Iindlela zokuxelela ozithandayo ngokukhulelwa

Ngoko, ufunde iindaba ezimangalisayo, ezintle - ngokukhawuleza uza kuba ngumama. Emva kwesikhashana, ukuvakalelwa kovuyo oluxubene nomvakalelo wesimo esingaqinisekanga, omnye umsebenzi oya kudibaniswa: njani ukwazisa ubaba wesikhathi esizayo kunye nendlela aza kusabela ngayo? Siza kuzama ukukunceda ukuyikhawuleza ngokukhawuleza kwaye uchaze iindlela ezininzi eziza kukunceda utshele wakho intanda ngokukhulelwa.

Enye yezona ndlela zininzi - ukuxelela yonke into kwifowuni okanye ukukhupha i-SMS kwaye ungonwabi ukusabela komntu othandekayo, uvuyo lovelwano. Kodwa iindaba zokukhulelwa ngumbali wembali kwimbali yakho yothando kwaye kufuneka uhambe nayo ngokukodwa.

Nendlela eqhelekileyo, eya kunceda ukuxelela othandayo ngokukhulelwa, - ukulinda umyeni emsebenzini kunye nokunyanisekisa into efana nayo. Enyanisweni, kufuneka aqale alungiselele encinci, kakuhle, ncinane uhlale kwi-sofa ekhululekile. Kwaye ... ungafihla imvakalelo yakho, velisa uvuyo lwakho, ukuze umntu omthandayo asondele kuye.

Ukuba umntu wakho akaqinisekanga, ukuba awuqinisekanga ngempendulo yakhe, zama ukuqala ukusuka kude. Umzekelo, isikhalazo malunga nesicongconi, xelela ngokulibaziseka, ekugqibeleni, cingela: ngaba ukhulelwe? Lungisa ngoko uthanda ngayo iintsuku ezimbalwa, xela indlela enkulu ngayo ukukhusela umntwana, kwaye emva kwiveki uya kuba nako ukumxelela ukuba kungekudala uza kuba ngubaba.

Uhlobo oluthile lwe "lungiso" lweendaba ezibuqilileyo yindlela yokuthandana. Zama ukubamema umthandayo ukuba udle ngokukhanyisa ikhandlela. Akunandaba nokuba kwenzeka ntoni: ekhaya okanye kwindawo yokutyela, into eyona nto kukuba umoya awukhombisi kwaye uyamnandi.

Ukuba unomtsalane ongeyithandana, kodwa kakhulu, zama ukuxelela ozithandayo ngokukhulelwa ngethuba xa esemva kwesondo. Ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuba nemvakalelo enamandla kunokwenziwa ngokukhawuleza, nangona i-bumper ihamba phambi kweemoto.

Ukuthintela umyeni wakhe ukwesaba ukuba ngoku uya kuvela kwimvelaphi, ungabonisa ngokucacileyo ukuba oku akunjalo, ugqoke kwiingubo zangaphantsi ezithandekayo, kwaye uxelele othandekayo ngokukhulelwa kwisimo esithandana kakhulu. Ngaphezu koko, ngokutsho kwamanye amabhinqa, ezi ndaba zabangela ukuba isiphepho sengqondo sokuba bona kunye namaqabane abo bafuna ukulala ngokukhawuleza.

Le yincinci nje encinci yeengcebiso ezinganikwa unina. Ukuba ufuna umzuzu wokuvuya okukhethekileyo ukuhlala kwimemori yakho ixesha elide, bonisa imfesane. Kutheni, umzekelo, ungamniki umyeni wam ngekhefu elilandelayo ngeposi elihle ngeposi elibhalweyo: "Uza kuba ngubawo kungekudala" - oku kuya kuba sisipho esihle kakhulu kuye. Esikhundleni sekhadi leposi, ungathumela i-telegram yolu hlobo-umphumo uya kuba mnandi ngakumbi.

Ukuba ucinga ukuba le nto iyingcipheko kwaye ilungile, unokumnika isipho ngecebo: i-bell or bottle. Ukubonakalisa ubuso bakhe kulo mzuzwana awusoze ulibale! Kanye nje xa uya kuye kwiTekhthi kunye nombhalo othi "Uthandiweyo, andiyazi ukuba ndingakuxelela njani ..." kunye nomfanekiso omhle wengane.

Kwaye kuya kuba kuhle kangakanani ukuba umyeni wakho ukuba ubheke ikhekhe kuye, kwaye uya kukhwankqiswa yintoni kwaye uya kuvuya ngayo xa efumana inqaku lezinto ezintle. Njengoko uyakubona, kukho iindlela ezininzi zokuxelela umntu othandekayo ngokukhulelwa, kufuneka udibanise yonke ingcamango yakho kwaye ukhethe okulungileyo.

Fumana umzuzu ofanelekileyo kunye namagama alungileyo kumntu ukuba kungekudala uza kuba nguyise wentsapho ngumsebenzi obaluleke kakhulu kumama ozayo. Emva koko, ngokweengcali zeengqondo, oku kuxhomekeka kakhulu kubudlelwane obusondeleyo phakathi kopapa nomntwana.