Ngokuqhelekileyo, ingqiqo ichazwa njengesixa solwazi, kodwa akunjalo. Kunoko, ingqiqo inxulumene nokukwazi komntwana ukufunda izinto ezintsha. Kwaye ekubeni eqhuba ulwazi lwehlabathi ukususela ekuqaleni, izenzo zebazali kufuneka zifaneleke. Mhlawumbi uya kumangaliswa, kodwa, umzekelo, oko ootitshala ababiza ngokuba "ukuzalwa nokubhala" kuxhomekeke kwindlela abazali abafunda ngayo iincwadi kubantwana babo kwasebuntwaneni. Akunjalo kuphela ... Ukuphuhliswa kwengqondo yomntwana kwasebuncinaneni - isihloko sokupapashwa.
Imvakalelo yokuqala
Ingane yomntwana ichithelwa ngokukhawuleza ngolu hlobo lweemvakalelo: Uziva ufudumele ngumama, uthanda ukunambitha ubisi, uhlangabezana nokukhanya kosuku, ubona amabala amacwecwe, uva izandi ezininzi ezingaqhelekanga, uzivumba. Ngombuzo wobukho bulumko kwiintsana ezisandul 'ukuzalwa, izazinzulu ziye zaphendula ngokugqithisileyo, ngokubhekiselele ekutshintshelweni kwezinto ezincinane. Umntu omncinci uyazi njani ihlabathi? Umzimba ophezulu wolwazi ngumzimba wonke womntwana, ngakumbi umlomo. Ocebileyo ukuva komntwana, ukuphakama kwakhe kuya kuba ngaphezulu. Okwangoku, ufunda ihlabathi elimjikelezile kunye nomzimba wakhe omncinci kwaye uzinike ixesha lakhe konke, akhulule kwiinkqubo ezibalulekileyo zokusinda - ukulala nokutya. Isisu sakhe singalimaza, kwaye, kungekudala, sele esazi ukuba intlungu leyo. Unokuziva into efana nokwesaba xa umama eshiya egumbini, kwaye, ngokuzalwa nje, sele esazi ukuba yintoni intswelo. Ukuba uvalwe ngokugqithiseleyo, ufuna inkululeko, kwaye, ngokungazalwanga, sele esazi ukuba ngumsindo. Usana lufunda ihlabathi ngokwemvakalelo, lugxininise ngaphakathi. Yonke into ayifunayo ngoku ivakalelwa yintuthuzelo nokhuseleko.
Ukufunyanwa kokuqala
Umntwana ukhula, kwaye into yokuqala oya kuyiqaphela kukuba malunga neenyanga ezimbini kamva wafunda ukuqonda nokubamba ithoyizi. Yonke into ebanjwe ngentende yesana ifundwa ngokukhawuleza ngomlomo. Intsana ilandelelanisa i-toy ehambahambayo, kwaye, ngezinye izihlandlo, ikwazi ukuceba iindlela zayo zokufumana ". Ngokomzekelo, engakwazi ukufikelela into enomdla kuye, wenza ukufumana okukhulu: ukuba udibanisa kwiphepha apho ithoyilo lilele khona, lingaba zezandla zakho. Izenzo ezinjalo zomvelisi omtsha zijongwa yizinzulu njengenkqubo yokuzalwa kwengqondo. Olunye kunye nentuthuko - umntwana akaqapheli nje umama wakhe, yena ngokwakhe uyamncoma ngokuthandwayo: "i-guzzles", ibonisa uvuyo lwakhe, ukumomotheka kunye kunye nemilenze.
Izenzo zabazali
• Vumela umntwana ukuba azive, aphulaphule, abuke, ahombe, uthinte kwaye uzame ngomlomo nangeminwe izinto ezahlukeneyo. Makuvumba ukutya okupheka, imvula yasentwasahlobo, umdlalo otshisa, ukuvuna okubalulayo, iifatata ezibilisiwe, isanti esadlulileyo. Ngokwemvelo, qaphela ukhuseleko.
• Musa ukukothuka xa umntwana edonsa i-toy toy, i-pacifier, ngomunwe, i-rattle emlonyeni wakhe. Ngaloo ndlela uyazincama xa engekho unina, okwenziwa kwezi zinto "isekela lesigxina". Iingcali zize zenyuka negama kubo - "izinto zenguqu." Kwenzeka ukuba ibhinqa elidala, elincinci lomntwana lidlula kunezinto ezitsha zokudlala.
• Hlalani nisondele, kulungile ukuba unokuthwala umntwana wakho kwi-kangaroo okanye nge-sling. Kule nqanaba, ukuqhagamshelana nomzimba kubaluleke kakhulu, kuba umntwana uvakalelwa ihlabathi kunye nethole! Ukuba ufudumele kwaye ukhululekile, kwaye umama usekufutshane - oku kukuthintela uxhalaba.
• Khumbula ukuba umntwana "uyamkela" ngokwenene ihlabathi elikujikelezayo. Mamela ndawonye nomculo oyithandayo, vumela i-dapin bass kunye nesandi se-soprano somama, vumela umntwana ukuba azive ufudumala lwesigama sika-ugogo wakhe, uvale isambatho sokugqoka ingubo yomama kwaye unamathele emacaleni enziwe ngamaplanga. Yonke into eyaziwayo kumntwana yakha ihlabathi lakhe, lizinzile kwaye likhuselekile.
Ihlabathi lenzululwazi encinci
Usana luneenyanga ezintandathu ubudala, kwaye ukuxhuma ekuphuhlisweni kwakhe kubonakala ngeso iso. Impumelelo ephambili yomntwana - wafunda ukuhlala. Ukuhlala kuhlala kuninzi, kufumaneka kakhulu. Okwangoku, umntwana unentshisekelo kwinani elinyukayo lezinto, kwaye nje i-rattle ayinomdla. Kubalulekile ukuba kuzwakala, kucwecwe, kudlale iingoma. Kubalulekile ukuba ukwazi ukubeka amathoyizi komnye nomnye, udibanise iindandatho ezithini, wongeza ii cubes, uqhathanise ubukhulu bawo kunye nemibala. Ihlala inomxholo ngokwawo, eyaziwa ngokucophelela ngazo zonke iindlela ezinokwenzeka: uyathandayo, uthabatha ngendlela eyahlukileyo, uzisa amehlo, ubeka intloko, ugononxa eludongeni, uphonsa, abukele umdlalo onomdla kunye nokuphulaphula izandi. Ngexesha elifanayo - thobela ingqalelo - ufumana injabulo engavamile kwimisebenzi yakhe. Ngokutsho kweengcali zeengqondo, ngoku umntwana "usosayensi kwibhubhoratri yakhe", ngokukhawuleza, ngokucokisekileyo kunye nokudala (!) Ukufunda isifundo esingaqhelekanga. Ukongezelela, umntwana uyakhuluma ngokukhawuleza, ngezinye izikhathi ukudala ulwimi lwakhe. Esi sifundo sinomdla kakhulu kangangokuthi uhlala esithi izandi zodwa ngenxa yolonwabo, kwaye kwakhona ziva isandi sazo.
Izenzo zabazali
• Nika umntwana into enomdla kakhulu ekufundeni. Thenga izinto zokudlala imibala eyahlukeneyo, imilo, ubukhulu. Kuyinto efiselekayo - ukuzwakala. Cinga ngokuthenga iipiramidi, ii-cubes, i-molds, i-matryoshkas, iibhodi ze-Séguin, iinguqu ezahlukeneyo ze legosa enkulu. Ngoku ukuphuhliswa kwengcinga kuya kuhamba ngokucinga ngendawo, ukwakhiwa, ukufunda iifomu. Ukuba umdlalo ofundwa ngumntwana unzima kakhulu, ungadlala ngokubambisana: bonisa ukuba umzekelo, unako ukuguqula iivili. Kodwa ukuba umntwana uqikelele - oku kuyinyathelo elikhulu ekuphuhlisweni kwakhe. Ngoku, xa unomdla umdlalo, uyakwazi ukushiya kuye okwesikhashana.
• Ngexesha leemfundo ungaphazanyisanga umntwana, ungamphazamisi, mvumele ukuba ahlakulele ngokupheleleyo umdlalo wakhe - ezi ziqalo zamandla okudala omntwana. Xa umdlalo ufundwa ngokupheleleyo kwaye usondla, khawuqwalasela "umgangatho wentlalo" womfundi othi: "Yaye idoli idla i kasha?".
• Ncokola rhoqo umntwana, funda izibongo kuye. Ungagxininisekanga kakhulu kubantwana njengoko kubhalwe kwiincwadi ezintle-ngeqondo elithile lokuba kungenzeka ukuba oku kuya kuba sisiseko sokuthetha, ukubhala, kwaye ngubani omnye ootitshala abaza kuthiwa "ukufunda nokubhala."
Isithethi eselula
Isinyathelo esilandelayo ekuphuhlisweni komntwana kukubonakala kwentetho. Oku kwenzeka emva kweenyanga zithoba. Ekuqaleni le ntetho ifana ne-bble, kodwa inenjongo enkulu. Ukuthetha igama ngokupheleleyo kumntwana kunzima kakhulu-kwaye kunqunyanyelwe kwinxalenye yelizwi, elinegunya, njengomthetho. Umatshini "u-mash"; i-spoon - "lo", ugogo - "ba" okanye "baba", banikele - "ewe", njl. Ukongeza, onke amagama aphethwe ngumntwana anokukwazi ukuba neentsingiselo ezininzi: umzekelo, "khangela" - i-spoon, i-puddle, lotto, isepha. Olu hlobo lolwimi luqondwa kakuhle ngumama onakekela umntwana. Nangona usebenza "njengenguquki", wonke umntu uyaqonda kakuhle oko kuyimfuneko kumntwana. Enye impumelelo enkulu yonyaka wokuqala wobomi bomntwana uhamba-ngeenyanga ezili-12 umntwana uqala ukuhamba ngaphakathi kwithuba elinikezelwe lona, okokuqala ngoncedo lomzali, kwaye ngoko-ke ngokuzimela. Le ndlela yokunyakaza ivula amathuba amakhulu, ukwandisa umhlaba wangaphandle wegumbi elisondeleyo kwiingcamango ezingenakulinganiswa zomntwana.
Izenzo zabazali
• landela umntwana. Ingaba umntwana uyayithanda amanzi? Thengisa amathoyizi ajikelezayo, ibhola, iikhabhi - zonke kwindawo yokuhlamba. Kuhle ukuba unike iipalati zamanwe omntwana kwindawo yokuhlambela - ukuhlamba kuya kuba luvuyo olukhulu kulutsha.
• Umntwana uyakuthanda ukuqokelela nokudibanisa amathoyizi - qhagamshela zonke iindlela zokukhetha: bhaka ikhekhe - makabekho umqambi kwi-dough, usike i-apple kwiindawo eziliqela - ngaphambi kokuba uyi-designer "apple".
• Uqaphele ukuba umntwana ukhawuleza, uthanda ukuhamba? Yakha iindawo zokudlala ezahlukeneyo, ukukwazi ukuhamba ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo: ukukhwela kwikhephethi egumbini, kwi-mattress egonyiweyo, ukuqiniswa kancinci, ukufikelela kwibhola okanye kwi-bubbles bubbles, ukhuphuke phezu kweentaba "zeendwendwe kwi-embhedeni, gxuma kwi" jumper ".
• Ukuba umntwana uphulaphule umculo, izandi - phawula ingqalelo "kwingoma yomculo" yomntwana: bhubela kuye, ufunde izibongo, ucebise ukuphulaphula isandi sezinto ezihlukahlukeneyo zomculo, iintaka eziculayo. Musa ukulibala, ukubeka umntwana ukuba alale, kucula ingoma, xelela inkcazelo yamagama, faka iCD kunye nomculo omhle. Mhlawumbi ngoku intsana ayiyiqondi ngokupheleleyo intsingiselo yengxelo, kodwa sele iyayazi, ukuba "uyayazi" izandi zomculo.
• Ungalibali: into ebaluleke kunayo nayiphi na umntu, kwaye encinci, ingakumbi. Mhlawumbi ngoku umntwana wakho wenze ukufumanisa kwakhe okwehlukile, kwaye uvuyo lwakho, ukuziqhenya kwakho kunye novuyo lokuthetha naye luyintloko, imfuno ebalulekileyo yokuphuhlisa kwakhe.