Udibana nomntu - onobubele, onobubele, onengqiqo ... Uhambo lwakhe kuphela - waqhawula umtshato. Ngaba kufanelekile ukwakha ubudlelwane naye?
Ngokwezibalo, ezweni lethu ukusuka kwimitshato engama-100 malunga ne-70 iphelile ngokuqhawula umtshato. Kwaye ngoko inokwenzeka yokudibana nomntu owayesakuba yintsapho endleleni yakhe yobomi iphakamileyo. Ngesizathu esithile, le nto ithemba abantu abaninzi. Musa ukoyika! Ukuba umtshato wakhe wangaphambili awuphumelelanga, akuthethi ukuba ulwalamano lwakho luya kuphela nje ngokudabukisayo.
Ubuthathaka
Xa udibana nomntu oqhawule umtshato, musa ... ... thuthuzela, nangona ufuna ntoni. Ndikholelwe, oku akuyona ndlela enhle. Nokuba uya kukushiya ngokukhawuleza xa esaphila kwixesha lokudakumba, emva koko uya kuhlala enendima ye "vest" ... Ukuzama ukumsindisa kuyo nayiphi na into - ukusela utywala okanye umona. Kuphosakeleyo ukucinga ukuba umfazi wakhe wayengafanelekanga kwinto ethile, akazange aqonde, akayiqondi, kwaye ke waya kule nto, kwaye unokutshintsha yonke into. Ndikholelwe: awukwazi ukutshintsha umntu.
Kungcono ukungena emphefumlweni. Ukuba umntu akakwazanga ukusinda esi sithuba, uya kuphazamiseka ngemibandela enjalo. Kungavalwa okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, kuyakufuneka ukuba uthethe ngeenkcukacha ezidlulileyo. Kwimeko nayiphi na, uya kuba "ngaphandle kwebhokisi". Ukuba umtshato uya kulwa naye ngaphambili, uya kuhleka okanye mhlawumbi, uyacaphuka.
Yiba ngumama.
Udla i-sausages kunye ne-pasta kunye neendwangu zokuhamba, uhamba ngezinto ezingekho kakuhle? Ngokuqinisekileyo, kukuhle ukubonisa ukuba ungumfazi osebenza kakuhle, kodwa ungayi kukhawulezi. Okokuqala thola ukuba ungubani kuye.
Amandla
Abanye besetyhini bakholelwa ukuba amadoda ahlukaniswe kakuhle kakhulu kunabo abangatshatanga, kuba banamava. Kwaye inenyaniso yayo.
Indoda yangaphambili yentsapho iyancipha ngakumbi ngabafazi. Uyazi kakuhle ukuba yiyiphi imihla ebalulekileyo kwaye uyaqonda ukuba ngeli xesha umlingane angakwazi ukuziphatha ngokufanelekileyo. Wayesebenamava kunye noninazala noninazala, okubaluleke kakhulu.
Wayejwayele ukukhawuleza ekhaya emva komsebenzi, kwaye ungahlali kunye nabahlobo kwi-bar. Wayeqaphele ukuba umvuzo awufanele uchithe yena ngokwakhe, kodwa nakwintsapho. Ngokungafani nabafundi be-bachelors, uyaqonda indlela yokuphatha ngayo amabinzana "andinanto yokugqoka" kwaye "emihlanu imizuzu iya kulungela." Utshise ukutshisa ngexesha elinjalo kwaye ngoku uya kuzama ukuphindaphinda iimpazamo ezifanayo.
Ewe, yena, ngenye indlela, uya kukuqhathanisa nawe "wangaphambili." Kodwa ekuqaleni uya kukhumbula kwakhona amadoda akho.
Akuyena iqhawe lakho. Balekela kuye, ukuba yena ...
1. Uhlala ethetha ngomfazi wakhe owayengumfazi wokuqala: "Sahamba naye ...", "Uthi apha nantsi i-sushi engcono kakhulu kwisixeko." Kubonakala ukuba udibana naye. Kwaye mhlawumbi akayi ku libala.
2.Isikhathi sonke sikhalaza ngaye: "Ungumfazi osisidenge, onamafutha, ombi, akazange aqonde." Ukuba uthetha malunga nomfazi otshatileyo, ngoko unokulindela isigwebo esifanayo.
3. Uthi umyeni ubeka ityala lokuqhawula umtshato. Akafuni ukuvuma iimpazamo zakhe, kodwa bobabini bahlala bebandakanyeka ekugqibeleni.
4. Akaboni abantwana bakhe emtshatweni wakhe wokuqala kwaye akabancedi imali. Ewe, ngubani na emva koko?
Ukuze ulwalamano lwakho lube ngumgangatho ophezulu, soloko uphulaphula izicelo zakhe kunye nezicelo. Emva kwakho konke, bonke abantu-njengamakati, abahlala bengenalo uthando kunye novelwano. Ngoko ke, ukhathazeka nge-caress, ungalokothi uphazamise. Yiphathe indoda yakho ngentlonelo, kwaye inene ngothando. Ukuqinisekisa ukuba umyeni wakho wekamva okanye inkwenkwe ihlala ikuphatha ngothando kwaye ayizange ilangazele ukukuxelela ngawe, nangona uthe waqhekeka, ukuba unamafutha kwaye uyingozi. Umele ulandele imbonakalo yakho, ngokuba nasekhaya ufanele ukhangeleke kulula kwaye ujabulise. Funda ukuhlala kakuhle!