Naluphi na onokuzibini ongeyena, kodwa ngobudlelwane phakathi kwendoda nentombazana, ixesha elinzima lenzeke kuwo wonke umntu. Kubonakala ngathi: konke kulungile kuwe, akukho mpikiswano kunye nezikhalazo eziye zavela, kodwa ngokukhawuleza kwaqhambuka isiphepho. Masithi kanye kanye: ukuze yonke into yangoko ikhuphe ize iphele, ayiyi kwenzeka. Kungenzeka ukuba wena kunye naloo nto uhlala kunye nokuhlambalaza ngaphakathi kwakho, ukuze ungabhubhisi ubuhlobo bokuqala. Nangona kunjalo, akunakwenzeka ukubamba inzondo ixesha elide, ngamanye amaxesha uphumela emva kweminye. Kwaye kwagqitywa i-scandal enkulu, oko kushiya uphawu olubi kumtshato phakathi kwendoda nentombazana. Uthuli luyimveliso yokungathembeki. Kulukhuni, ke, ukuthembela umntu ongeyenazi ukuba uthanda. Kodwa ukuba ugqiba malunga nolwalamano oluqinileyo, ngoko kufuneka ubonise ubuncinci ubuncinci kwiqabane lakho, ngaphandle koko uya kufumana ingcinga yokuba uhlola kwaye ulawula. Yaye ke, kholwani mna, ningathandi mntu. Ewe kukho indoda: umfazi, naye, akanakwenzeka ukunyamezela ukungaqiniseki rhoqo. Ngoko ke, fundani ukuthembela kubathandekayo bakho, nakunoma kunjalo, de (ngokuzenzekelayo) babonise ukuba abanako ukuthenjwa. Kodwa ke, mhlawumbi, ubuhlobo buya kuphela.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, isibini esitshatileyo sinzima ukuphikisana xa kuziwa ngexesha lokudibana. Ngokukodwa, ingxabano ingavela malunga nabahlobo bakho kunye nabahlobo bakho. Masithi ufuna ukuhlala kwi-cafe kunye neentombi zakho kunye nomfana, siphuza itiye kwaye uxoxe ngento ebalulekileyo kwaye inomdla. Yaye loo nto ifuna ukukunqanda kwisisithakazelo, ngombono wakhe, ukuza, mema abahlobo bakhe, bathenge ubhiya kunye nemisipha kunye nobusuku bebukele iqoqo legolide lebhola lebhola lehlabathi. Ngendlela, awuyithandi ibhola yebhola ukususela ebuntwaneni. Ngako oko, wena, njengokuba unako, umelana nezicwangciso zomntu wakho. Kutheni oku kwenzeka? Ewe, akukho nto enhle. Ngenxa yokuchasana kwakho, wonke umntu uya kuhlala engqondweni yakhe, kwaye ngenxa yoko, uya kuchitha yonke imini eTV ngaphandle kokuthetha. Kodwa kwakumnandi ukuchitha ixesha! Kodwa abazange bafumane ukulungelelanisa.
Nangona kukho ezinye ezimbalwa. Eyokuqala kubo: namhlanje uyahamba kunye neentombi zakho kwi-cafe apho uhanjiswe khona kusasa. Yaye iqabane lakho kunye nabalandeli bakhe baya kujongana nenkampani yamadoda kunye nebhola lebhola. Awuyi kubuya ekhaya ngokukhawuleza, kodwa abafana baya kugqiba umboniso, wena kunye nalo mfana uya kugcwala imvakalelo emnandi, wabelane nabanye ngamaxesha amnandi ngokuhlwa, kwaye, nwabileyo, uye kulala. Inketho yesibini: uza kwenza isimiso esingabalulekanga sokuhamba kunye nabahlobo bakhe kunye neentombi zakho. Masithi namhlanje uchitha ngokuhlwa kunye nabahlobo bakhe, kwaye ngomso uya kulima izitalato kunye neyakho. Ewe, ngesiseko esisigunyaziso, kufuneka ulungise amaxesha amaninzi ngokuhlwa okunokwenzeka kwizinto ezimbini. Ngaphezu koko, kucetyiswa ukuba kusekwe into enomdla: yithi, ukuya kwi-cinema, kwi-ice rink okanye nje kwi-cafe. Kwaye ngoko kuhamba ngokubanzi uza kuyeka ukuchitha ixesha kunye kunye.
Kukho amanye amanqaku ambalwa angabhubhisa ubomi bomtshato wesibini esitshatileyo. Ngokomzekelo, olu lwalamano kunye nolwangaphambili. Ngamanye amaxesha kuvela ukuba ezinye zezi zibini zinxibelelwano oluhle kunye nabangaphambili. Baya kudibana kunye ne cafe ngeyure okanye ezimbini, ncokola kwaye uphuze ikhofi. Akumangalisi ukuba le meko yimiba ayimkelekanga nakwezinye isiqingatha kwaye ibangela umona omkhulu. Kuphi "isiqingatha" sokuqala esabela kwisithukuthelo: "Andiyi kuyeka ukuthetha nabo. Bangabantu abalungileyo! ". Kodwa apha kufuneka uzame ukuqonda iqabane lakho kwaye uzibeke endaweni yakhe. Ngaba ungathanda ukuba kwindawo efanayo, uhlale ekhaya uze ulindele umntu ovela kwikhafefe, apho ephikisana khona nentombi? Nayi impendulo kwintetho yakho, kungcono ukuphula zonke izibophelelo zakudala uze uqale ubomi obutsha.
Phakathi kwezizathu. Kubangele ukuxabana ngebini, kunokubakho ukuhlaziywa okuninzi, njengemali, ukubonakala komlingane (mhlawumbi unomnye ebomini bakho wacinga ukuba kulungele ukuba unwele, kwaye akufanelekile ukuba unxibe, kodwa umfana ukungaguquki ngokukhetha kwakhe), ubudlelwane kunye nosapho ... Kutheni sawabiza ngokuthi "amancinci"? Ngenxa yokuba isixa sabo asibalulekiyo. Ukuba uyamthanda intombi yakho, uya kufunda ukuthobela kunye nesidima ukuphuma kwiimeko zobomi ezinzima. Yaye ubomi bakho buya kugcwala iimvakalelo ezintle kunye nolonwabo olungapheliyo!