Imithandazo eqokelelweyo kunye neengcinga zokubuyiswa komntu osuka kwintsapho yomyeni zinikwe amandla akhethekileyo. Akuyi kunceda kuphela indoda ukuba ibuye, kodwa nayo inothando. Kwaye oku kubaluleke ngakumbi. Ubuqili, ngokuqinisekileyo, buyakwazi ukubuyisela i-shell-body in a short time, kodwa umphefumlo obuyiswe ngokuphoqeleka uya kuzinqabisa ngakumbi kunaphambili, kwaye kungekudala emva koko intsapho iya kutshabalalisa ngaphandle kokuthanda kunye nenhlonipho. Imiphumo yoluhlu lolwalamano olunokuba lunxulumene nolwalamano lunokuba lunzima kwaye lunzima. Iingxowa zokudibanisa isibini esitshatileyo zifundwa ngaphandle kwamangqina kunye nokupapashwa. Imithandazo (ukuba imimiselo ayicacisiwe) ivakaliswa ekhaya ngeempawu kunye nekhandlela ezikhanyisiweyo okanye phambi kweempawu kwicawa.
Umthandazo onamandla kunabo bonke abatshatsheli beentsapho zikaPeter noFevronia
Umthandazo kuPetros noFevronia, abajongwa njengabanini bentsapho, baya kubuya umndeni oshiywayo xa kuthethwa ngosuku lokuhlonela abangcwele (ngobusuku bukaJulayi 7-8), okanye ngeCawa (usuku lwentsapho). Ikhonkco yesibini esibinikayo kufuneka imele kwigumbi lokulala, apho umthandazo uza kufundwa khona. Ukuba umyeni usandul 'injongo yakhe yokushiya indlu, kodwa uhlala phantsi kophahla olufanayo nentsapho yakhe, ngoko umthandazo ufundeka kangcono ngexesha lokuhlala kwakhe endlwini. Ukuba sele sele esele, ke kufuphi nomfanekiso kaPetros noFevronia bafake umfanekiso weqabane, oya kunika amandla obuso bakhe.
"Abangcwele abangcwele kunye nabangabonakaliyo, uThixo Omkhulu kaPetros noKumkanikazi weFrronia! Ndiyathetha kuwe, ndiyathandaza, ndilethe imithandazo yam eNkosini uThixo, ndicele kuye ukholo, inyaniso, ithemba, ubabalo, nothando olukhulu! Ndimncede, umkhonzi kaThixo (igama lomfazi) kunye nomkhonzi kaThixo (igama lomyeni) ukuba ahlangane ngonaphakade kwaye aphile ndawonye ubomi bakhe bonke! Amen! Amen! Amen! " Bafunda umthandazo ekuseni kunye / okanye ngokuhlwa ngaphambi kokutshintsha kwengqondo yomyeni. Amandla omthandazo uya kuvuselela uxhalaba kuwo. Uya kufumana ukuphumla kuphela komfazi wakhe, kwaye i-initiative yokuhlanganisana nayo iya kuvela kuye.
Umthandazo wemimangaliso kwiTheotokos
Ukujongana noMariya Oyintombi Intsikelelo ngesicelo sokubuyisela umyeni oyiphutha kunokwenzeka kuphela emva kokukhawuleza kweentsuku ezintathu, ukuvuma nokudibanisa. Emva kokubuya ecaweni ngosuku lwesithathu, umthandazo ufundwa phambi kombhede womtshato ngokuphindwe kathathu:
"Nkosi uNdikhoyo, Ukhuselo lwam, kwaye ndithembele kuwe kuphela! Unina kaThixo, Ungcolengcwele oyiTheotokos, kunye nawe, oNgcwele abangcwele, uva umthandazo wam, owenziwe nguwe, umkhonzi kaThixo (igama lomfazi) ngeyure elinzima, ndincede, buyele umkhonzi kaThixo (igama lomyeni). Ungangishiyi kwintlungu! Nceda ungashiyi ingqalelo yam enomdla ngaphandle kokuqwalasela. O Nkosi Thixo, Ungcwele Ongcwele Theotokos, oNgcwele bangcwele, ndikucela ukuba ubuyisele kuwe intanda yam! Ngoko ke! Amen. " Ngenxa yempembelelo yomthandazo, kuya kuthatha iintsuku ezininzi zonyango olungenasiphelo kwiTheotokos.
Isibheno kwisithombe somyeni wakhe
Amagama omthandazo adluliswa kwisithombe somyeni wakhe kathathu ngosuku. Xa ufunda umthandazo, umntu makayeke umyeni kunye nokunyaniseka ukuba aye kumfazi kwaye amye ambethe ngokufa. Yonke intando kaThixo!
"Nkosi, ndiyathembela kuwe, umkhonzi kaThixo (igama), kumama kaThixo, Intombi Eyintsikelelo noMoya oyiNgcwele. Ndiphakamisa umthandazo wam ongafanelekanga kwaye ndicele uncedo kwiyure edibeneyo. Ungangishiyi kwaye ubuyele kumlingane wentsapho (igama), mkhulule kwisilingo kunye neminqweno embi. Sihlanganisane kunye nendoda ethandekayo, masihlangane kunye kwaye simanyene phambi koThixo nabantu. Amen. " Umthandazo kufanele 'udakwe' kunye nokuhlamba amanzi angcwele uze ufefe isithombe somyeni wakhe.
Umthandazo, ukubuyisela umyeni wakhe kwinkosikazi yakhe
Amagama abizwa emva kokushona kwelanga kwindawo ethile okanye umfanekiso weqabane. Ngethuba lokuthandaza kufuneka babe sekhohlo.
"Njengoko ilanga lacaca esibhakabhakeni, alifumananga ndawo, ngoko ke, umkhonzi kaThixo (igama lomyeni), awukwazi ukufumana indawo ngaphandle kwam. Ekuseni ilanga liya kuvuka kwaye ngokuhlwa liya kubuya kwisihlalo salo. Ngokufanayo nakweyinye indlela - kwintsapho, kumfazi, umkhonzi kaThixo (igama lomfazi). Ngoko ke! Amen! " Bafunda umthandazo ngokuhlwa kwamathathu. Amandla omthandazo aya kwenza indoda ibe nexhala kwaye ibenzele intsapho.
Iqhinga lamanzi angcwele
Iqhinga liqhutyelwa kumanzi angcwele, apho, kunye neeklasi ezimbini ze-wax, kufuneka ziziswe kwicawa. Emva kokunyuka kwenyanga, amanzi abilisiwe kwaye abekwe phezu kwamakhandlela abilayo-iipilisi phakathi kwamakhandlela ebandla. Amanzi abilayo atyunjwa ngamagama athi:
"Njengoko la manzi abila kunye neembilisa, njengoko ithulula kwaye idle, nenhliziyo yendoda yam, inceku kaThixo (igama) ibilise kwaye ibilise iya kuncipha kwaye iyomile, iya kulila, igubungele, ibhuqe , ngokwentsapho yakhe, umfazi wakhe osemthethweni, umkhonzi kaThixo (igama) uya kuthanda. Ngoko ukuze akwazi ukunyathela ngaphandle kwentsapho yakhe kunye nenyathelo, ukuze angabi nako ngaphandle kwethu, wayengenakuphila, ukuze simbone ngokwenene ukuze ebusuku ubonakale ngamaphupha. Uya kugijima, ikhaya liza kukhawuleza, liza kundikhawuleza ukuba ndibuyele. Njengoko kuthiwa, oku kuza kuzaliseka. Amen! Amen! Amen! " Emva kokuqhelana kwamaxesha amathathu, bafunda" uBawo wethu ", babhaptizwa kwaye bangcwele ngamanzi angcwele athululelwa emngceleni wendlu.
Iqonga lobisi
Ukubuyisela uthando lomyeni ohambayo okanye olahlayo uya kunceda ubisi lwe-conjugal ubusika. Emva kokuphindwe kathathu ngamazwi omqhinga, umyeni wakhe kufuneka aphuze.
"Njani (igama lomlingane) alikwazi ukuhlala ngaphandle kwesithunzi sayo, ngoko ndilangazelela, (igama lomlingane), aliyi kukwazi. Hamba, ukhubeke, ngokunyamezela kum, phefumula. Njengoko ilanga lihamba esibhakabhakeni, ngoko (igama lomlingane) lihamba nayo yonke indlela eya kum. Ngoko ke! Amen! "