Mhlawumbi, ngelanga kwenzeka ukuba intombazana, kubonakala ngathi, inomtshato onolonwabo, kodwa ngokukhawuleza unikeza ikhefu. Kubonakala ngathi yinto yonke: yomtshato kunye nemoto, kunye nesigqoko sobuhle obungenangqiqo, kwaye umtshakazi uhle kakhulu, kodwa ... emva koko, emva kwexesha elingenasiphelo (okanye kungabi namnyama - kunoma ubani ukuba lucky) ubomi, umfazi ufunda ukuba umyeni wakhe watshintsha . Kungenzeka, njengokuba ku-anecdote embi, xa umfazi ebuya emsebenzini (uhambo lwezoshishino, ivenkile, ukuphumla, njl.) Ngaphambili kwaye ufumana embhedeni wakhe, umntu ongaziwayo, kwaye, mhlawumbi, uhlaselo luya kudla ubomi bemihla ngemihla. Iimvakalelo ezithathwa ngumfazi okhohlisayo kunzima ukuchaza. Umxube wentukuthelo, umsindo, intukuthelo, umona, ukomazelela impindezelo ... Nantsi i-cocktail enyanyekayo. Ngoko ke kukho abafazi-kuphela kubo, mhlawumbi, abanamava enxulumene noko. Kodwa iyona nto ihlazoyileyo yithemba. Kubonakala ngathi ihlabathi liyekile kwaye alihambeli, kodwa xa liza kuhamba, akukhenkcekanga njengaphambili. Oku kubizwa ngokuba yixinzelelo.
Abanye abasetyhini banquma ukuqhawula umtshato emva kokungcatsha komyeni wakhe. Bakholelwa ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba baya kuzisa inkqubo yokuqhawula umtshato ekupheleni, kwaye abayi kuxolela ubunjalo obunjalo kwidilesi yabo. Kodwa lona mfazi unemvakalelo kwaye uzimisele ukupholisa ngokukhawuleza. Nangona kunokwenzeka ukuba uya kugcina intukuthelo aze alinde ukuba ityala libuyisele. Oku kwenzeka. Kodwa ngoku sijongene namatyala aqhelekileyo kwininzi.
Ngoko, ixesha lidlula kwaye ukuba umyeni uqhubeka uthetha ngothando lwakhe oluqhelekileyo, ngoko, mhlawumbi, umfazi uya kuxolela. Oku kusebenza kweli qa lekiso olulodwa. Ipesenti encinci yabesifazane abaqhawula umtshato emva kwecala elilodwa. Phantse wonke umntu ufuna kodwa akayi kubangela umtshato ukuya ekupheleni.
Emva koko imeko iba nzima. Amadoda, ngokuyinxalenye, ayitshintshi, ahambe kanye ngakwesobunxele (ngokukodwa kuba beqonda ukuba bamxolela kwaye, ngokwenene, akukho nto yatshoyo eyenzekayo), mhlawumbi uya kuthatha isigqibo sokuphinda ahlasele. Oku akuthethi ukuba umfazi akayithandi, kuthetha ukuba umntu akanalo ukuzonwabisa okwaneleyo ebomini, kodwa ngaba, bafazi abathandekayo, kufuneka ube yisixhobo sokuphakamisa izinga le-adrenaline kwigazi lomyeni wakho?
Abasetyhini abaninzi basenokuqhawula umtshato emva kokutshintsha rhoqo. Ukuxinezeleka kwiimeko ezixinezelekileyo, bayaqonda ukuba abanako ukunyamezela intsingiselo yomntu othandekayo kwaye baqhawule umtshato emva kokungcatsha umyeni wakhe. Oku kunokuba buhlungu kakhulu kwaye isimo sengqondo somfazi sihlala sicinezelekile ixesha elide. Ucinga: "Ngaba ndenze into efanelekileyo ngokuhlukana nalo mntu? Kodwa kuthekani ukuba zonke izinto zahluke? "Kwakungeke kwenzeke. Kwaye bayayiqonda ngokucacileyo le nto, kodwa intliziyo yesetyhini ihlale ilungele ukuxolela. Nangona kunjalo, ukuqhawula emva kokukrexeza, njengomthetho, akunakwenzeka, ukuba umfazi, okwenene, usenomqondo wokuzixabisa.
Ukuthetha ngokutshatyalaliswa emva kokungcatshiswa rhoqo, okuqaliswe ngumyeni, kodwa utshintshe, ngoko ke, umfazi, uyangqiqa kuphela kwiimeko ezizimeleyo. Ngenxa yokuba abantu bahluke kwaye abagqwetha ngokuqhelekileyo abaxoleli. Umyeni unokuqhubeka nokuhlala nomfazi kwimeko enjalo, kodwa ephantsi, akasayi kuze amxolele aze aqhawule umtshato kamva okanye kamva kuya kwenzeka. Umfazi ngokwakhe akayi kumela ingcinezelo yengqondo engapheliyo, leyo indoda yakhe iya kuyanelisa emva kokungcatshiswa, nangemva kokumxolela. Ngokuqinisekileyo ngokwaneleyo kwiintsapho ezinjalo, umqalisi womtshato ngumfazi, ongenakukwazi ukumelana nengcinezelo yengqondo.
Ukwahlukana emva kokuba utshintsho oluqhubekayo lwenzeka phantse njalo. Ngenxa yokuba, ngubani ongayi kuthetha nto, kodwa iinjongo zabo zonke ziyodwa: intsapho eqinile ngaphandle kokukhohlisa. Kwaye kukho amadoda nabasetyhini abangatshintshiyo kwaye baphile ngokuvuya emva koko. Into ephambili kukuma ngexesha kwaye uqonde oko kubaluleke kakhulu ebomini ....