Ukuqala kokuphila kwesikolo - uvuyo kunye novuyo okanye ukwesaba noxinzelelo kumntwana? Kuxhomekeke ngqo kuwe. NgoSeptemba 1 ngumhla wokuzonwabisa wonk 'ubani - bobabini abantwana nabazali babo. Kodwa ngokwenene, cingisisa ngokusondela ngeli mini udinga kakhulu ngaphambili. Ngoko ukuba umntwana wayeya kwiklasi yokuqala ngokokuqala ngqa ngobomi obonwabileyo nentliziyo ezolile.
Kuma-kindergarten, umntwana uqala ukuqonda izinto ezisisiseko zokuqeqesha, usebenzise ulawulo, ufunde ukuzimela, ukuchaneka nokunyamekela. Ubuncinane, inkqubo yeJamani yenzelwe oku. Emva koko yonke into yenzelwe abaxhasi kunye nabazali ngokwabo. Ngokuqhelekileyo unokuhlangabezana nombono onjalo: "Oko umntwana ekuchaphazelayo - makamhambe. Yiya esikolweni - ngokukhawuleza ufunde yonke into. Uya kuphi. " Oku kunokuthiwa nje ukungabi nxanduva kunye nobudenge kubazali. Emva koko bahlawule abantwana ngokwabo. Kwaye ixabiso lisoloko liye ke indlela i-ner-stressed emotions, eyalima ngayo amehlo, incitshiswa ibe yintsholongwane. Kwaye kwakunelungelo lokuziphatha kakuhle nomntwana ngaphambi kwesikolo, silungise, usibeke, ufundise. Zama ukuba ungadluli ngexesha elinye.
Abazali abaninzi benza impazamo, babangela ukwesaba umntwana ngaphambi kwesikolo. Bamethusa, ukuba kufuneka adlale amancinci aze asebenze ngaphezulu nangaphezulu, ukuze kamva angabi ngumfundi wokugqibela esikolweni, ukuze angadingi okanye ahleke. Le ngenye yezinto ezigqithiseleyo abazali bexesha elizayo abaqhelisele kuyo. Umntwana uyakhela ngokwayo, ukuba akayi kuthotywa, ngoko ukwesaba eli gama elithi "isikolo", oko kuya kuba nzima ukuba akwazi ukumelana nalo. Indlela efanelekileyo yokuphepha le nto kukuthetha nomntwana malunga nesikolo, ngaphandle kokuhlanganisa eli gama kuphela ngxaki, ukuqeqeshwa nokuqeqeshwa, kodwa kunye nemvakalelo emihle. Kumele aqonde ukuba isikolo yindawo apho, ngaphezu kokufunda, uya kudibana nabahlobo abatsha, baya kumnandi kwaye bazive bekunye kunye. Iindlela zokufundisa ukubonisa isikolo "njengento yokutshitshiswa" iphosakeleyo kwaye ayikho into efanelekileyo.
Umntwana udinga ukukhuthazwa, kungeyikho isoyiko. Kufuneka ukuba ulungiselele kwangaphambili ukuba okokuqala ngqa kwiklasi yokuqala umntwana uya kuhamba kunye nokuthuthumela. Abanye abantwana banalo luvuyo olunamandla kangangokuba abanako ukujamelana nalo ngokwabo. Kukho izidalwa ezingenakulimaza umntwana, kodwa ziya kumnceda ukuba ajamelane nokuthuthumela nokuthuthumela. Kodwa ngokwenene, ukwesaba ngosuku lokuqala lwesikolo akuyona ingxaki enkulu. Okubi kakhulu, ukuba umntwana uyamoyika ngexesha lonke ngaphambi kokuya esikolweni. Yintoni endiyenzayo? Zama ukujika yonke into ibe ngumdlalo. Ukuqeqesha iklasi lokufundela eklasini, zibeke iidokodo zakho okanye iityshini ezithambileyo, zibeke ipencilisi ehlukeneyo, ipenki, isasaze iincwadi ezinemibala. Umntwana ubona yonke into ngokwemiqobo: ekhanyayo kunye nemibala - ithetha, ivuya kwaye ingenakho. Vumela okokuqala ukuba ube ngutitshala. Umntwana uya kuthanda lo mdlalo. Ngokukhawuleza xa yena ngokwakhe ecela ukuba ngumfundisi - ulungile, wakwazi ukunqoba uloyiko lwakhe.
Kakade ke, abaqashi bokuqala abasele bakwazi ukufunda nokubala banokuqiniseka ngakumbi. Umntwana ulungele ukulungiswa kwikharityhulam yekharityhulam, ubonakala lula ngaye. Kodwa kuyiphutha ukulayisha umntwana ngokukhawuleza. Xa umntwana eya kwiklasi yokuqala, ekwazi ukufunda ngolwimi lwangaphandle aze asombulule iingxaki kwiprogram yesine-bakala, oku akumniki naliphi isiqinisekiso semfundo ephumelelayo kwikamva. Ngelishwa, ngokuphindaphindiweyo kuyinto eyahlukileyo. Umntwana uya esikolweni kunye nabantwana abasemva kwakhe ngokwempahla yolwazi. Kodwa utitshala akayi kuza neprogram eyahlukileyo kuye. Uya kuqala ukufunda ngendlela efanayo nayo yonke into eyenziwa ngumntu wonke-ukusuka kwi-alfabhethi, ngokufunda amanani. Ngaba unokucinga ukuba umntwana "omncinci" omncinci uya kuziva njani kule meko? Okulungileyo, uya kutyhafaza. Okubi kakhulu, uya kuthiya inzondo kunye nabafundisi, kunye "nabangenangqiqo" nabo. Oku akunqabile. Cinga ngalokhu ngokufanelekileyo phambi kokuba uqeqeshe umntwana wakho kuzo zonke izifundo zekharityhulam yesikolo kanye kanye.
Ngaphambi kokuqala konyaka wesikolo, kufuneka utshintshe igumbi lomntwana. Faka idesksi efasiteleni, ubeke iincwadi, iincwadi zokubhala kwi-shelf, hlengisa ishedyuli yezifundo eludongeni (makungabi nalutho ngoku). Susa amathoyizi angafunekiyo, ukwenzela ukuba igumbi alifani nendawo yezemidlalo. Leli gumbi lomfundi, umfundi, kwaye kufuneka azive yena ngokwakhe. Ngokuqhelekileyo abantwana bayonwabile ukuthabatha kwigumbi labo, beqonda ukuba ngoku sele bekhulile kwaye bazimeleyo. Oku kunconywa kakhulu kumntwana, kubangela ukuba uthembele kuye.
Ngokuqala kwiklasi yokuqala kuya kufuneka ukuba u-oh ungakanani ukuthenga. Ukususela kwiindwangu, ekupheleni kwendawo yokubhala. Kwaye kufuneka uyenze oku kunye nomntwana. Abantwana bavame ukuthanda inkqubo yokuthenga iincwadi, iipen, iincwadi kunye nezinye izinto ezincinci. Le ngqondo iyilungiselela ukucinga ngesikolo, yandisa umnqweno wokuya khona kungekudala.
Ngeholide uza kufuna isidumbu esihle seentyatyambo, esifanele silungiselele kwangaphambili. Ungazithengi iindawo eziyinkimbinkimbi kunye neziqhamo, eziza kuphazamisana nomntwana okanye zize zinikezele kwimvelaphi yabanye abantwana. Khetha into elula kunye nesicatshulwa ukubonisa intlonipho ngutitshala.
Usuku lokuqala esikolweni luneemvakalelo esizikhumbulayo kuzo zonke ubomi bethu. Nika umntwana wakho ithuba lokukhumbula le mini ngokumomotheka, kungekhona ngokugubha. Konke kusezandleni zakho.