Kusukela ebuntwaneni, baninzi kuthiwa ukuba umfazi unomdla, ongeyena, kwaye uhlala "kwindawo yokulinda": xa eyazi, xa bekwenza usuku, xa beyamanga okokuqala kwaye xa bafumana ukutshata. Uzuko lwasezulwini, ubandlululo olungapheliyo luye lwaba lukhuni. Abasetyhini banamhlanje baye baqiqa kwaye benza ngobuqhetseba ukusebenzisa i-arsenal yabo yonke into efanelekileyo ukuze benze izimo ezifanelekileyo zokuqala kobudlelwane.
Uphononongo ngabafundi bezengqondo zibonisa ukuba i-third-thirds of acquaintances yenzeke kwiqhinga labasetyhini, ngelixa amadoda engalokothi akrokre ukuba awele "ngumgibe". Umlingo okhwabanisayo usebenzisa iibhendi ezingabonakaliyo kunye neengcingo: ukumomotheka okulula, ukubukeka okubukhali, iinwele ezinqabileyo okanye iimpahla ezithakazelisayo. Isiqinisekiso esiphezulu sokuphumelela sisakhono sokukhohlisa. Kodwa indlela yokufumana indoda ukuba ithathe isinyathelo sokuqala, ukuba isakhono asiyibukhali? Apha, kuphela ukuzithethelela kuya kukunceda! Ewe, iincwadana ezimbalwa ezivela kwiingqondo zengqondo ziza kubangela indlela yokuvusa umntu okhethiweyo ukuba aphenduke ehlazo elihlazileyo ukuya kwindoda yesalathisi ezimisele.Izindlela ezi-6 zokufumana indoda ukuba ithathe isinyathelo sokuqala
- Thetha nomzimba wakho. Ukuhlaziya, ukuziphatha, isikhundla sezandla, iinyawo, intloko-konke oku kulwimi lomzimba, oluthetha ngokucacileyo nawaphi na amagama acatshulwa ngokucophelela. Hlaziya kwaye "ubophe intetho" umzimba. Indoda kufuneka ibone indawo evulekileyo (akukho milenze ehambayo kunye neengalo), i-flat back, ephosa kancane entloko (i-interest interest) kunye nesimo sokuzithemba kwezandla. Zizandla ezisoloko zinika umdla. Thatha isenzo sabo - ukudlala ngeglasi, thintela ukutshatyalaliswa kweenwele okanye ubuso.
- Izambatho zamehlo. Indlela yokufumana umntu ukuba athathe isinyathelo sokuqala ngoncedo lweengubo? Ngaba ndimele ndize ngakumbi? Hayi! Intsimbi ye-neckline kunye ne-skirt-belt ingaba yeso sizathu sokuxhatshazwa kweengcola. Ukulingela umntu wanamhlanje unethuba elingcono lomfazi ogqoke ngengubo yomntu. Yaye ukuba izambatho eziqinileyo, kodwa ezintle ziza kuncediswa ngedatha edlalayo ngendlela yeengcezu ze-lace okanye i-skirt ehlanjwe kwiindawo, uya kukwazi ukukrazula "isisiseko sayo".
- Chukumisa ukujonga. Ukukhangela isixhobo sokutshabalalisa. Ewe, ekubeni awuyidingi inqwaba yamadoda, kodwa enye kuphela, jonga kuphela kuye, kwaye nje kuphela nge-smile-half smile-smile. Ukubukeka kwintlonelo yinto yobugcisa bokwenene. Ngemizuzwana embalwa, gcina amehlo akho ebusweni bomntu, iinwele kunye nemilomo. Thatha amehlo akho ngenyameko kwakhona (kodwa ngeli xesha unesibindi), thintela ngokujonga.
- Kuchukunyiswa yimvakalelo. Ukuba le ndoda isele ingqalelo kuwe, lungisa umphumo ngokuthintela ngokukhawuleza, onokuthi "ulungelelanise" ngexesha lokuwa kwezinto okanye ucele umntu okhethiweyo ukuba akunike into ethile ngaphakathi kwirejista yokufikelela kwakhe. Jongani kuye imvakalelo "yengozi" yokuthandana - inqwenela, ukukhanga, ukunqabisa. Imvakalelo isondele kakhulu.
- Thatha ubuthathaka. Ingakanani ubunobuthathaka babesifazane bamahashe? Vumela wena, kwaye ubuthathaka buba ngumandla onokumenza umntu athathe isinyathelo sokuqala. Memezela ibhinqa eline-fragile, efuna ukukhuselwa kunye noncedo. Yenza imeko ye "feat", vumela iqhawe lakho live likufutshane nawe kubalulekile kwaye kuyimfuneko. Makhe abe ngamehlo akho aphezulu okanye ubuncinci.
- Ukudlala ngothando. Vuka kuloo ndoda isisiseko somzingeli. Makhe aziva nje ukuba uye wanqoba kwaye uya kugqiba ekubeni nguye owona mhle. Kwisiqendu esilandelayo, shintshise umdla wakho ngokufutshane uze uvumele abanye abantu bazingqongileyo. Nabani na umntu ngokwemvelo ngumnqobi. Vumela ukuba izinto zakho zasendulo zenzeke, kwaye uya kufuna ukukufikelela. Ukongezelela, uya kujongwa ukuba abe ngumfazi okhethiweyo onomdla kunye namadoda.