Umcimbi ophathelene nokuzalwa komntu omncinci kubaluleke kakhulu kwaye uxanduva lentsapho. Umama osemncinci, ekhangele kwinqanaba elincinci elivulekileyo lebhola ebomvu, uvakalelwa kukuba akanakulinganiswa, aqondakala kuphela kuye. Ngethuba elisekhaya lokubeleka kukho isigaba sokutshintshana, okanye kunoko, umlingo komnye nomnye, ubaba osandul 'ukwenziwa njengengwenya yamadoda uzama ukudala isidleke esilungele intsapho yakhe. "Utata" uyamangalisa ukuthenga konke okufunekayo kwintombazana yakhe. Ngaphandle kokungathandabuzeki, indawo ebaluleke kakhulu kwindawo yokubaluleka kwezinto eziyimfuneko kukukhupha!
Ewe, kuyacetyiswa ukuxoxa noMama kusengaphambili malunga nekhefu elizayo, nokuba bhetele ukuya esitolo kubantwana kwangaphambili kwaye uqwalasele zonke iinketho ezicetywayo. Ngenxa yokuba i-crib okwangoku yinto efunekayo, kodwa iyabiza kakhulu, ngoko kunokwenzeka ukuba uqwalasele izinto ezinjengokuqeshisa, okanye mhlawumbi ungasebenzisa isikhalazo sabahlobo. Ngendlela, le ndlela yokugqibela ingumntu ngamnye, kodwa inceda ukugcina uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali.
Ngoko, uhlazo luhlala kwigumbi labantwana kwaye umntwana ulindele kwi-diapers. Kodwa ngaphambi kokubeka i-karapuzik, kufuneka ufumane umatila okhululekile kuzo zonke izibonakaliso. I-mattress kwisibhedlele ibaluleke kangangokuba kukufanelekile ukuhlala ngcaciso malunga nenkcukacha. Nazi ezinye iimfuno ezintathu eziphambili zeemitha: kufuneka zizinzileyo, zigqithise, zizaliswe nge-coconut shavings okanye utshani. Enyanisweni, ekukhetheni umatshini kumntwana, kungcono ukukhetha imitha yamathambo, kuba umthamo unjalo into eya kukhonza umntwana wakho ubuncinane iminyaka emithathu, ngoko akufanele ugcine kuyo. Ikhefu libhekwa liphumelele kuphela kumabhathathi ophezulu.
Ngaphambi kokubeka umntwana wakho kwisibhedlele, kufuneka ubenze umbhede ngebhedi, kodwa ungakulibali ukubeka i-diaper eboyiweyo endaweni yomsila esikhundleni somsila. Ngendlela, malunga nelineni zelinen, khetha ukulungeleka kangcono kwi-calico okanye kwikotton. Kuyinto enqwenelekayo ukuba ilinen yelitya intsha, ihlanjwe ngee-degrees ezingama-90 kwaye ifakwe kwinqanaba emibini. Ingubo kufuneka ifanane nexesha lonyaka, kodwa intsha kufuneka ibe lula, ingakumbi ukususela ekubeni umntwana usenxibe ngokugqithiseleyo kwi-suitton okanye i-swirled in diapers.
Kukulungele ukusebenzisa imvulophu esikhundleni seengubo, ekhoneni okanye kwiimingcingo, nguye oza kunika ukutshisa umntwana kumacala onke.
Yiyo yonke into: i-mattress igubungelwe ngelinen yelineni, umlotha ophuculweyo ulele kwindawo efanelekileyo. Abagogo be-"Stalinist" bathetha ukuba yonke into, ngaphezu kwekarapuzu yokulala okuleleyo, okanye into engadingiyo, kodwa i-mamas yanamhlanje ayiyi kuvumelana nale nto, kuba ngokwenene bafuna "i-lyalechka" encinci ukuba ibe nezinto ezifana neefilimu zakwamanye amazwe. Ukwenza oku, ama-mummies athengisa iipopopi kunye neepatheni ezikhanyayo, izinto ezintle ezihlukeneyo, imibala edlala ngokudlala i-karuselki kwaye kaninzi ayayiqondi injongo ngqo yezinto ezi. Enyanisweni, umbhobho awuyimfuneko nje nje ngekhenkco, kodwa yenzelwe ukukhusela kwiinambuzane.
Ukuba uhlala kwindlu yokuhlala esakhiweni esiphezulu kwaye ungakhuli umhlambi weenkomo kwibhantshi yakho, ngoko imfuneko yokukhuselwa kwizinambuzane iwa kwi-soma ngokwayo. Kukho umbuzo onengqiqo - kutheni uhlawula imali ngokuxelisa i-Hollywood iifilimu? Ufuna ukwenza isikhalazo esincomekayo somsindisi wakho okanye isikhulu-sithenga izitifiketi ezahlukeneyo kwisibhedlele okanye iphepha lodonga, ngenxa yokuba umntwana uya kuba mnandi ke, iminwe encinci ithathe le sitika. Izinto eziphantsi zifunekayo ngaphandle kwelo xesha xa umntwana ekhwela ngokukhawuleza aze aphenduke aze azame ukuma yodwa kwimilenze yakhe. Umntwana oneminyaka eli-vryatli uza kuba ngumnxeba kangangokuthi unokuzilimaza.
Kodwa nangona umntwana ekhula, emva koko kufuneka aqonde into yokuba avuke, yingakho abenzi bemfumba benza ukuba babe yi-grate. Ngoko ke, ukuhlawula imali yombono - ngokuqinisekileyo ngumcimbi ngamnye kwaye kusemandleni akho, kodwa kukufanele uqikelele. Nantsi into encinci yokunandipha-ukuhamba-kota kwintsana kwiiveki zokuqala zobomi, into engeyimfuneko kwaye engenamsebenzi, kodwa kwiinyanga ezimbalwa iya kuba yinto ekhangayo kakhulu, ebangel Yingakho kungcono ukuthenga i-carousel ezinyangeni ezimbini, xa umntwana ekhula kancinci aze aqale ukubona kumgama, ngoko unokugculela isikhwama sakho.
Ngaloo ndlela, ukuba unquma ukulungisa isikhalazo, unokukwenza ngeendleko ezincinci ngelixa uthengisa okona mfuneko kwixesha elifanelekileyo, okanye ungathengisa nazo zonke izibopho ezingenasidingo kwaye ngaloo ndlela wenze izikhwama "kubampofu" abavelisi baseTshayina. Kodwa kulungele ukwenza oku njengabazali abanamava nangamava, oko kukugcina imali yakho nje ukuyalela izihlobo nabahlobo, okanye osebenza nabo abangcono kumsebenzi, izinto ezinjenge-canopy, izixhobo ezithambileyo kunye ne-karuselki, kuba iindwendwe mhlawumbi sele ziphukile intloko, yintoni enika abazali abanolisayo.