Ubaluleke kakhulu ebomini komntwana ngamnye kukutyelela kwabo kwirejista. Nangona kunjalo, abazali kufuneka baqaphele ukuba le sikolo esandulela isikolo singumdla wentsholongwane wezilwanyana ezinobungozi kumntwana wabo. I-kindergarten inamathuba amaninzi ukuba umntwana uya kubamba isifo esibandayo okanye esithathelwanayo. Ingaba umntwana wakho uhlala egula ebantwaneni? Yaye akumangalisi. Namhlanje siza kukuxelela malunga noko kufuneka kwenziwe ukwenzela ukuba umntwana wakho akhusele izifo ezibangelwa yi-virus.
Kutheni oku kwenzekayo? Kukho inkcazo yale nto. Abazali abaninzi bakhokela abantwana babo engadini, ngaphandle kokubaluleka kwinto yokuba umntwana unempawu ezibonakalayo zokugula. Ingumphunga we-runny okanye ukukhwehlela. Abafuni nje ukuyijonga. Izizathu zihlukile kubo bonke abantu. Kukho imeko xa iimpawu ezibonakalayo zokuphuhlisa izifo azibonakali. Kwakhona kwenzeka ukuba umntwana ungumthwali wesifo, kodwa akagula ngexesha elinye. Enyanisweni, oku akuthethi ukuba umntwana akadingi ukuba abhaliswe kwiziko lemfundo lokuqala. Unako ukubamba izifo zombini kwiindawo zokudlala eziqhelekileyo, kwaye nakwizithuthi zikawonkewonke okanye kwisitoreji.
Oogqirha bezilwanyana bathi kukulungele ukunika umntwana kuqala kwidireji yee-nursery (ukusuka kwiinyanga ezintathu ubudala) okanye iminyaka engama-4.5. Kunokuba bachaze. Kwiinyanga ezintathu umntwana wayengenalo ixesha lokusetyenziswa kuyo nayiphi na indawo, oko kuthetha ukuba kuya kuba lula kuye ukuba afunde ukusingqongileyo kwi-kindergarten. Kodwa ukunika umntwana wakho kumfundisi, ngexesha elimncinci, kungekhona wonke umama onako. Kwaye kukho ambalwa kakhulu amaziko. Kwaye kwiminyaka engama-4,5, ukukhuseleka kukuqina. Ngoko, kutheni kungabi nge-4,5? Impendulo ilula. Yonke into ihlala kwimithetho yethu, apho ikhefu lokubeletha liphela xa umntwana ejika ezintathu. Ngubani omele ushiye umntwana wakho? Uninzi lwabazali belizwe lethu alinalo ithuba lokuqesha umntwana ukuba anakekele umntwana wabo.
Imibuzo elandelayo iphakama: Yintoni enokuyenza ukuze ugweme isibhedlele esisigxina ngenxa yezifo eziqhelekileyo zomntwana? Unokunika njani amandla omntwana wokukhusela umkhuhlane ukukhusela ezininzi izifo?
Ngaba ufuna iimpendulo kule mibuzo? Emva koko, ukhona. Ngokuqhubekayo sicebisa ukuba uzifundele ngemithetho elula kwaye uthathe iingcebiso zethu.
Umthetho wenombolo 1. Musa ukudala iimeko zakho zokutsalwa komntwana. Oogqirha bancoma ngokuphindaphindiweyo ukuba baphume ngaphandle, batyelele indawo yokudlala yabantwana rhoqo ngangokunokwenzeka, baye kwiindwendwe, apho banabantwana abancinci. Kwaye ekhaya, musa ukudala indawo engumzimba oyinyumba. Isicelo esikhulu. Musa ukudibanisa amagama anjengokuthi "afanelekileyo" kunye neemeko "eziphambili" ezinobumba endlwini.
Umthetho wenombolo 2. Uxolo lwengqondo yomntwana. Abanye abazali baya kucinga ukuba oku kuphethileyo. Ingqondo yengqondo yomntwana ingayichaphazela njani intsholongwane? Abazali abanjalo baphosakeleyo. Iingcali zenzululwazi zibonakaliswe ukuba ukulinganiswa kwemvakalelo ngqo kukuchaphazela amandla okukhusela ukukhusela izifo.
Indlela yokugcina ukulinganisela kwemizwelo? Nazi ezinye iziphakamiso:
Okokuqala, zama ukulungiselela umntwana ukuze ngaphambi kokuba aye engadini akazange akhale kwaye akazange asebenze. Mthintele. Kufuneka yena ngokwakhe afune ukuya khona. Mxelele ngezinto ezithakazelisayo ezilindele apho, njengoko kuya kubakho umdla, kuba kuya kuba nabanye abantwana abalambileyo ukuba bajwayelane naye baze badlale kunye kwimidlalo enomdla. Kungcono ukhethe i-kindergarten apho iqela elingenalo inani elikhulu labantwana, kodwa inani elaneleyo lootitshala.
Kwakhona kufuneka ukuba wazi ukuba awukwazi ukushiya umntwana okokuqala kwi-nursergart usuku lonke. Umlutha kufuneka uhambe ngokukhawuleza, kunye nokwanda okwenziwe ubude bokuhlala ngeentsuku. Kulowo mntwana, ngumntu ngamnye. Enyanisweni, kwiimeko ezininzi azifani kakhulu. Utitshala onolwazi uya kukuxelela yonke into emva kokuqala ukuthetha nomntwana wakho.
Umthetho wenombolo 3. Ukutya okufanelekileyo. Ukutya kwansuku zonke komntwana kufanele kube yinto yokuba ufumana zonke iivithamini ezifunekayo kwimihla ngemihla kunye nezinto ezilandelelanayo. Izondlo zikwacetyiswa ukuba zidle amanzi ngobuninzi ngaphezu kweeyiti.
Umthetho wenombolo 4. Ukukhawuleza. Enyanisweni, ngokweenani-manani, abantwana abazinzima baye bagula kakhulu kunabanye abantwana. Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba ujikezele umntwana wakho kufuneka ufunde zonke iimpawu zokuzila. Emva koko, akusikho nto abayithethayo ukuba yonke into ilungele ukumodareyitha. Ngaphandle koko, unokufumana umphumo ohluke ngokupheleleyo. Awufuni ukwenza umntwana wakho agule ubomi.
Umthetho wenombolo 5. Ukusetyenziswa kwe-immunomodulators. Zifanele zisetyenziswe kuphela emva kokubonisana nodokotela onobugcisa obunokusetyenziswa. isicelo sabo esifanelekileyo siza kubangela ukuba buthathaka komsebenzi wokhuseleko. Unokufaka izicelo kunye nabasemagunjini bendalo, njenge-honey, i-hips iships kunye ne-jam.
Sithemba ukuba umntwana wakho uya kukhula enempilo, angaguli kwaye akhule ukuba abe ilungu elifanelekileyo kuluntu wethu.