Uxolela ngokukhawuleza. Intsapho kunye nabahlobo akudingeki benze imizamo yokukhulula ityala - ufuna ukuxolisa, uphonswe ngokudlula. Ukuba ukukhawuleza kwakho kunye nobubele bubeka ukuzithemba okuphantsi: ucinga ukuba awufanelanga ukuziphatha ngokubanzi kunye nezenzo.
Ukholisa abanye ngeempawu zakho ezilungileyo. Ukuba uhlala ubhala umyeni wakho, umntwana okanye intombi yakho imbeko - yima: akukho mntu wakwazi ukwandisa ukubaluleka kwabo ngokuthetha. Izikhumbuzo ezihlala zikhona zento oyenzile kuphela zicaphukisa abanye kwaye zibenza bazive benyanzelekile ngokunyanisekileyo. Yenza oko ucinga ukuba kuyimfuneko ngaphandle kokulinda imvume-kwaye kuya kuza kuwe nayiphi na imeko.
Ucinga abantu ngendlela yakho yokuphila. "Othandayo akayi kubuhlungu," "umthandi kufuneka aqonde kwaye azive ephuma kwisiqingatha-magama" - eziyingozi ezibangelwa ukudumala. Akuyimfuneko yokwakha izibophelelo zokomoya: kufuneka ube nako ukwakha imida yakho kwaye unqande abo bakulimazayo-abangazi kakuhle okanye benenjongo.
Awunamdla. Nangona ukhubekile - uzama ukuqonda kwaye ulungele ulwaphulo-mthetho. Unamathela kwikhowudi ecacisiweyo yokuhlonipha, uzama ukulimaza abanye ngaluphi na uhlobo-kwaye ulindele ngokubuyisela. Ufihla intlungu kunye nobukrakra phantsi kobuchule bokuxolelwa nokuxolelwa: akuyona indlela efanelekileyo yokufumana uvelwano. Inyaniso inenkohlakalo: ukuba umntu uhlambalaza, uthanda ukwenza.
Usoloko ufuna iimvume zabanye. Uhlala udideka, ungakwazi ukwenza isigqibo. Ujonge ngeenxa zonke kwabanye, ngokuzithandela okanye ngokungazibuza ukuba wenza konke okulungileyo. Ululakela ngokugqithiseleyo kwimbono egunyazisiweyo, ngaphandle kokungabaza-kodwa, ngenxa yokuba ibhalwe ngokuqinile kwaye ichanekile. Kufuneka ukhumbule: nayiphi na isikhundla asiyona inyaniso eyona nto. Qala ukuzithemba - ubuncinane kwizinto ezincinci.