Musa ukulibala ngokumangalisa
Nangona emva kweminyaka eyi-10 yokuhlala kunye, esinye isiqingatha silindele kuwe, amancinci okanye iziganeko ezintle. Ingqiqo kwaye esikhundleni sesipho esisebenzayo nesiluncedo, yenza isidlo sakusihlwa embhedeni, simema kwisidlo sothando ngendawo yokudlela ecocekileyo okanye unxibe ingubo yokugcoba. Khumbula, kuba ekuqaleni kobudlelwane bakho, xa bezele ukukhwabanisa, awuzange unike enye ipaneli, iiconum cleaner okanye iingubo zangasese ezifudumeleyo.
Ukulala ngesondo
Musa nje ukubandakanya kwinto ebizwa ngokuba yimpumelelo yemisebenzi yomtshato, kodwa uvavanyo. Ukuba uthakazelo luye lwaba luncinane, kuyacaca ukuba ujonge iindlela zokubuyisa. Kule ndlela kukho iindlela ezininzi: iingubo zangaphantsi ezithandanayo, imidlalo yokudlala indima, iindawo ezintsha, ukubeka, iindlela, iifayili zesondo. Konke oku kuya kwenza ubomi bakho bobulili bube mnandi kwaye bucebile. Musa nje ukulibala ukuxoxa neqabane lakho.
Musa ukubaluleka kakhulu kwiingxaki zasekhaya
Ukunyaniseka, ubomi bubulala inzondo, ngoko kufuneka ukhathazeke ngokungenakwenzeka okanye ungakhathazeki nonke. Oku akuthethi ukuba lixesha lokuba yi-hippie. Zama ukuxhobisa indlu yakho ngendlela enokuthi akukho nto inqabileyo kuyo. Yenze kube lula ngokusemandleni akho kwintsapho yakho. Kuyafana nokusebenza kwentsapho yakho. Ukulahla izinto ezithandabuzayo malunga nemicimbi yamadoda kunye neyesifazana. Uza kuziva ungaxinzelelwanga ngobomi kuphela xa wenza izinto ozithandayo, uze uthumele ezinye iingcali.
Khumbula: udalwe ukuthanda, kungekhona ukuguquka
Ndikholelwe, kunye nomntu ohlala ebonayo akufuni ukuba nantoni na efanayo. Ukusuka kwezo zinto ngaphandle kokufihla okanye ukubalekela. Ukuba uhlala ubhekisela ezintweni ezingakufanelanga, kungekudala uzakulahlekelwa yintsapho yakho kuphela, kodwa kunye neqabane lakho. Kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba ufanele uqokelele iimvakalelo eziphazamisayo kuwe, kuba ekugqibeleni baya kuphuma baze baqhube yonke into. Xoxa nabathandekayo bakho, kwaye ukuba bengakuvumi, akuyiyo ingxaki yabo, mhlawumbi kufuneka uguqule indlela. Ngendlela, cingisisa ngayo, mhlawumbi umane uxoxise ukubaluleka kwazo zonke ezi zinto. Ngaba esinye isidlo esingatshitshiyo sifanelekile?
Thatha ngeveki
Akukhona ngomsebenzi, kodwa malunga nosapho. Ngamanye amaxesha nawe kufuneka uphumule kuwo. Bantwana, bazali, oku kuvuyisa ngokwenene, kodwa ngokumalunga nemvelaphi yabo unokuzilahleka. Zama ukuhlawula ngokwaneleyo omnye nomnye. Yiba yedwa, shiya ndawonye kwisixeko, musa ukutsala abantwana emva kwakho, ngamanye amaxesha ungabashiya kumakhulu okanye uqeshe umfana. Ndikholelwe, kuya kuba ngcono kubantwana ngokwabo, kuba abazali abonwabileyo isiqinisekiso sobudlelwane obuhle kwintsapho.
Khangela umhlobo omhle kumhlobo
Ngelishwa, ixesha elide sisiphila emtshatweni, ngokuqhelekileyo siqala ukulibala malunga neempawu ezilungileyo zomntu othandekayo kwaye sigxininise ingqalelo kwimiphumo. Khangela inyaniso ebusweni, wonke umntu unempawu ezimbi, kodwa wathandana kunye ngezinto ezibalulekileyo kunye ezibalulekileyo kuwe. Ngendlela, mhlawumbi isiqingatha sesibini asikwazi ukubonisa uhlangothi lwazo, kuba kungekho sizathu salokhu? Umzekelo, ukuba umyeni wakho ungumpheki omuhle, mnike ithuba lokwenza njalo. Yaye ukuba umfazi uhleka kakuhle, mnike ezinye izizathu zokonwaba.
Fumana umdlalo odibeneyo
Ukuchitha ixesha elide kunye kunye nokwenza into eqhelekileyo. Kucetyiswa ukuba akuyiyo yokucoca ngokuqhelekileyo okanye ukuya kwimarike. Fumana umdlalo odibeneyo, umzekelo, unokwenza imidlalo kunye, umdaniso, uthathe ukupheka okanye ukuhamba. Kuza kuqulunqa intsapho yakho njengoko uya kuthathwa yinto enomdla kubo bobabini, ngexesha elifanayo ukufunda into entsha kwaye iluncedo.
Bonisa umdla kumsebenzi wokuzonwabisa
Ukongeza kwizinto zokuzilibazisa ezidibeneyo, kuyafaneleka ukuhlawula ngokubaluleka kunye noluntu. Akubalulekanga ukuba ukwahlukana nokuzibonga, kodwa inzala ingabomeleza ulwalamano lwakho. Ukongezelela, ukuba uvelwano ngothando lomyeni wakho wepalball okanye iphilately, uya kuhlala unesihloko kwincoko. Uya kuhlala uziva unomdla wobomi bakhe kwaye akuyi kuba nendawo yokulolonga kumtshato wakho.
Ukuphuhlisa izithethe zentsapho
Oku kuya kunceda nje isibini sakho sibini, kodwa sincedisa yonke intsapho. Unokwenza isithethe ngokubhiyozela umhla othile, umzekelo, uNyaka omtsha okanye iKrismesi, okanye wenze iholide yakho ekhethekileyo. Khetha usuku oluthile, uqokelele abahlobo uze ubhiyoze imini xa uhambele imbono yokuhlala kunye nobomi bakho bonke. Unokuza nomcimbi ohlekisayo, umzekelo, bhiyozela imini xa umyeni wakho ekunika umvuzo. Yonke le nto iya kuba yinto ehlekisayo kwaye ihlekisayo.
Vumelani uthando lwakho
Abanye bakholelwa ukuba emva kweminyaka emininzi yobomi bentsapho, ilungu ngalinye losapho liyazi ukuba uyathandwa ngabanye. Siyaxolisa ukukukhubaza, oku akunjalo. Elula, okokuqala, amagama amathathu athatha indima enkulu: kongeza ukuzithemba, uvuyo. Imvakalelo kufuneka ihlale iboniswa, kungekhona ngamazwi kuphela, kodwa ngezenzo. Inyaniso zama ukulinganisa amagama kunye nezenzo.
Jongana, ungagxininisi kwiingxaki uze ufune ukuvakalelwa kunye nolwazi. Nantsi imfihlelo elula yobudlelwane obudibeneyo novuyo obungayi kuze kuxhomekeke kwinani leminyaka behlala ndawonye.