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Okokuqala, ngexesha lokubizwa ngokuthi "ukubuyela emva" emva kokuhlukana nomthandayo, akufanele ube yedwa kunye namava akho kunye neengcamango, ezivela ngaphakathi intlungu, hhayi umphefumlo kuphela, kodwa ingqondo. Zama ukuzibamba ngento ethile, uzibethe kwiimeko ezikhethiweyo, ukuzonwabisa okanye ukufunda nje, ukusebenza. Kwaye kukho konke okusemandleni ukuzama ukuhamba eholide okanye ukwenza "ukuhlaselwa" kwiivenkile zetemfayili ngenjongo yokuthenga unyango. Ngamanye amazwi, yenza konke okusemandleni akho ukuphelisa ngokupheleleyo entloko zonke iingcamango ezixhamle apho malunga nomntu oyintanda. Kwiindawo ezizimeleyo nezingenayo iimeko, kufuneka "uhlalutye" yonke into enokuyenza kunye neengxaki zobuhlobo bakho bokuqala kunye nomthandayo. Apha ufanele uqonde ukuba kungekudala okanye i-othodnyak yakho kufuneka ithathe indawo endaweni eqhelekileyo kunye epheleleyo kunye nobukho bobuhlobo obutsha kuyo. Kwaye kunye ne-othodnyakom ngonaphakade ukushiya ukuhlushwa kwakho kunye nokuvakalelwa kweemvakalelo eziseleyo.
Iindlela zokunqoba "isifo sokuhlukana".
Ngoko, ebomini bakho, kwenzeka intlekele, wabuya usukile ukutshatyalaliswa nomfana wakho othandekayo! Ngaloo ndlela, njengoko iimeko ezixakekileyo kwiimeko zakho zengqondo, uhlale uhlala kwelinye leendonga ezine, kwaye "i-othodnyak" yakho ifaka isicwangciso esipheleleyo 'sokutshatyalaliswa' kuthetha: ukudabuka, iinyembezi, iingcamango kunye nezikhumbuzo ongazi phi ukuqhuba. Ngaphezu koko, yonke into ephantsi kwengqondo yakho ivela nomfanekiso waloo "kuphela" oshiye uphawu kumphefumlo wakho kunye nenkumbulo, okwenza uxhalabele kwaye uhlupheke. Kodwa kungakhathaliseki ukuba kwakunjani, kukho indlela yokuphuma kuyo nayiphi na imeko, kwaye ukuba akukho, kuhlale kufuneke ukukhangela into efanayo. Yingakho i-othodnyak kunye nokwahlukana - oku akusiyo isizathu sokuhlala nokulinda, xa kunjalo, ubomi buya kuphucula. Oku, kukuvavanya wena, okufuneka ukuba udluliselwe ngentloko yakho ephakamileyo. Ukuze ukhawuleze ukuphelisa " isifo sokuhlukana" kwaye unqobe imiphumo yaso, sikunikezela iindlela ezintle ezijoliswe ekupheliseni le "ntlungu". Khumbula, into ephambili efunekayo kuwe ukufaka umgca wokuzama!
Ngoko, iindlela zokunqoba ukuhamba kwendawo yokuhlukana kumntu.
1. Memeza, mntwana, khala!
Zifumana "intandokazi" omnye usuku olufanelekileyo, apho uya kuzivumela ukuba uzizisole kwaye ukhale. Kodwa akufanele ukhale nje, kodwa ubambe iinyembezi ezinomsindo kwaye ngexesha elifanayo ukhononda kubangane bakho ngaye, into enjalo. Kakade, yonke into iyingozi. Akushiye. Ngokuhamba kwakhe, ubomi bakho bulahlekelwe yintsikelelo, kwaye emva koko, wayeyena mhle, othandekayo ... Unokukhangela zonke iifoto apho uhlangene, ulalele ingoma yakho oyithandayo naye kanye, kwaye ubukele ifilimu efanayo. Kwaye konke oku, ungakhohlwa ukukhala nokukhala kwakhona. Khumbula ukuba iinyembezi azikho ngaphantsi komsebenzi okhusela umzimba wethu. Yingakho ngale ndlela unako "ukukhala" kuwe yonke imizwa ephazamisayo.
2. "Hayi" kwizinto zakhe!
Ngomhla wesibini emva koko, oko kuthiwa unyango lwezityalo, jonga kwindlu kwaye uqaphele ezo zinto ezikukhumbuza ngazo. Apha ke, qalisa ukusebenza! Ukuqokelela yonke le "miqulu yeememori": iincwadi, iimagazini, iidiski, izipho kwaye zilahla nje. Asinakuphikisa ukuba inceba. Kodwa yenza oko ngokwakho, ufuna nje ukulibala, kwaye ungabuyi kubuyiselwa. Ngendlela, ukuba emva kwexesha ubiza kwaye abuze indlela yakhe yokudlala ithoyizi ehlala kuyo kwaye apho ukhona, unokuthi kalula entliziyweni yakho ukuba waphoswa ngaphandle kwaye waxhonywa. Ngendlela, kuya kuba mnandi xa ulahla iifoto zothando, apho uhlala kunye.
3. Ke kaloku, nyana, phumula!
Ukwenza oku, kufuneka uthathe i-pinch e-7 yetyuwa, amaninzi e-rosemary kunye nokuhlamba ngamanzi ashushu. Dive kuyo, ulale kwaye uphumule ngendlela elandelayo. Emva koko khupha umkhombe uze uqaphele indlela amanzi aphephe ngayo, kwaye kunye nokudabuka kwakho nokubandezeleka kwakho. Yilapho kubalulekile ukuqala ubomi ngephepha elitsha!
4. Ukuqhawula umda wokukhaba!
Zama ukunciphisa ukuya kwiintlanganiso zonke iintlanganiso kunye nomntu owayengumfana. Lumkela abo bahlobo abanomncinci ukukwenza naye.
5. Imifanekiso yonke into!
Ungesabi uvavanyo. Yiya kwi-salon ephathekayo kwaye wenze i-haircut cutting. Khumbula, akukho nto efana nokutshintsha umfanekiso awuphakamisi kakhulu!
6. Udlala yonke intloko!
Xa umntu ebonisa umzimba wakhe ukuba asebenze ngokomzimba, uyaqhubeka, okuthiwa, endorphin, ngamanye amazwi, "ihomoni yolonwabo." Kutheni ungangeni kwimidlalo. Ngendlela, ukufaneleka komzimba akufanele kuzincitshe, ubhalise ukulwa, ukudansa, yoga.
7. Yidla ngaphantsi!
Ngokuqinisekileyo uchitha i-othodnyak yakho kunye nekhekhe yakho oyithandayo okanye ikhekhe kwindawo yakho, kwaye sele sele ufumene iipilisi ezingaphezulu. Iingcamango ezintle izinto eziphakanyisiweyo ziyinyaniso, kodwa akufanele usebenzise kakubi nakwixesha elithile.
8. Phuma kwiingcamango zam, uphume kwamaphupha!
Ewe, into ebunzima emva kokuphula ulwalamano kukucima yonke ingcinga kwimemori. Emva koko, bahamba kakuhle, bazodwa kwaye bazama ukunyuka entloko. Ngaloo mzuzwana indlela efanelekileyo yokufunda. Ngokomzekelo, ubukade uphupha ukufunda isiTaliyane, kodwa awuzange ube nexesha, inkuthazo okanye isizathu salo. Ngoko, unethuba elikhulu lokwenza. Bhalisa kwiklasi ekhethekileyo yeelwimi okanye uqale ukufunda. Kwaye awuboni ukuba zonke iingcamango zakho zitshintshela njani kwenye. Kwaye, ekugcineni, khumbula ukuba ubomi abupheli, ngoko ke, amandla akho kunye nokunyamekela kwakho, endaweni yezinto eziyintliziyo, uhamba phambili ekukhangela uthando olutsha, ngokubaluleke kakhulu, ungaphuthelwa! Inhlanhla!