Ukuba yonke into evamile - ikhuselekile
Kukhuselekile ukuba nesondo ngexesha lokukhulelwa konke, ukuba kwenzeka ngokuqhelekileyo, ngaphandle kokuphambuka nokunyaniseka. Xa ukhulelwe ngokuqhelekileyo, xa kungekho mngcipheko wokukhulelwa kwesisu okanye ukuzalwa komntwana ofileyo, isondo asiphikisiwe. Nangona kunjalo, abazali bahlala bexhalabisa ukuba isondo ngexesha lokukhulelwa sinokubangela ukuba i-embryonic malformation iholele ekuzalweni kwangaphambi kokuzalwa. Ngamanye amaxesha banokhathazeka ukuba umntwana uyaqonda oko kwenzekayo, kwaye oku kubangela ukuba kube neengxaki ezongezelelweyo. Musa ukuxhalaba ngako, kuba umntwana ukhuselwe kakuhle "kwimpembelelo" enjalo kwisibeleko somama.
Ngokuqhelekileyo amadoda ayesaba ukuba angalimaza umama ozayo, ukuba isondo siya kuba buhlungu kuye. Uloyiko olunjalo luqhelekileyo, kodwa kaninzi alukho ngqiqweni. Enyanisweni, kukho ukunyuka kwinqweno yesondo kwabanye abafazi abakhulelweyo. Ukunyuka kwegazi ngegazi, kwandipha isifuba ngakumbi kunesiqhelo. Oku kunika iimvakalelo ezinamandla ngexesha lesondo. Ukuba ukukhulelwa kwakho akuyingozi - akukho nto yokwesaba. Ukuba kukho umngcipheko, kukulungele ukubonana nodokotela. Ngamanye amaxesha kunokucetyiswa ukuba umsebenzi wezesondo ulahlwe ngexesha lokukhulelwa.
Ukukhangela ngesondo ngexesha lokukhulelwa
Umnqweno wabafazi abaninzi abakhulelweyo ukwandisa kwaye uyancipha kwizigaba ezahlukeneyo zokukhulelwa. Kwaye yonke le nkqubo ingqongqo. Ukuba kukho into ekukhathazayo, into engcono kakhulu ongayenzayo isabelo sakho kunye neengxaki kunye neqabane lakho. Ndixelele ukuba ufuna ntoni (okanye ungafuni) ukuba nesondo ukuze iqabane lakho likwazi kwakhona imeko. Ngaloo ndlela, unokuphepha ukungaqondi kakuhle, ungazitshitshisi ekucingeni ukuba kukho into ephosakeleyo kuwe. Musa ukudibana nomzimba kunye nomlingane. Musa ukulala ngesini-ke bamba nje uze ummbambe ukuze uhlale usondelene phakathi kwakho. Oku kuhle xa abambisene kunye beqonda iimpawu zesenzo sezesondo ngexesha lokukhulelwa. Abaninzi abafazi balahlekelwa ngumnqweno wabo wesondo ngenxa yoluvuyo olwandisiweyo (okanye ukwesaba) lokuzalwa okuzayo. Kodwa ukuba ukuvisisana kubusa phakathi kwakho, nokuba le nto ayiyi kukuthintela ekubeni uhlale unxulumene kunye kunye nentembelo.
Kukho izizathu ezininzi ezenza ukuba isondo ngexesha lokukhulelwa singaphaya kangcono kunokuba siqhele, nangona uhlala ungena kuyo. Okokuqala, igalelo ekuphumeni kwegazi kwizitho zangasese kunye nesifuba. Kwakhona, unokongeza kulo mgangatho ongcono kakhulu wokubilisa i-lubrification - iya kuba yanda, ihlala ihlale ivele. Ngaphezu koko, ukuba sele uye wazama ukukhulelwa, ngokuqinisekileyo kwadala ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesini kunye nomlingane wakho. Ukuba ukhulelwe, le ntshukumo iyalala, kwaye unokwenza umxhelo ngaphandle kokujonga emva kokulindela kwesi siphumo. Ewe, ukuba ugxininiswe ngcamango yokuba isondo singalimaza umntwana, akunakwenzeka ukunceda ...
Xa ungeke ulale ngesondo ngexesha lokukhulelwa
Kufuneka kuqatshelwe izizathu zokuzilahla ngexesha lokukhulelwa:
- Ugqirha wacebisa ukuba angenzi oku;
- Unomngcipheko wokuzalwa ngaphambi kokuzalwa okanye ukungahambi kakuhle;
- Ukuba une "placenta previa";
- Kukho ezinye iingxaki ngepentecenta;
- Wena okanye wakho umlingane uhlupheke kwisifo esasasazeka ngesondo;
- Ngethuba lekota yokuqala, ukuba unesisu okanye usongelo;
- Ukusuka kwiiveki ezi-8 ukuya kwe-12, ukuba kukho ukuzalwa kwangaphambi kokuqala okanye ukuphuphuma kwesisu;
- Ngethuba lekota yokugqibela, ukuba unxibe amawele.
Khu seleko
Ezinye zezithuba ezizisebenzisileyo ngaphambi kokuba ukhulelwe kwaye kwiimigangatho zokuqala zokukhulelwa zingasayi kuba nzima, kodwa zingozi. Ngokomzekelo, abasetyhini kufuneka bakuphephe ukulala emhlane wabo emva kwenyanga yesine. Kule ndawo, umntwana ungabambelela eminye imithwalo yegazi. Ngethamsanqa, kukho ezinye ezaneleyo zobomi besondo ngaphandle kwengozi ngexesha lokukhulelwa. Umonde omncinci - kwaye uya kufumana isigxina esilungileyo kakhulu esifanelekileyo kwisibini sakho. Ngokomzekelo, ukunyanzeliswa kwesikhashana, i-pose kwizinto ezine okanye xa lo mfazi ephezulu.
Ezinye iingcebiso jikelele
1. Buza ugqirha wakho ukuba unobungqina bokunqanda ngesini ngexesha lokukhulelwa;
2. Thetha kunye neqabane lakho malunga neemfuno zakho kunye neminqweno ngokunyanisekileyo, ngokucacileyo. Khumbula ukuba nguwe kuphela owaziyo okwenzeka kumzimba wakho, kwaye akukho namnye owaziyo iimfuno zakho ezingcono kunakho. Yingakho kuncedo kakhulu ukuwabelana kunye neqabane lakho ukwenza lula ubomi bakho;
3. Zama ukuphumla kwaye ufumane uninzi lwezesondo. Ukuba kukho into ebangela ukungahambi kakuhle - xelela iqabane lakho ngalo;
4. Musa ukuvumela ubungqina bakho bobulili bakho buchaphazele ubuhlobo bakho. Musa ukuxhalaba xa ulala ngesondo kangangoko kunokuqhelekileyo. Ngeli xesha, khumbula ukuba umgangatho wesini ubaluleke ngaphezu kobuninzi;
5. Khumbula ukulala ngesondo kunye nokufumana i-orgasm ngexesha lokukhulelwa okuqhelekileyo akunakulungelekanga kwaye akunakukhokelela ekuphumuleni.
Khumbula ukuba iimpawu zobomi bomama zizayo kukuba kwindawo yakhe yokuqala umntwana kunye nentlalo yakhe. Akukho mntu ngaphandle kwakho owaziyo indlela ozive ngayo kwaye oko kunokukwenza uzive ungcono. Umzimba wakho uthumela iimpawu kuphela kuwe. Thetha nomlingane wakho kwaye ufumane iindlela zokukunceda uzive ungcono kwixesha elifutshane kakhulu.