Ukuba yonke into ebomini iyagqitywa, umyeni uyamkhathaza, yonke imihla ayifani nenye, umntu ongaziwayo owenza "ngengozi", uzenzele, umzekelo "kwintanethi" Odnoklassniki ", kwi-ICQ okanye kwenye indawo, idibanisa ubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla. Ilizwi ngelizwi, kwaye uhlala unamathele kumhlobo wakho. Uzonwaba kwaye unomdla uba ngumhla ngemihla. Kodwa ngaba konke kulungile njengoko kubonakala ngathi? . . Ngaba awucingi ukuba uqala ukutshintsha kumyeni wakho okanye kumhlobo wakho? Uyazi ukuba ukuhlambalaza akunjalo ukudibana nomzimba.
Umhlobo onqwenelekayo xa uhlaselwa ebomini bakho kwaye uqinisekile ukuba ufuna ukutshintsha into ethile, okanye ukuba akukho mntu ebomini bakho. Emva koko ukuzibandakanya nomntu ongaziwayo uya kuzisa intando ebomini bakho ngaphandle "kwemiphumo emibi". Kodwa, khawucinge, yonke into iya kuhamba kakuhle ebomini bakho, ukuba umyeni wakho ukhubeka ngephutha kwincwadi yakho eyimfihlo. Wena ngokwakho uyazi ukuba "isela kunye nentsimbi isemlilweni," kwaye, njengenhlanhla inokuthi, unokulibala ukuvala "iwindi elinqatshelwe." Ngaba ufuna ukuhluleka okunjalo, ucinga? . . Ukulahlekelwa ukuthembela kanye kunye nabo bonke kufakiwe kwizicwangciso zakho?
Okokuqala, umhlobo ontle ulungile ukuba ufuna ukuthetha kuphela, wabelane ngesifo sakho nomntu ongaqhelekanga. Yinyaniso yokuba abaninzi abafazi "baqhelana" ngokungabikho, kwaye emva koko batshata ngendlela efanayo. Abanye bathi abakwazi ukuhlala ngaphandle kokunxibelelana ngokuqinileyo, abafazi abanjalo bafuna umngane ongeyena, nokuba nje ukuphumla. Kodwa, ngelo xesha, awukhuseli kwinto yokuba ungakwazi ukunxibelelana nobuntu obuqulunqwe ngokupheleleyo. Akukho siqinisekiso sokuthi kwelinye isiphelo "senqabunga lewebhu" alikho uhlobo oluthile lwe-maniac yesondo. Akukho nto, kodwa cinga ukuba ufuna ukujonga okuthandayo, ufumene isithunzi sokutshintshisisa ukutshintshela kwaye uqale uqhagamshelwano kunye nawe ukukujonga ngokunyaniseka. Yiloo nto endicinga ukuba awunakuyilindela.
Ewe, umfazi oyinyaniso ufuna umhlobo, umvelaphi, xa kungekho mntu wangempela ebomini. Yaye xa kungekho nto yokulahleka, ungathetha nomfokazi, ngaphandle koko, umntu ongowokungahlali uya kuba ngumntu ogqibeleleyo, ngaphandle kokusilela, ade uvumelane naye malunga nentlanganiso ... Kodwa oku akuyi kwenzeka, lelinye ibali.