, ezo zenzululwazi ziye zafumanisa ukuba ukuhlukahluka okunjalo akunakuze kufane ukufana nobomi obonwabileyo, obuphumelelayo ngokwesondo. Enyanisweni, ngokuchasene, izibini eziphantse zikhetha iimeko ezifanayo ziyavuya. Ekubeni bonke banelisekile kwaye banjalo.
Dumisani abantu obaziyo . Abasetyhini abaninzi bacinga ukuba kutheni amadoda abo ahlala ephindaphinda amabali abo, kwaye aphindaphinda amaxesha alishumi ibali elifanayo? Ewe, umthandi wakho ufuna ukuva kuwe ekuphenduleni ibali lakhe indumiso yeempumelelo zakhe, iitalente. Emva koko, abameli bezesondo eziqinileyo baninzi kakhulu ngokuncoma, kunye nabameli bezesondo ezibuthathaka. Kungcono ukukhumbula ukuxhaphazwa kwakhe ngokuqhelekileyo, kuba umntu unokukhetha enye yeendlela ukhetha ukuzenza ulonwabo lwakho. Ngelo xesha, umntu akafanele akhulume nantoni malunga nokuncoma okungekho nto, ufuna nje ukumdumisa ngezinye ikhonkrithi, izenzo zangempela. Ngoko, umzekelo, unokudumisa ngokutya okuphekiweyo okanye izitya zokuhlamba, okanye isipho sonyaka omtsha. Emva kwakho konke, nayo yonke imeko efanelekileyo yokuguquka kuyimfuneko ukuvumela umntu obathandayo ukuba azi ukuba kubaluleke kangakanani. Kwaye kuya kudumisa ukuba kungabi yedwa, kungcono nakubantu obaziyo.
NeMidlalo kunye. Unokubona umntu onwabile kwaye ngoncedo lwezemidlalo jikelele. Emva koko, oku kubangelwa kukuba, xa umntu engonwabile, kusenokuthetha ukuba uyaxhatshazwa into ethile. Imisebenzi enjalo yemidlalo inokunciphisa kakhulu uxhalabo lwakhe, kwaye izifundo ezikhoyo kwinkampani aziyi kuba nzima. Ngoko ngenxa yokusebenza ngokomzimba umzimba kunye nengqondo ingakwazi ukuphumla, kwaye ezinye iicekisi zokuxinzezeleka ngokomzimba nazo zikhutshwe emzimbeni. Eyona ndlela, indlela engcono yokulondoloza isiqingatha sakho esithandekayo ekukhathazeni kuya kuba namandla okuphambanisa imisipha. Yaye iimfumba ezinamandla ziphakamisa ukuzithemba kwakhe. Kwakhona, umntu uyakwazi ukuziva ulawulo phezu kwayo yonke imeko, kwaye le nto yinto ebaluleke kakhulu ebomini ngokubanzi.
Siya kulahla abahlobo . Masiqaphele ukuba kumadoda, abahlobo babonwa njengongcweliseko olungcwele, olungenakuxoxwa ngazo nayiphi na indlela, nangona kunjalo ukugxeka. Nangona abahlobo banokuba nefuthe elibi kakhulu kumntu wakho. Ngoko omnye uprofesa wenzululwazi kwiIyunivesithi yaseHarvard uthe ukuthetha nomhlobo kunokubeka indoda yakho kuxhomekeke kuye. Emva koko, ukutshaya, nokusela utywala, kunye nokunyanyisa kuyahanjiswa, ngokuqhelekileyo, konke ngokunxibelelana. Kwaye ukuthetha nesoka kunye nabahlobo bakhe abangatshatanga banokunciphisa umongo wokonwaba malunga ne-17%. Ngoko ukunxibelelana nabahlobo abapheleleyo kunokwandisa amathuba okubonakala kweekhilogram ezingadingekile, malunga nama-57%.
Ukutya ukutya okunempilo . Ngoku kutshanje, izazinzulu zakwazi ukufumanisa ukuba akukho ukutya konke kunokukwenza umntu wakho ajabule. Ngokukodwa, kuluhlu lweemveliso ezilungileyo kule ndawo, iimveliso zingabandakanya iintlanzi ezinobuthi kunye nobisi, iibhanana kunye nenkomo, kunye nesipinashi kunye namanqatha. Kwaye ukufakwa kwezi mveliso ekudleni akukwazi nje ukwenza umntu onwabileyo, kodwa naye uya kuzincipha. Emva koko, ubisi luqukethe amaminerali athile, unciphise kakhulu uxinzelelo. Kwaye i-acids acids, ekhoyo kwaye iqulethwe kwiintlanzi, inokususa ingqondo. Kwakhona phawula ukuba ngenxa yamabhanana, emzimbeni wakhe, i-hormone ethile i-melatonin, ngokukodwa, kwaye ixanduva loxolo lwengqondo, iveliswa. Umxube weprotheni kwinqwelo yeoli ye-peanut inceda nokuba ugxininise. Inyama, inyama yenkomo, kunye nesipinashi, iinevithamini ezicebile zeqela eliyimfuneko B, nesitye kunye ne-zinc.
Ugqoke kakuhle . Iingubo ezinjalo zinika umntu wakho ukuzithemba, ngokusemthethweni, kunye nabafazi. Kwaye abafana, kunye nabantu abahloniphekileyo banokuziva bengakhululekile, bemi kwijekethi ephothiweyo ecaleni kwezobuhle obuhle. Kungenxa yoko abo bathandekayo baya ku funeka bajonge, kumnika phantse iholide ihembe elihle, okanye ijezi okanye izihlangu. Kodwa kuphela kusengaphambili kunyanzelekile ukufumanisa yonke into, okubhekiselele kwintsikelelo yayo, kungenjalo ngenye indlela kunokwenzeka kunokuba ubulelo nje ukuba usebenze ngokunyaniseka. Kodwa akufanele uthenge izinto ezingcolileyo. Emva koko, amadoda ayithandi ukuhlawula nayiphi na ingqalelo kuluntu. Ewe, kwaye obomvu, kunye nepinki, kunye ne-lilac, nangona kunjalo, kunye neminye imibala ebhanki - kungekhona intandokazi.
Sinika izipho. Uninzi lweengxelo eziqhutyelwe, ngokukodwa, kwi-intanethi, zakwazi ukubonisa ukuba phantse bonke abafana benza izipho phantse kabini ngaphantsi, xa kuthelekiswa namantombazana. Nangona izipho zabo zibiza kakhulu, kodwa akusoloko zihlaselwa. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba ekusebenziseni amadoda ethu ahlala efumana uNyaka omtsha kunye neNtsuku kaValentine, kunye noFebruwari 23, phantse, ngokufanayo. zangasese, okanye izimonyo. Kungcono ukubuza umthandi wakhe ngesipho ayifunayo. Ewe, makungabi sisimangalo esingalindelekanga, kodwa imali kunye nemisipha ayiyi kuchitha.
Yinyani, yiphathe indoda yakho yonke uthando lwakho. Emva koko akuyi kubakho ukuphazamisa ngaphezu kokokunye okumele ukwenze ukuze wenze uvuyo.