Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha akwazi ukuba oku kudlalwa kwidrama efanelekileyo. Yilapho umbuzo uvela, ngubani otyhola ukuba ngubani.
Ngoko, indlela yokuziphatha yabasetyhini isebenza ngayo kwaye ibhekisela ntoni? Iingcali zengqondo zikholelwa ukuba le yindlela yokulungelelaniswa eyenziwa ngaphaya kweenkulungwane ngabafazi. Kwaye, ngenxa yezinto ezingokwemvelo, kodwa ukuguquguquka kwezenhlalakahle, okanye ngamazwi alula, ngenxa yokuhlala namadoda kwindawo yoluntu. Kwaye ndibulela kule ndlela, umfazi akakwazi nje ukuphila kwihlabathi elinobuhlungu lamadoda, kodwa ulungelelanise kuwo, kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo uyabanqoba. Njani? Yonke into ilula: ididekile, kwaye ngoko okokuqala indoda iya kuthulisa ngokumangalisa, ize ichukumiswe, ize ilahlekelwe ngokupheleleyo ingqiqo yakhe. Yaye yonke into, ukulungele, ungayithatha ubuncinane ngezandla zakho! Nangona hayi, akufuneki ukuthatha, kuba kungekudala okanye kamva uza kuza, enze konke okufunekayo, enze konke okufunekayo. Ewe, ndikubulele.
Ngendlela, ingcamango yabasetyhini yinyaniso yezesayensi ende. Ngomsebenzi we-VN Bashkirov, umviwa wesayensi ye-biological ye-Institute of Gene Biology ye-Academy of Sciences yaseRussia, "Kwiindlela zokuvelisa iimodeli zeengcinga zesini", ukuba kukho ukungafani kweengcamango "ngokubanzi" kubonakala. Ngokutsho kwakhe, ingqiqo yabesifazane ikhona ngezinga eliphezulu. Ngokomzekelo, kwi-logic yesigqirha, uphawu olusisigxina "EWE" olunokwenzeka ukuba u-0.5 lunokuthi "u-YE-1", oko kukuthi, isitatimende, kakuhle, sinokuthi "EYE-2", oko kukuthi, ukuphika. Kuyafana okufanayo kwisimboli "CHA". Ukuba iguqulelwe kolwimi oludumileyo, kuthetha ukuba ukuba umfazi uthi akafuni ukutya ikhekhe, oku kuthetha ukuba ulambile ukuziva ukuba i-mufin enomnandi iyancibilika ngolwimi lwakhe. Kodwa, emva kokuphela kokutya kwakhe okutsha. Ukwahluleka kwezinto ezingafaniyo zininzi.
"Isicatshulwa samadoda," amnandi, asikhohlisi, ngamanye amaxesha isisidenge sifihla ukubala okubalulekileyo. Emva koko, umfazi unako konke okusemandleni akhe okufumaneka kuye ukuguqula imeko ngokubanzi ukuqinisekisa ukuba zonke iipesenti ezingama-200 kwisiphumo esihle. Ewe, njengoko besithi, wonke umntu uzele kwaye uyonwabile. Ukuzithemba kwendoda akuzange kuthinteke, kodwa ngokuchaseneyo, yanda kakhulu, kuba igorha, i-superman. Kwaye umfazi wakhe ungumcuphi oyisiphukuphuku kunye nomntu ongenalwazi, umongikazi, umgcini-mali, njl, (uludwe luhlala luvulekile). Ngo-ego yonke into ilungile, ineliseke ngokupheleleyo. Kwaye amadoda namabhinqa.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, ibhinqa elinomntu wesimo sokuziphatha (ukungadideki ngokubonakalayo), ukucinga ngokupheleleyo njengomntu, ukwenza izigqibo zakhe, ukuthatha ingxoxo yakhe yokuthintana, kufuneka kube lula ukwenza imizamo eninzi, kuthelekiswa nendoda kwimeko enjalo, ukufezekisa okufunwayo. Yintoni esinokuyithetha ngayo ngomfazi onomzekelo wesimo sokuziphatha wesifazana? Ubufazi, ngokwemvelo, luyinto ebalulekileyo. Kodwa le ntokazi ayifuni ukuthatha abalalayo emagxeni akhe xa ecaleni kwakhe yindoda enamandla kuzo zonke iimeko, ngoko ke, nkalipho, kwaye nangona izihlunu eziphambanwe. Kwaye unako ukubuza ngokungazi ukuba ngubani igama lo msizi? Oo, "i-triceps"! Ipholile? Kwaye ngokungafuni ukubuza, ngaba kunzima kuye. Ungalibali ekugqibeleni ukubulela kwaye uthi iincwadana ezimbalwa zokuhlukana.