Ukuba awukwazi ukuba uphendule umbuzo: wenzeni xa abantu abasondeleyo bexhomekeke kwimidlalo yekhompyutheni, kubalulekile ukuzama ukucacisa isizathu sokuxhomekeka okuphezulu kumntu omncinane.
Okokuqala, makhe sizame ukubona isizathu esenza ntoni kumhlobo wakho okanye umzalwana. Imeko xa "i-gamer" engaqhelekanga yindoda, ayinqabile, kuba akunakwenzeka ukukhupha amadoda angatshatanga kwikhompyutha. Ukuba ulwalamano olunjalo luyinkwenkwe yakho, ngoko kufuneka uphendule ngokunyanisekileyo, unomdla kuye kakhulu, ungayithanda njani? Enyanisweni, abo bantu babhaptizelwa kwihlabathi elithe tye, abaneneni ngokwenene abanandaba nantoni na.
Kwimeko apho umfana ethanda intombi yakhe, akayi kuchitha kwiikhomputha ngexesha lonke. Ewe, uthando lwemidlalo luya kuhlala, kodwa ixesha awachitha kuzo liya kuncitshiswa kakhulu. Kufanelekile ukwahlula phakathi kweemeko apho umfana ethanda ukudlala kwikhomputha kwaye xa engasuki kuye iintsuku nobusuku, ekhohlwa malunga nento yonke.
Ngoko, kutheni umntu osondeleyo engafuni ukushiya ihlabathi eliyinyani kweli hlabathi. Mhlawumbi inyaniso kukuba, ngokwenene, akunakuthandabuza okanye akanakukhathazeka. Isizathu salo, mhlawumbi, sisinxinxu, ihlazo kunye nokudumala. Umntu akavakalelwa kukuba kuyimfuneko ngokwenene. Kubonakala kuye ukuba ihlabathi elibonakalayo lixhasa kakhulu. Ukuze uncede, kufuneka, kwindawo yokuqala, ukukhumbuze ukuba abantu abamthandayo baze bamdinga. Musa nje ukusola umfana okanye usityhale. Kubalulekile ukwenza ngokuzinzileyo nangokuthe ngcembe. Ukuba lo ngumhlobo wakho okanye umzalwana, uya kukuxabisa kwaye akafuni ukulimaza. Ngoko uyidlale. Xoxa naye malunga nokuba awufumani okwaneleyo, ukuba ufuna ukumxelela ezininzi, cela icebiso, kwaye awukwazi ukufikelela kuye. Cela umfana ukuba akunike ixesha. Inokwenzeka ukuba, uyavuma kwaye uya kuziqhayisa emnye umdlalo. Ukuba oko kwenzeka, kufuneka wenze yonke imizamo yokuba ungabi naso ixesha lokucinga malunga nokuba umdlalo awuthatyathwa kwinqanaba elitsha kwaye umlinganisi akaphambananga ngendlela afuna ngayo. Zama ukukrazula umfana ngaphandle kwendlu. Udinga ukutshintsha imeko kwaye ubuncinci bezinto eziphazamisayo. Cinga ngento ayenayo nento ayithandayo ngaphandle kwemidlalo yekhompyutha. Kufuneka unomdla kumntu omncinane uze umkhumbuze ukuba ubomi bokwenene bunomdla kakhulu. Ngoko zama ukuhamba naye kwiindawo ezikukhumbuza into entle: ubuntwaneni, amabali anomdla kunye neziganeko. Kwaye into ephambili: ungathuli. Ndixelele ngezinto ezikukhathazayo, umcele icebiso, akukhumbuze oko kwenzeka kuwe kwaye unomdla owenza ngayo ixesha lakho. Kodwa kwakhona unike ithuba lokuthetha kunye nalo mfana ngokwakhe. Musa ukuguqula yonke into ibe yimilo, kungenjalo iza kungena kwiingcamango zakho kwaye awuyi kubona nayiphi na isizathu. Ngokuqhelekileyo, yenza njalo ukuba wayeziyimfuneko kwihlabathi langempela, kwaye waba yinto enomdla ngakumbi.
Kwakhona, zama ukuqonda isizathu sokuba umthandi wakho abe yedwa. Mhlawumbi wadimazeka kubahlobo bakhe kunye nomthandayo. Ukuba oku kunjalo ngokwenene, kufuneka ukhuthaze ngokuthe ngcembe ukuba uqhelane nabantu abatsha, okusemgangathweni kubo bonke abantombazana. Ukuba phakathi kweentombi zakho zikhona ezihle, kwaye zibaluleke kakhulu, abafazi abalungileyo abangacaphukisiyo kwaye badumise loo mfana, zama ukuwazisa, ngokuqinisekileyo, emva kokufumana imvume evela kwintombi. Yonke insizwa ubuncinane inomdla kwintombazana, kwaye kufuneka uyenze ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba kufuneka baqhelane. Mhlawumbi intombi yakho inokumthanda, kodwa ukuba akunjalo, le ncinane iya kukhumbula ukuba kukho ukunxibelelana kwabantu. Into eyona nto kukuba wayenomdla, ngokwenene ukhethe izihloko kunye nabantu abaya kuba naye. Ukuba akanakukhathazeka, lo mntu uya kuphinda aqinisekise kwakhona ukuba ikhompyutha ilula kwaye kulula ukuhlala.
Kodwa, ukuba ubona ukuba akukho ncoko okanye ukukholisa kusebenza, ukuba le nsizwa iyakunyalisa kwaye ayifuni ukuva, ngoko kufuneka udibanise nengcali yezengqondo, kuba ukuxhomekeka kwakhe kuya kuba sisifo esifanelekileyo ekufuneka uphathwe ngayo.