Yintoni ebonakalayo kwimeko? Okokuqala, kuthetha ukuba umntu uthembele ngokupheleleyo, kwaye uyathetha ngakumbi kunokuba ucinge. Ufuna ukukwazisa kwimeko yakhe, ebandakanya abantu bakhe abemi kunye nabasondeleyo. Uyakuxabisa kwaye uyakuhlonipha, ekuqwalasela wena umviwa ofanelekileyo. Ngako oko, kufuneka ubonakalise oku ngelixa ulwalambileyo, ngaloo ndlela ulungelelanisa ithemba lakho nezicwangciso zakho, njengentombazana yakhe ethandekayo, ngamanye amagama, okhethiweyo. Ngoko ke, ukuba umntu uyazi izihlobo zakhe nabahlobo, umntu unokuziphatha njani ngeli xesha. Makhe sizame ukujonga ngokuthe ngqo ukuba zeziphi izinto ezifanele ukuziphatha ngazo ngamnye umntu ngamnye.
Ukuqhelana nezihlobo. Yintoni enokusondela kumnye wethu kunokwethu. Laba ngabantu ababenayo kusukela "kwi-diaper". Bayazi ukusuka "A" ukuya "Mina" kwaye ke ngoko uluvo lwakho luhlala luwumthetho kubo. Ngoko okhethiweyo wakho wagqiba ekubeni ixesha lokuba uvele phambi kwezihlobo zakhe "kwiphephethi." Ukuba bayayixabisa okhethiweyo wakhe. Ngendlela, kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba ukuya kwisenzo esinzima nesobugovu, umntu ucinga ukuba ubudlelwane bakho sele sele buye kwinqanaba lezona zinto zininzi.
Ngoko, bafazi namadoda, nantsi, le "usuku lokugweba". Wabutha yonke intsapho yakhe phantsi kophahla olulodwa kunye nayo yonke into kuwe. Ewe, andiyikuphikisa, intsapho yakhe inkulu: ubaba, unina, umzalwana, mhlawumbi udade, ubukho besizukulwana esidala (ugogo nomkhulu) nako kunokwenzeka. Okokuqala, zibeke umsebenzi, gxininisa ekubeni injongo yakho kukunqoba kwakhe okufutshane, oko kukuthi, ngabazali ngqo. Emva kwakho konke, kukubona kwabo ukuba ikusasa lakho lixhomekeke. Kodwa ke, khumbula indlela ozibonisa ngayo kwintlanganiso yokuqala, ngoko uya kuqondwa kwikamva. Ngelishwa, uThixo akazange asinike ithuba lesibini.
Ukuze uqhelane nokuvavanya kakhulu, qalisa ukukulungiselela kwangaphambili kwengqondo yengqondo. Ekuqaleni, zifakela kwi-note of positive positive, ulahle yonke imvakalelo emibi kunye nemvakalelo, kwaye ngexesha lokuzama uzame ukugcina isandla sakho kwaye ungalahlekelwa ukuzithiba kwakho. I-postpone kwi-subconscious yakho ukuba oku kulungile kwaye izalamane zifana nawe kwaye, umzekelo, izihlobo zakho. Ziba ngokwakho kwaye ngokwemvelo - oku kuya kuba yinto yakho eyintloko.
Yiba nomoya othobekileyo, ngomusa nangomusa, phendula yonke imibuzo yabo. Zama ukumamatheka ngangokunokwenzeka kwaye ungesabi ukuxhasa nokuphuhlisa nazo zonke izihloko, kodwa ungalibali ngokuthozama. Kuya kuba kufanelekile ukuba uqaphele into yokuba izalamane zesigamu sakho sesibini ziyabona ukuba ungoko-mkhwenkwe onokwenzeka. Ngoko ke, isamba sokuzibonakalisa kuphela kumathoni amhlophe, kutheni kungabi kubiza. Kwaye ngokubanzi, ngaphandle kwesizathu bazisa iqabane labo kwiintsapho zabo, bathathe ulwazi lwabo.
Ukuqhelana nabahlobo. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba umntu avume kwaye akwamukele kwinkampani yakhe kunye nesangqa sahlobo, njengabahlobo, oku kubaluleke kakhulu ebomini bakhe. Ubuhlobo, ngendlela engumntu ongeyonto kuphela, kungengobungcwele kwaye ngokufanelekileyo, ngenxa yabahlobo, ulungele nantoni na, nangaliphi na imini. Kubaluleke kakhulu kuye ukuba abahlobo babeza kukuthatha njengomyeni wakhe. Ngako oko, ziqhayisa ukuba unqumle ukukuzisa kwiintombi zakhe.
Ngohlobo olunjalo, ngokuqinisekileyo akufanele uziphatha ngokusemthethweni njengoko kuchazwe kumhlathi odlulileyo. Ewe, kunye nokulungiswa kwengqondo kwangaphambili apha, ndicinga ukuba awufuni ngokwenene. Ukuba ngaba ngabahlobo bokwenene, ngoko baya kukuthabatha kwaye bakuthande ngendlela onjalo. Emva kwakho konke, unyulo lomhlobo wabo omhle, kwaye kunye nokukhethwa kwabahlobo, njengomthetho, kuyafaneleka ukulinganisa. Ngoko ke, ukuba kubonakale kungcono kunokuba uyinyani, akufanelekanga. Into ephambili ibonisa ubungqina bakho nobuqotho. Bonisa ukuba ungumntu onomdla kwaye unento yokuthetha ngayo. Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu, ungayikhohlwa ukusebenzisa i-humor. Enye enye ihlaya ayiyi kubuhlungu nakwakho, nangona kunxamnye nayo iya kunceda ufumane indawo yakho kwinkampani. Ngokuphathelele izihloko zengxoxo, ke apha ufanele ukhumbule ngoku. Ziziphi iimfuno zakho ze-suzheny, emva koko, iziqhotyoshelwano kunye nezinto ezinqwenelayo, okokuqala, okokuba abahlobo bakhe bathambekele kuyo. Ukuba ngabahlobo bakhe banamantombazana, oku kuhlanganiswa okukhulu, njengoko umfazi uya kuqonda umfazi kwimeko apho. Emva koko, khangela, nabahlobo abatsha baya kuzuza.
Ukuba ngabahlobo bakhe banomdla kwaye banomdla, ngoko unethamsanqa. Emva koko, abahlobo bakhe ngoku bakho ngabahlobo. Kwaye ngoku, ixesha elide uza kuchitha kwiinkampani jikelele. Kwaye kunjalo, ngoku akufanele ukhathazeke malunga nokuba umthandi wakho uphelile kwifowuni. Ngoku unokomelela, nangaliphi na umzuzu, uye kubahlobo okanye izihlobo zakhe, ufunde malunga nendawo. Kuphela, ke, khumbula ukuhlukumeza oku nangoko.
Njengoko siphelo, ndingathanda ukudibanisa ukuba xa umntu eyazi izihlobo zakhe nabahlobo bakhe, oku kuthetha ukuphuhliswa kobudlelwane phakathi kwakho, ukusuka entlanganisweni yolutsha, ukuya kwinqanaba labantu abadala. Mhlawumbi entloko kwaye uvuthile "icebo elide" lokulungiselela ikusasa lakho kunye. Cinga ngako. Mhlawumbi, ngelixa elizayo, uzama kwisambatho somtshakazi, kwaye abahlobo bakhe baya kujoyina iindwendwe ezimenywe emtshatweni wakho. Yaye intsapho yakhe iya kuba, ngqo kunye nentsapho yakho.