Indlela yokwenza ubuhlobo bube nobuhlobo obunothando


Ngomlinganiselo omkhulu wokuthandana, ngamanye amaxesha, onke amaphupha amabhinqa, kwaye nakwezinye izihlandlo amadoda afuna into eyenzekayo kulwalamano. Yaye yinyaniso, ngaphandle kobuhlungu besithandane ngohlobo lokuhamba kweekhephe, ukuthuthwa kwinqwelo okanye ukuhlamba ngamakhandlela kunye nokuphakama kwamapalesi, nobudlelwane obukhulu obungenasiphelo bufumana ukungathandeki. Ukuba nawe ufuna ukuhlaziya inkqubo yakho yemihla ngemihla encinci yokuthandana rhoqo ngexesha - yonke into isezandleni zakho, udinga kuphela isibindi kunye nokucinga.

Ngelishwa, ngexesha lethu, i-candlelight dinner kunye nebhotile yewayini ecocekileyo kunye nokutya okuthethiweyo, bambalwa kakhulu abantu baya kubonisa iimpawu zokuthandana. Abantu baye baphuhliswa kakhulu, banamathuba amaninzi, ngokuqhelekileyo akubi kakhulu ngakwesinye icala, kodwa ngakwelinye icala, umntu kufuneka azame nzima ukuphefumula ngothando oluthile. Musa ukuthenga iimpahla ezibiza kwaye ukhanyise isibini iikhandlela, kunye nesigqi sobomi ukuze ufezekise umphumo onqwenelayo kufuneka uzame ukumangalisa intanda yakho. Ngokomzekelo, endaweni ye-lacy negligee elandelayo ithenge kwi-suit suit ye-sexy girl okanye abahlengikazi abashushu, emva kweenguqu-njengenguqu ngokuqinisekileyo akushiyi indoda yakho engenandaba. Okanye uzame into eshushu, umzekelo, i-latex encinci kunye neentambo ezisebuseni, kodwa zama ukuzithengisa ngokukhanya, ngaphandle koko umlingani wakho uya kuyika kunokuba ephefumlelwe ngumbonakalo wakho.

Esinye sezihlandlo zobudlelwane phakathi kobabini abathandi beentlanganiso ezimbini kunye nokuhlukana. Khawucinge ukuba umyeni wakho okanye umfana wakho kufuneka afike emva kohambo olude kwaye olunzima, ulindele umzuzu xa ekubonayo kwisikhululo sesitimela okanye kwisikhululo sezindiza emva kokuhlukana okude. Ngokuqinisekileyo, silindele le mzuzu ngabo bobabini, ngoko kutheni ungenise into entsha kulo. Ukudibana naye ngokumomotheka, ukudibanisa, umzekelo, kunye nebholethi ezinemibala emininzi, okanye ngebhola etafuleni etafuleni ezandleni zakho, kholwani, isiphumo esiza kuveliswa siyakhunjulwa ixesha elide yi-vaamoboi, kwaye senze intlanganiso ekulindelwe ixesha elide.

Into ephambili kukuba uqaphele ukuba uthando oludalwe nguwe, ngemizamo yakho, aluyi kuvela ngaphandle, ayiyi kuvela njengemvula yasehlobo, kuphela xa ungasifiki kunye nomthandayo wakho kwixesha le-candy. Ngoko, akufuneki ukuba uloyiko lokunciphisa ixesha elide lokuzincama ngokunyanisekileyo. Ngokomzekelo, ukulungiselela isidlo sakusihlwayo, ngokuhlonipha "umhla" wakho olandelayo, faka isaladi kwisitya ngesimo senhliziyo, okanye wenze iinqebengwana ngeentliziyo kunye nabaqalayo bakho. Okanye ngandlela-thile ngamehlo amaqanda ekuseni, usebenzisa isikhunta esikhethekileyo. Akusiyo yonke imihla kwaye yonke indawo umntu wakho ukhubeka phezu kweempawu zothando, konke kulungile ekumodareyithini, i-iromantics iya kuba yinto ebalulekileyo xa idibene.

Thenga ibhasikidi yamapikniksi, makabekho endlwini yakho into eya kuthi ikwazi ukukhokela kwiingcamango ezintle, kwaye uvuselele isenzo. Ngenye yeentsuku ezinhle zasehlobo, yenza isanti, uhlambe izityalo ezintsha kunye nemifuno kwaye umeme umthandi wakho kwipikiniki. Kutheni uhlala zonke iintsuku ezihle zasehlotyeni ekhaya, xa unokuba wedwa kunye nendalo?

Musa ukulibala ngezinto ezintle ezintle. Nika izipho, masibe nje ngekhadi leposi okanye umfanekiso omhle ovezwe njengawo, ngaphandle kwesizathu. Bhala kwinqaku yakho oyithandayo, kungekhona i-sms, oko kukuthi inqaku, shiya amanqaku ngamazwi othando kwifriji, okanye ufake ifowuni kwipokethi yakho, i-gadget ye-elektroniki ayikwazi ukubonisa ukufudumala kwezandla zakho, ngokungafani nombhalo obhalwe ngesandla.

Kukholelwa ukuba umntu uyathanda xa owesifazane ephethe iimpahla ezincinane. Mhlawumbi, ngoko kunjalo, apho ubaleke khona kuloo ndawo. Kodwa nakwiimeko ezinikwe zona, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba loo nto encinane ibonakala ngengubo egqithisiweyo, iimpahla ezenziwe ngebhanti kunye nelinen ecikizekileyo iya kuba nempembelelo enkulu, ishati elidala elingenakulungiswa, kunye ne-short currts.

Yonke into ekhankanywe ngasentla ayikho into entsha, kwaye abaninzi bayazi, kodwa ngokuphindaphindiweyo ngaphantsi komxhelo wokukhathala nokukhathala, asifuni ukwenza umgudu ozodwa wokwenza isinyathelo esincinci ukuhlangabezana nomtshato. Emva koko, kuxhomekeke kuthi ukuqinisekisa ukuba ulwalamano alucinywa, aluxhaswanga ngumsebenzi, kwaye bonke basisindise ixesha elihle kangangoko kunokwenzeka.