"Andikho kuloo minyaka ...". Njalo xa uvakalisa eli binzana, wenza ubomi bakho buhlwempuzekileyo: ngenxa yeemvakalelo, amathuba, iziganeko ezimnandi kunye nempumelelo. Ukwesaba ukugwetywa, ukukhangela okanye ukuhluleka, ulahlekelwa yiminqweno yakho. Enyanisweni, iimeko ziba nesibindi: ziyakwamukelwa kwaye ziyanconywa ngabo bajikelezileyo.
"Ndiyingozi / i-fat / iindenge." Ukuzigxeka kuyisithunzi esizukileyo, kodwa kungekhona xa kuhlaziywa. Isishukumiso esichaphazelekayo sisebenza kuphela kumaqhawe aseMelika - onokuthi ufumanisa izizathu zokungasebenzi kwakho. "Kutheni ndiya kwindawo yokuzivocavoca - Ndiyatyebile," "ubuso bam abuyi kunceda nayiphi na indlela yokwenza," "iinwele aziyi kuhombisa inwele yam ezinqabileyo" - yenza uluhlu lwakho lweengcamango- "khula" uze uzixoshe.
"Andikwazi ukwenza." Uvakalelwa kukuba usebenza kakubi, ufundisa abantwana, uxoxisana nabathandekayo bakho nabahlobo - kwaye ukunganeliseki kuhamba kunye nobomi bakho bonke. Ewe, uyazi, abantu abalungileyo abakho - kodwa akukulili. Ukungaqiniseki kwakho, ukwandiswa ngokuphelela, ayikwazi umlinganiselo. Yeka. Exhale. Yaye uzama ukuqonda: ulandela ingqondo enhle engakho. Vumela ukuba wenze iimpazamo - yile ndlela ulwazi, amava kunye nobulumko.
"Andikwazi ...". Eli binzana liyinkokeli engacatshulwayo yokucinga okungalunganga, nto leyo inokuphelisa ubunzima bethu. Esi sigwebo esifutshane sinesiqinisekiso esinamandla sokunganyaniseki, esibulala nayiphi na inzame yokutshintsha impilo yakho ibe ngcono. Khumbula: nayiphi na injongo inokufezekiswa - yinto nje yexesha, umzamo nokunyamezela.