Kodwa intsapho yakho kunye nobomi bezobugcisa zitshintshile. Yinto enye xa ubuya emsebenzini emva kokudibana nomntu obathandayo, enye xa indoda yakho ingumlingani wakho.
Enyanisweni, akunandaba nokuba ngaba bafazi baphela njani kunye nomsebenzi ofanayo - ngaba ngumphumo weenkonzo zothando, ishishini lentsapho okanye enye indlela. Le ngxaki inokwenene kunye neqhinga.
Iinkonzo - zincinci kakhulu:
Icandelo lolawulo lwezemicimbi yentsapho. Ngokomzekelo, kulula ukubuyela ekhaya kunye nokusebenza, ukutya isidlo sasemini, ukucwangcisa ukuthenga, ukulungelelanisa ukukhuliswa kwabantwana, ukuququzelela amakhaya, njl njl.
- Iingxabano malunga nokuba zilungile okanye zimbi, ukuba ngaba abatshatileyo banomsebenzi omnye, banokuthi basombulule ngokufanelekileyo. Kuhle kuntle. Xa uthanda ukuphela, kufuneka utsho into ethile. Ingakumbi, unokuxoxa ngomsebenzi, kwimeko apho usebenza khona. Ukusebenza kunye kwenza kube lula ukunxibelelana ngezihloko eziqondakalayo. Ngokubanzi, uluntu loluntu luyomeleza intsapho.
Abaxhasi - bafumana, ngokukodwa, kwizinto ezibonakalayo:
- Thina ngobomi bemihla ngemihla kaninzi abahlali nendima yentlalo. Oko kukuthi, sidonsa iingxaki zokusebenza zethu ekhaya, kwaye abasebenzi basekhaya basebenza. Ngenxa yoko, intloko iyaqhubeka nokulawula indlu, utitshala-ukufundisa ekhaya. Ukuba isibini sisebenzisana kunye, lo mda uvamise ukucinywa, akukho, ubuncinane umzuzu wokuguqulwa komsebenzi kumntu osapho. Le nyaniso iyancipha yinto yokuba inxaxheba yentsapho ayihambisani nesimo emsebenzini. Ngokomzekelo, indlu iyaqhutywa ngumfazi, kwaye emsebenzini uphantsi komyeni wakhe kunye nangona kunjalo. Kuvela ukudideka okunjalo, apho kunzima ukuphuma khona.
- Abatshatileyo babonana ngokwenene malunga nexesha. Ngokwemvelo, bayakhathala.
- Ukongeza kwimisebenzi emininzi yeentsapho, omnye umsebenzi obaluleke kakhulu - ingqondo ye-psychotherapeutic-ayikwazi ukuzaliseka. Ngokukodwa, umyeni okanye umfazi, xa ebuyela ekhaya, akakwazi ukwabelana ngomsebenzi, ukubonisana, ukufumana inkxaso, ukuthuthuzela, ukuvunywa okanye ukugxeka.
- Ukuba kufuneka usebenze nabantu emsebenzini, kufuneka udibanise ngokuthe ngqo - ukumomotheka, ukuhlakalaza, ukudlala ngothando. Uyazi ukuba, ngaphandle komsebenzi wobugcisa, akuthethi nantoni na, kodwa ebusweni bobaqabane le nto ingabonwa njengento engaphezulu. Emva koko, akukho mntu ukhansele umona.
- Kunzima xa indoda nomfazi bephantsi komnye nomnye. Ukuziphatha komntu ophakamileyo kunye nomlawuli ongaphantsi kunokukwazi ukunyanzelisa ukuhanjiswa kweendima kwintsapho. Ngokomzekelo, umntu ongaphantsi kweqabane angenakwenza into, enethemba lokunyaniseka, kodwa ngokwenene akukho nanye. Kwaye kuphazamiseka. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuba kukho ukuxoxwa kweempazamo, kukho ukuxhatshazwa kokuqokelela, ubona loo mntu kungekhona njengomsebenzi olinganayo kunye nochwepheshe, kodwa nje umfazi we-boss.
- Kungcono, xa abatshatileyo besesigaba esifanayo sokukhula kobugcisa. Xa kukho ukhuphiswano, kumncintiswano onempilo akukho nto iphosakeleyo. Kodwa akusiwo wonke umntu olungele ukukhuphisana nomntu obulindele ukuba uluthande, inkxaso.
Iingcebiso kwiibini ezisebenza kunye.
- Kuyinto enqwenelekayo ukuphuhlisa ikhono lokunqanyula emsebenzini ngaphandle kweeyure ezingasebenzi. Inikwe, njengommiselo, ngamava kunye nabaninzi - ubunzima obukhulu.
- Emsebenzini, uwele umnqweno kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Ukuba kufuneka usebenze kwiiprojekthi ezidibeneyo, ngoko kufuneka ufunde ukunikezela, funa ulungelelanise, kuba, mhlawumbi, kuya kubakho impikiswano.
- Kungcono ukuchitha ikhefu kunye. Ngenxa yoko, abafazi basenokungabikho emsebenzini kwaye bakhumbule ukuba, okokuqala, intsapho. Kodwa ngokuhlwa, impelasonto kufuneka ibanjwe ngokwahlukileyo, zenze izinto zokuzilibazisa, abahlobo. Oku kuya kunika ithuba lokukhululeka komnye nomnye.
- Kukho njalo ukungafani, kukho izibini ezitshatileyo ezisebenza ngokuphumelelayo kunye nomsebenzi omnye kwaye zivakale kakuhle. - Mhlawumbi, izibini ezinjalo azicingi nje ngaphandle komnye.
Ukuba akukho nhlobo yokuphepha iingongoma ezinzulu, kunye neendlela zokusebenzisana ziba yingxaki ezinkulu kwintsapho, omnye wabafazi kufuneka afune omnye umsebenzi. Kwimeko apho kufuneka usebenze kunye kwaye utshintshe umsebenzi akukho nto, kufuneka uqhagamshelane nesazi sengqondo. Yaye inyathelo ngesinyathelo lifunde ukulungelelanisa imeko.