Bahlala benomdla kunye nabo, banikezwa kwaye bazele ngamandla kunye namandla, sele babone kakhulu, oko kuthetha ukuba banokufundisa nokubonisa ezininzi ebomini. Ngoko ke, amantombazana amancinci athetha ukuba abathandana abatshatileyo abatshatileyo, kunabalingane babo. Emva koko, eneneni, intombazana eyathandana nomntu otshatileyo, ihlala ilinde ubomi obunzima.
Okokuqala, siza kuhlalutya iimigodi zalolu thando.
1. Intombazana ayinakuhlala ibiza umnqweno wakhe, nangaliphi na ixesha elisondeleyo ingaba ngumkakhe. Ngokuqhelekileyo abathandi bathintana nabo, kunye namantombazana ahluphekileyo ahluphekile ngokulindela umnxeba. Ngokuqhelekileyo amadoda abahlobo bawo abizwa ngamagama omntu, kwaye incoko iyomile kwaye iyabunzima - njengenye yeentlobo zobuqhetseba.
2. Ukubonwa kwakhona kuqeshwe ngumntu ngexesha kunye nendawo efanelekileyo kuye kuphela. Khetha indawo ezithulekileyo ngaphandle kweedolophu, ngokulandelelana zokutyela, apho kungabi namnye ohambayo, ukuze angabonwa.
Ubomi obusondeleyo ngokukhawuleza, kwaye kaninzi kwiindawo ezingenakulungele ukuthanda. Emva koko kulandela ukuqokelela okukhawulezayo kunye nokususwa kobubungqina-iimpapasho ezivela kumlomo, iinwele kunye nephunga leqhumiso labesifazane.
4. Ngokuqhelekileyo, kwaye mhlawumbi rhoqo, intombazana ilala yedwa, kuba umthandayo kufuneka alale ekhaya. Ukungathethi ngeeholide kunye neholide.
5. Ikhwele lokubandezeleka, amava abo, ukuzonwabisa, ukunyamezela kunye nomona ngomfazi wakhe, intombazana ayiyinto engenakuyichazela umlingane wakhe, kwaye ayinalo ilungelo, ekubeni yonke into engeyiyo ayiyi kuyiva kumfazi wayo.
Izinto ezintle zothando.
1.Konke kuzaliswe ixesha lokukhulula. Unokwenza ngokukhuselekileyo ukuya kwi-movie okanye kwiklabhu kwaye ngexesha elinye, ngaphandle kokunika i-akhawunti ngexesha elichithwe.
2. Akukho mntu uyabuhlungu imibuzo okanye ucacise ulwalamano, akukho mntu uhlola umnxeba.
3. Kulula ukuyisebenzisa, ukuzenza ngathi banomdla, kuba abanako ukuhlala kunye. Ngako oko, le ndoda ivakalelwa ityala, kwaye kulula ukuyilawula.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, imiphumo yencwadana kunye nomntu otshatileyo inokubangela intlungu engqondweni yengqina. Kwaye ukubuyisela kwakhona ukuqonda kwakho uya kufuna ixesha elide. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba uzukisa kangakanani isidima sakhe, konke okufanayo, into ebaluleke kakhulu kwintsebenziswano ikhona. Umfazi uhlala eyokuqala kwaye ubomi buhlala buqinisekisa le nyaniso. Wayenethemba lokuthi uya kuphuma kunye naye kwiziqithi, kodwa akasebenzi. Wathembise ukuba uyazi kakuhle abazali bakhe, kodwa akayi kukhawuleza. Emva kwentlanganiso, wabubula, wabuyela ngokukhawuleza emva komnyango. Kuye kwenzeka ukuba kwiimeko ezinxulumene nazo zininzi kakhulu kuneenzuzo.
Kubonakala ukuba indoda esatshatileyo inenzuzo kwaye inokwenza ukuba nenkosikazi yentombazana. Okokuqala, akukho mfanelo, nangaliphi na ixesha inombolo ingamiswa kwaye kuphela indoda elolo hlobo iqumrhu lilawula ixesha lobudlelwane. Indoda iyalela iintlanganiso, ukuzaliswa kwazo kunye nobude. Ububambano obunjalo abuyikunyamezela ukupapashwa. Yaye yintoni esele yintombazana? Kwizi zibini ezinjalo umntu uzama ukugubungela izibopho ezimnyama zobudlelwane nezipho ezibiza. Intombazana, efumana isipho ngokukhawuleza ayikhohlwa iintlungu zobudlelwane kwaye iphosa isigqubuthelo sowesifazane owonwabileyo nentanda.
Ngoko ke, ungabikho ithemba lokuba umntu otshatileyo uyisiphephelo sakho, kwaye ukuba nguye onguye kuphela onothando nothando lobomi. Kukho rhoqo ukungabikho ebomini, kodwa imigaqo ibaluleke kakhulu. Ubudlelwane phakathi kwentombazana encinci kunye nendoda esatshatileyo ayifumaneki ekupheleni kokuvuyisa.