Uphuhliso kunye nolawulo lwemini yomntwana kwiinyanga ezili-8

Abantwana kwiinyanga ezisibhozo azange badlale kuphela, kodwa bathathe inxaxheba ebomini bemihla ngemihla yonina. Uya kufuneka ukuba achukumise impumlo yomama aze atyathele. Inzala enkulu iya kubangelwa ngamacici, izinto eziphathekayo zekhishini kunye neempahla. Kuyithakazelisa kwintsana nje kuphela yokongeza ipiramidi ukusuka kwiikhabhi, kodwa nokuyidiliza ukuze ubone oko kuza kuza kuyo.

Ngokuqinisekileyo abantwana bayazama ukufikelela kuzo zonke izinto ezisemgangathweni wabo wombono. Ngoko ke, ukuba umntwana wakho ubandezeleka, kungcono ukuba ungambonisi i-patties okanye i-biscuits yakho. Abantwana abaneminyaka eli-6 banomdla wokuphindaphinda imidlalo, kwaye into efanayo iyavuya.

Yintoni kufuneka umntwana akwazi ukwenza ezinyangeni ezisibhozo?

Njengoko umfana wakho uya kukhula rhoqo, ngeenyanga ezisibhozo uya kuba nako ukwenza oku kulandelayo:

• UkuDanisa, ukucula okanye ukwenza ezinye izenzo zemidlalo
• Unokuzimela ngokuzimeleyo, ume okanye uhambe, ubambe emva kwesihlalo okanye udonga
• Kungaba yinto eqhelekileyo ukutya ukutya okuqinileyo (imifuno ebilisiwe, izithelo ezithambileyo okanye ikhukhi)
• Iphendula kwaye xa kunokwenzeka iphendule imibuzo, ibukele ngokukhawuleza ukunyakaza kwezinto kwaye ibonisa ukwesaba ngezenzo ezingaziwa okanye izandi ezingaqhelekanga

• Ukuba umntwana ubuzwa apho into ikhona khona, uya kujongela ngokunyanisekileyo ngomnwe wakhe
• Uphendulela izinto ezithandekayo kwaye azikho izinto ezinomdla kuye
• Izakhono zezithuthuthu ezintle ziphuhliswa kangangokuthi umntwana unokuthatha izinto ezithile kunye nesithupha kunye nesantengiselwano, njengenqwanqwa

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Enyanisweni, ukunyamekela umntwana oneminyaka engama-8 ubudala akufani neendlela oziphathe ngayo nabantwana bobudala obuhlukile. Ngokufanayo, kufuneka uhambe ubuncinane iiyure ezimbini ngosuku, uhlambe imihla ngemihla kwaye uqhuba iinkqubo zokucoceka. Nangona kunjalo, kuyafaneleka ukuba sicinge ukuba umntwana omdala waqala ukutya ukutya okuqinileyo, ngoko ke isihlalo siya kuhluka kancinci. Ngako oko, kungcono ukuba ufunde umntwana ngokukhawuleza.

1. Ebusuku, umntwana wakho uhlala evuka, zama ukudlala okanye ukukhwela kwindawo ethile. Musa ukukhathazeka ngale nto. Oku kuqhelekileyo, inkqubo yesantya yendoda encinci ayinakomelela ngokupheleleyo kwaye ingaba yingozi kakhulu kwimidlalo yemihla, eya kuba nefuthe eliphazamisayo kwiphupha lobusuku.
2. Inkwenkwe iyaqhubeka ijonganisa izinto ezizungezile. Ngoko ungadikibala ukuba ngexesha lokutya ezininzi iimveliso ziphantsi, kwaye kungekhona emlonyeni wonyana wakho okanye intombi yakho. Oku kuyinto eqhelekileyo, kuba ngale ndlela le nkwenkwe ikhula kwaye iyayazi ihlabathi elikujikelezile.
3. Ukuhlamba kunokwenziwa kwintsuku nje kwaye kusetyenzise le nto akuyiyo ibhebha, kodwa lowo uhlambayo. Vele ulungiselele zonke iithayi kunye nezixhobo kwangaphambili ukwenzela ukuba ungashiyi umntwana wedwa kwisibhaka, kuba ngenxa yomsebenzi wakhe, unako ukutshona aze awele emanzini.

4. Ngethuba lo mdlalo, abantwana abayakheli kuphela okanye baqoke izinto, kodwa banokubathandaza. Ngoko bafunda izenzo ezahlukeneyo kwaye bafunde iipropati zezinto.
5. Kungcono ukuba uzichazele ngokwakho umntwana ukuba ungadlala njani nale nto okanye eso sifundo. Uya kuthatha onke amagama akho kwaye asebenzise ukuzonwabisa olutsha nje kuphela ngokwengqiqo yakhe (ukugubha okanye ukukhwabanisa), kodwa nokudlala ngemithetho. Kodwa xa ukhetha umdlalo, kufuneka uqwalasele ubungqongileyo bendalo kwaye uzame ukuphepha iinkcukacha ezincinci umntwana angashukumisa emlonyeni okanye ekhaleni.