Umfazi oyinyani - ngubani na?

"Kwabesifazane kunikwa oothixo
Amandla anjalo anzima ngaphezu kwamadoda angcono!
Kwaye abafazi banobuthakathaka, bengafuni ukufa,
Ngamandla, i-alas, nolawulo oluqinileyo! "
(Cornel Pierre)


Amadoda afana nokulala ngesondo kwaye athande abafazi abathandana ngesondo. Le ngxaki. Omnye wabamphulaphuli ngandlela-thile kwindlela yokuqeqesha ahlula ngokwahlukileyo bonke abafazi kwiintlobo ezintathu - izimbiza, iibastards kunye nabasetyhini abaneencwadi ezinkulu. Kuthe malunga nabasetyhini abanomxholo omkhulu kwaye baya kuxutyushwa. Ngala mabhinqa. Umfazi oyinyani akayi kukhangela imfesane yesikhwele kunye ne-fawn phambi kwendoda, akayi kuhamba ngeengubo ezingcolileyo kunye neengqungquthela ezijikeleze indlu. Akayi kumnquma indoda yakhe yonke into ecacileyo aze axoxe ngeenkcukacha ezithandanayo zesondo zobusuku kunye nabangani bakhe. Yaye uya kwenza ntoni?


Isondo siphela embhedeni, kodwa siqala entloko. Umfazi uyazi oko akufunayo. Uzama, uzive okanye uqikelele. Kwaye isenzi esenziweyo samhlanje "siphume" singabonwa kuphela kwezo zibini ezingakwaziyo ukwenza uthando. Luthando. Kuzo zonke iimpawu ezivela.

Kwaye i-geisha yazazi iindlela ezigqibeleleyo zokuthanda ukupela-ukukopisha imifanekiso yamadoda abo, ngokuzibonakalisa. Ngoku le nkqubo isetyenziswa ngabo bonke abashishini abaphumelelayo. Nantsi ngokwenene imimiselo efanayo yengqondo-kwishishini kunye nothando. Xa ukukopisha isenzo kunye nesantya sokuthetha kwinqanaba elincinci, umntu uyaziwa njengeyakhe. Kungcono uzive ulingane kwaye, ngenxa yoko, ukuhlangabezana nokulindela kwakhe.

Ibhinqa elinencwadana enkulu ayiyi kuvumela ukuba ilandele indoda yayo, imkhathaze ngeefowuni zokusebenza okanye i-SMS-kami. Oku kuya kumbeka kwindawo engafanelekiyo. Ngelo xesha, eli bhinqa likhokela ngokufanelekileyo umdlalo wothando. Ngokuthobeka kwaye kumhle. Into ephambili ekusebenzelaneni nendoda kukunika konke onakho-ukunyamekela, ukunyamekela, ukunyamekela, ukungazicingeli ngawe. Emva koko ufumane iakhawunti ngokuphindwe kathathu. Oku kwenzekayo. Ngabo aba bafazi abangalokothi balibale.

Umfazi oyinyaniso akayi kumelana nombuzo othi: "Siza kuphinda sibonane nini? Uya kundibiza nini na? "Okanye emva kobusuku bokuqala besichitha:" Siza kutshata nini? ". Umfazi uhlala engummangaliso kwintsimi yayo, kodwa yintoni imfihlelo enokuyithandabuza? Indoda kufuneka ihlale iziva njengenkosi. Kwaye ngumfazi onokumnika ithuba elinjalo. Yowesifazane owenza indoda ibe yindoda okanye indoda.

Amadoda ayithandi ukunyanzeliswa ukwenza ukhetho. Baqala ukukhawuleza kwaye baqhele ukwenza izigqibo ezingenangqiqo. Ngaba kufuneka uvavanye iimvakalelo zabo zamandla, ukuba loo mandla ingasetyenziselwa ukudala ubudlelwane obuhlala? "Wambetha." Iva ngaphezu kweyodwa. Ewe, akazange aphephe, kodwa wakwazi ukuthandana naye ngokuzikhethela kwakhe, wakwazi ukutyhila isidima sakhe, isakhono sakhe samadoda. La mabhinqa akahambi. Malunga nabantu abanjalo babhala iimpawu kwaye bazukise ngeenkulungwane.

Abantu banenkolelo enjalo yokuba abantu abathandi abantu abahlakaniphile. Abayithandi abo bafazi abanobuqili kunabo, kodwa abo batyhola iingcambu zabo ngokwabo ubuthathaka kunye nokungakwazi. Umfazi oqikelelekileyo akayi kubonakalisa ingqondo yakhe kumntu. Ungalokothi ubonise ubukhulu bakhe kunanto. Uyakwazi ukudala umyezo wakhe wothando, apho wakhethayo uya kuba ngukumkani kunye no-shah. Abafazi abanjalo bahlala bekhetha amaLucky abo kunye namadoda anamandla. Ngoko kutheni bafuna iimfundiso zokuziphatha zabafazi? Masihlale kubazali bakhe.

Wonke umfazi uyazi ukuba umntu uloyika kakhulu ukusebenzisa. Udla ngokugqithiseleyo ngcamango yokuba ngamnye umfazi ufuna ukumngenisa kwiintanethi, ukuphanga kunye "ehamba e-Afrika ukuqala." Enyanisweni, akuyiyo yonke into evuma le nto. Ngoko ke, i-mercantilism ebudlelwaneni inokuphazamisa yonke into. Oo, ukuba uhlamba umnatha, ubabethe ngelokuba loo mntu ngokwakhe ucebise uhambo lwangaphandle kwezilwanyana kunye neengubo zelinen. Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu, ukuqinisekisa ukuba esi sigqibo sakhe.

Eli bhinqa liqinisekile ukuba nguyena kuphela kwaye uyingqayizivele, akaze adibanise malunga neepounds ezimbalwa okanye iisentimitha. Yaye uyazi kakuhle ukuba into ephambili ayiyiyo inkunzi yesifuba, kodwa ukungabikho kwezakhiwo. Indoda ayigijimanga isuka kwinyameko okanye inqatha, kodwa ivela kwizinto ezingaqinisekanga, zingacacanga kwaye zibophe. Uqonda ngokucacileyo ukuba ngaba besetyhini abazalisekileyo abaza kusebenza.

Ukucula i-ode Abafazi banokuhlala ngokungapheliyo. Kwaye ngamnye wenu, bahlobo bam, uya kufumana into kwaye uzakukwazi ukuqhubeka olu luhlu. Siyazi kakuhle oko uMntu wethu adinga!