Kwiminyaka yakutshanje, umendo okhula ngokukhawuleza wemitshato kunye nabantu bezinye iintlanga kuye kwaphawulwa kumazwe asekuqaleni kweCIS. Wonke umfazi kulo mzekelo unesizathu sakhe, esenza ukuba atshade nomfokazi. Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba uzibeke wena nobomi bakho kunoma ubani, khangela ukuba lo mntu ulungile kangakanani kuwe. Kungenxa yokuba umntu unokuba nesimo sengqondo kunye nendlela yokuphila ilungileyo, kodwa umntu ulungile.
Amadoda angaphandle: iimpawu zengqondo
Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukucacisa iimpawu zelizwe apho umntu ehlala khona okanye apho evela khona. Kubalulekile ukuqwalasela iimeko zokuxuba, oko kukuthi, xa umntu wazalelwa waza wakhula kwelinye ilizwe, wafunda kwaye wasebenza kwelinye. Kule meko, qwa lasela iimeko ezizimeleyo zamazwe omabini kwaye uzame ukubeka iliso kwixesha elihle, kodwa ezo zikhokelela ekudakaleni kamva. Kufuneka uqaphele ukuba, ukuba unolwazi olusondeleyo, umntu uya kuqala ukubonisa zonke iimpawu zakhe, kwaye ingqondo iya kuba nefuthe elincinci. Ukuxhasa la magama, sinika imizekelo embalwa.
EItali
Ukukhetha indoda egazini egazini ilungele ukuba ayiyi kupholisa rhoqo kwaye kungekudala: amaTaliyane ayaqaphela kakhulu ngamanzi, ngoko ungathathi iibhafu ezizelekileyo, kodwa ishafu esheshayo kuphela. Wena, njengokuba umfazi wendlu ozayo wendlu kufuneka azi kwaye izitya ezingaphantsi kwamanzi ahambayo azikwazi ukuhlamba, okokuqala zifakwe kwisitya kwaye zihlamba zonke izinto eziqokelele. Kodwa ayithethi ukuba amaTaliyane angabantu abangaxhamliyo, ngokuchaseneyo, ziyizinja ezicocekileyo. Ngoko ke kufuneka uchithe yonke imihla, uhlambuluke uze ucoceke phantsi. Xa uhamba kwiivenkile kwintombazana, kufuneka uthenge kuphela okuncinci: iimpahla, ukutya, njl. Oku kubiza, kushiywe kubafokazi, ngoko xa ukhetha umyeni, lungela ukukhohliswa kuqala, kwaye uyanyanzelekile ukuba ujwayele ukuma kwindawo yakho. Ukuqhelanisa ukuba akukho zifihli e-Itali, okanye kuninzi inhlebo: wonke umntu uthetha malunga nento yonke, kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo ulwazi lugxeke kakhulu.
E-Italy, ukuba ngumfazi womntu, uya kuba luncedo njengoko wena nomyeni wakho ninemali eyaneleyo. Ubume bentlalo yentsapho yakho iya kugqiba indawo yakho kuluntu. Umzekelo, ukuba ungumntu ohluphekileyo, ngoko-ke ummeli we-real estate ngethuba ingxoxo inokuvuka kwaye ushiye ngexesha xa isidlo sakhe siqala, kwaye emva kwe-7 ntambama, akukho nto iya kuboniswa nakubani na.
EU.SA
I-America ayikhangeli nje kuphela i-expanses yayo, kodwa kunye nenyaniso engafaniyo ne-Spain, abemi bayo abanomncinci keminteresuyutsya. Apha awukwazi ukukhathazeka ngokuhleba kunye nezinye izinto. Kodwa isiRashiya, ejwayele ukwabelana nabahlobo bakhe iintlungu kunye nemihlali kunye nokuthetha ngokukhawuleza ngobomi bentsapho, kunokubakho ingxaki ngokulungelelanisa. Ukuba ukhetha indoda yaseMelika, ngoko xa abahlobo bakho bebuza malunga nebhizinisi lakho, ungabaxeleli into ethile, kuba yinto nje yokubonisa ingqalelo, kungekhona umdla onyanisekileyo. Omnye umbuzo obalulekileyo! Wena, njengoMerika oyinyaniso, kuya kufuneka ube nobubele kunye novelwano, nangona uvakalelwa kakubi. Kodwa kukho i-pluses kule ndawo, amaMerika aya kuhlala ebonisa indlela kwaye akuxelele ukuba wenzeni, apho uya khona nokunye njalo.
Ngokuqhelekileyo bakholelwa ukuba amaMerika ngababawo abalungileyo, ngoko kuya kufuneka uzalise izihlandlo ezi-3, okanye nokuba 4. Indoda ingakwazi ukubeka, ukutya, ukuthenga nokuzonwabisa komntwana yedwa. Kwakhona, banzulu ngomtshato, basebenzela nzima ukugcinwa kwentsapho kwaye bakhathele kakhulu. Ukuba ufuna ukudala intsapho enomdaka waseMerika, ngoko kufuneka udale ukungcola kwentsapho yolonwabo, ngoko unakho ukulibala malunga nokuhlukanisa kanye kunye. Ukuba utshata nomfana waseTexas, ulungele isigwebo esilandelayo sokuphila: indoda, iinkunzi zeenkomo, ii-mustang, iifama, umsebenzi oqhubekayo kunye nobusuku bebukela iTV ngaphambi kokulala.
AmaScandinavia
Amadoda aseScandinavia anjengeSlav: abanobubele, abanomdla. Kodwa ngelo xesha bajonge njengethunzi kwimvelaphi yethu: akukho mandla womphefumlo, ukukhwabanisa, imikhosi, kunye namadoda aseScandinavia aziva uhlobo oluthile lwe-phlegmatic, ubukhulu obungakunceda ukuba ungumfazi onobuhlungu.
Emazweni aseScandinavia, ingqwalasela yamadoda ihlawulwa ngokukodwa kwindoda yabasetyhini: bayizintombi ezihle kwaye zilungele kakuhle. Ngokuphathelele ubomi basekhaya, indoda iya kuhamba ngekhefu lokubeleka kunye nekhefu lokubeleka, kwaye isiqingatha somsebenzi wesikolo esiya kuthi siya kuthatha. Kodwa ukulingana kunolunye uhlangothi, umzekelo, kufuneka ufumene umlinganiselo ofanayo, umsebenzi omningi kunye njalo njalo: yonke into iyalingana.
EFinland
AmaFom akhetha ukuhlawula iindawo zokutya ngokwabo. Ukuya kutyelela, kuqala ukubiza kunye nokuthetha malunga nentlanganiso. I-Finns inesimo esibalulekileyo kwimpilo yabucala, ngoko ke bayayinyamekela. Ngoko ke, kwizithuthi zikawonke-wonke ukuya kuwe akukho naluphi na i-podsyadet. Ewe, kunye ne-sauna yaseFinnish, kukho iesini zombini kuyo, kodwa le ndawo ayikho isizathu sokuzonwabisa ngohlobo lwesondo.
EJamani
Ukuba ucela umyeni wakho ukuba aye kwindawo yokutyela aze abuze ngubani oza kuhlawula, ungaphelelwa amandla-okuqhelekileyo kumadoda kweli lizwe. Ukugqiba ekubeni ngumfazi waseJamani, lungela ukuba uya kufuneka usebenzise oku kuluhlu kunye nabanye abaninzi: awukwazi ukukhawuleza, kufuneka ube ngumntu ohamba phambili, njl njl.
ENgilani
Abafazi besiNgesi banokuthenga into enhle, kunye nalabo abakwiqela labalungileyo. Kodwa libale iikhankaso zokukhawuleza kwivenkile, ngoko kuthetha, "kwizinto ezincinci", ukuba umyeni ufumanisa ukuba kuyimfuneko ukusebenza, ke intlungu ayikwazi ukuphetshwa. Abanqamlekileyo, abafazi abaqaqambileyo baya kuba nzima: eBrithani, ningaboni ukukhangela, ukugquba, ukugqoka kunye nezinto. Amadoda angamadoda angaphakamise isandla sakhe kumfazi, abayi kukhubekisa izilwanyana kwaye baya kukuxabisa. Kodwa zilungele ukuba uvula umnyango kuwe kwaye ugubungela ingubo yakho.
Unokuphumelela ukutshata nomfazi waseZanglian ukuba unako ukukhokelela uqoqosho oluqilileyo kwaye ugcine ukuziphatha.
Umlinganiselo wamadoda kubafazi
Ubudlelwane obuninzi kakhulu phakathi kwabasetyhini balawulwa ngamadoda avela kumazwe anjenge-Israel, eItali, eFransi, e-Australia naseFinland. Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba e-Australia naseFinland, abafazi bancinci kunamadoda, ngoko ke "unako ukubhukuda" ngobukhulu bothando kunye nokudumisa.
Ukuba ungumhlobo omhle we-Moydodyra, ngoko amadoda ase Holland neJamani aya kukuthatha ngendlela engcono.
Amantombazana abathanda ukugcina iimfuyo ekhaya aya kuhlala kakuhle namaDutch, kuba kweli lizwe iimeko ezinjalo zisesemveli.
Abasetyhini abangekho ixesha elifanelekileyo okanye i-vkoem ayifanele baqhagamshelane namaJamani kunye namaBritish. Uya kufikelela kumaTaliyane, ahluke kwixesha labo elingagcini ixesha: uya kuhamba kunye. Kodwa ukuba isiTaliyane siyeza kusasa, emva kwexesha liyakucasulwa kukuhlaselwa, kodwa ngokukhawuleza kupholile kwaye uxolele. Isimo sinyanisekileyo ngokubhekiselele kwabasetyhini sabelwa ngabaFrentshi nabase-Australia.
Isiphelo
Bafazi, khumbula: bangaphi amadoda, ubuninzi beempawu kunye neempawu. Kodwa ubuzwe buhlala buchaphazela umntu, intsapho yakhe, indawo yakhe kunye nokunye. Akuyimfuneko ukugweba abantu ngokuqinileyo, kodwa ukuqaphela akuyi kuba yinto engabonakaliyo. Ukuze ukwazi ukufumana umyeni, kufuneka ufikelele kuye kwaye ungagqibi ukuya kwizigqibo.