Akukho nto inokukhathazeka ngayo, kuba ukuthanda isini esahlukileyo kubonakala kwindalo ngokwayo, ngoko kubonwa njengenkqubo yendalo. Yaye ngelixa ibhinqa lesini liza kuba libuza ukuba yintoni intombazana enjengamantombazana, abantu abaselula baya kuzibuza ngokuchaseneyo, kodwa umbuzo ofanayo. Kodwa siya kujongana namantombazana kuphela ngoku. Ngoko ke amantombazana athanda ntoni abantu?
Umzobo
Amantombazana akholelwa ukuba ngumfanekiso obaluleke kakhulu kubonakala. Abasetyhini bahlala kwizidlo eziyinkqubo, ba tyelele ii-gyms kunye namaziko enempilo kunye nento yonke ukuze kube lula. Kwaye amaninzi amantombazana aya kumangaliswa xa umhlobo wabo, ubunzima bakhe buphindwe kathathu ngaphezu kokubeka, benovuyo bendoda inkosikazi enhle. Ngoko, kuvela ukuba akuyena umzobo. Hayi, ewe, akufuneki ukuba usebenze umzimba wakho, kufuneka ubeke iliso kumfanekiso, akufuneki ukuba wenze iinguqu ezipheleleyo ezivela kwiintsilelo ezincinci kwaye uthi konke ubunzima obukhulu okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, ukuxhamla ngokweqile. Thanda umzimba wakho kwaye akukho mntu uya kubona ukusilela kwakho.
Ubuso
Kukho amantombazana athululela iinyembezi kwi-pillow, kuba zibona zibi. Kodwa kufuneka ucinge ngoluphi uhlobo lobuhle? Emva koko, umntu ngamnye umqondo wakhe ubuhle? Ukulungisa okufanayo? Kuphela umntu othanda ubungane, amantombazana amomothekayo. Emva koko, oku kukubhinqa intombazana. Oko kukuthi, ukukholisa umntu, kufuneka uguqule isimo sakho sengqondo kwilizwe. Ngokuphathelele iziqholo ebusweni, sinokuthi abantu bayayiqonda, kungenjalo, njengokuthi "ukulwa nombala", owenzelayo xa ekhetha umngane wobomi. Ukubeka nje, upende oluncinane ebusweni, amathuba okufumana umntu. Okokuthi, ukuzenzela kufanele kube kwindawo kwaye ngexesha kwaye akukho.
Indlela yokuziphatha
Kubalulekile kubafana entombazana, kukuhlonela isini esahlukileyo. Oko kukuthi, musa ukumtshela ngokucacileyo ukuba zonke i-muzhiks zibi kwaye akukho zifanelekile kubantu abemi. Ngokufanayo, amadoda awawuthandeli abafazi abathanda ukuxazulula iingxaki zabo. Umfazi kufuneka abe buthathaka, kufuneka acele loo mfana ukuba ancede ukuzisa iibhegi okanye ukuhambisa i-closet. Indoda kufuneka iqiniseke kwaye ifanele. Ingaphakathi lendoda, ngoko kuthetha.
Xa umfana ekhetha intombazana enxulumene nolwalamano oluqinileyo, kwintsapho, ukhangele umfazi omhle, umama kubantwana bakhe kwaye akunakwenzeka ukuba umfanekiso onjalo uya kuhambelana nomfazi otshaya ukusela utywala. Ngoko, kufuneka ucinge. Umfana akayi kudala ulwalamano oluqinileyo nentombazana ethanda ukutyelela iikholeji zokuzonwabisa, ukuxhoma kunye nokuhamba kwindawo yokudlela.
Abafana abathandi:
Awukwazi ukubonisa ingqondo kunye nobuhle bakho, ukubonisa omnye umntu ngokukhanya okubi. Ibukeka bubi kwaye ayithandi indoda.
Ungamthandi umntu kunye nesibonakaliso sobuso obubi. Akufuneki nje ukuba unxibe i-mask of discouragment and disappointment. Oku akucaci ukuba ubuso bomntu bukhangele.
Amadoda ahlale evakalelwa ngokunyanisekileyo, kuba ibonakala kwintombazana. Imvakalelo imele ibe yintsebenziswano, kuphela ngoko ubuhlobo buya kuvuyisa kwaye bude. Ukuba umntu akayithandi, kulula ukuba uthethe ngokukhawuleza aze aqonde emehlweni akhe kunokuba enze sengathi uyaqamba amanga, kwaye ekugqibeleni, utshele loo mntu ukuba akafanelanga.
Ngaloo ndlela, kukho izizathu ezintathu ezibangela ukuba amantombazana ayenganyanzelwanga ngabafana kwinkampani enkulu kunazo zonke-ukungabi nantoni, ukungalungi, ukuzithetha ngokuzithengisa abanye.
Kwaye ungasentla, ungagxininisa into ephambili ukukholisa indoda, kufuneka usebenzise ubuncinci bokubumba ebusweni bakho, ngaphantsi kokugxininisa kwiingxaki zakho kwaye ube ngumfazi ongenene, obuthathaka ofuna inkxaso nenkxaso yabantu.
Uphando oluphumelelayo lwesitya sakho sesibini! Okanye vumela i-ladle yakho yesibili ikufumene!