Iingcamango ezenziwa ngabasetyhini kwiintsapho zobudlelwane

Ngalendlela zonke, ukuzama ukuvisisana nokuchuma kwintsapho, sisoloko siphumelela ngokuthe ngqo. Kutheni oku kwenzekayo?

Thina bafazi banenzondelelo kwisayensi yokwakha ubudlelwane kunye nesiqingatha sethu sesibini. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kuninzi kakhulu, kuba amadoda athwabileyo kaninzi akwazi ukuma iimbuzo zemihla ngemihla yokufanisa i-ideal eyenziwe kwiingcinga zethu. Yintoni eye isithintela ekufezeni ulonwabo lwentsapho kunye nokuvisisana ngobudlelwane? "Thatha umzekelo ..."
Ngesizathu esithile, kubonakala ngathi baninzi kuthi umzekelo omhle (umzekelo, umyeni kaYulia umhlobo - umntu odlala umdlalo kunye ne-jack yazo zonke izinto) -iyona nto ikhuthaza kakhulu ukukhula ngokubanzi kwendoda yethu. Yithi, yinto ephakamileyo yelinye ilungu le-alfabhe, kwaye intanda ethatha yonke imizamo yokuphuhlisa kwaye uzama ukujonga ubuncinane njengemodeli esimele sichaze.

Jonga ukusuka kwicala
"Ukuba umyeni kaYulin ulungile, kutheni ufuna mna?" - iqhawe lethu liyancipha kwaye kwiimeko ezingama-70 zeenqaba ezingama-100 zenqaba ukuhambelana neyona ndlela, kwaye ngo-30 sele sele iqala ukukuthelekisa noJulia. Bambalwa abaya kubandezeleka xa bebanjelwa evulekile. Kodwa naluphi na ukuthelekiswa kwintando yomntu yinto ebonakala ngayo. Ngoko umphumo wale ndlela iya kuba yinto echasene nayo.

"Umele!"
Umfazi ngamnye unolwazi lwakhe olude lweempawu, ekuboniweyo kwakhe, ukuba ngumntu oyinyaniso kunye nomlingane wobomi. Kwaye okuninzi, uya kuzwakalisa ezi mpawu kumntu akhethiweyo. Awuyi kuthatha ingqalelo umzuzu omnye - ukuba igama "kufanele" likwazi ukuphuma kwiinjongo ezilungileyo kunye ezintle.

Jonga ukusuka kwicala
Khawucinge ngomntu othi kuwe: "Ndiyakholwa ukuba ibhinqa lifanele ..." Ngubani omele ukuba? Kuye? Sisiphi isizathu? Awusesikolweni kwisikolo. Ubungakanani na ozabalazela ulwalamano apho ukuzibophelela kuya kuba lukhulu, kwaye kungenzi nto ebangelwa ngumnqweno nothando? Zonke iimfuno zabo zingabonakaliswa ngaphandle kokumangalisa kwaye ekugqibeleni i-ultimatum engenamsebenzi. Kungcono ukwakha intsapho ekuxhaseni ngokuzithandela, ukuvumelanisa, uxolo nothando kunokuba nomoya womsebenzi womnye wabatshatileyo. Kungekudala okanye kamva, kule meko, ngokuqinisekileyo umntu akayi kuphila.

Okwesithathu eyongezelelweyo
Bathi wonke umfazi unomdlali wokudlala, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha i-drama yemidlalo. Ukukhwabanisa, sisoloko sifuna ukubiza amangqina ejikelezayo: "Musa ukuphulaphula oko akutsho nje!" Indoda ehlawulisiweyo ingena kwisithulu sokuzithulu, okanye iqala ukuzihlasela okanye iphunyuke. Zonke iindlela ezintathu ezingabandakanyeki ekuqiniseni ubudlelwane beentsapho.

Jonga ukusuka kwicala
Wonke umntu ubandezeleka: ibhinqa elenza umboniso wokuba ngababini abantu ababini kuphela kufuneka baqonde kwaye bakwenze kuphela ngasese; Indoda ngokukhawuleza ibhala phantsi kumahlaziyi kwaye iqala ukuba neentloni. NjengamaNgqina angabonakaliyo okanye angenangqungquthela abanjwe kwimpikiswano kwaye baphoqeleka ukuphazamisa imizwa yabo ngemifanekiso evela ebomini bomnye umntu. Ewe, sonke sifuna ukuthetha ngezikhathi ezithile, qhagamshelana, ngamanye amaxesha sikhalaze kwaye sikhale. Kodwa oku akusiyo isizathu sokuguqula ubomi bakho bobuqu kwisiganeko esikhulu. Ukuba, ngokwenene, unqweneli ukuba uthathi-nxaxheba kwi-reality scandal popular show ...

"Mna, okanye bona!"
Nsuku zonke inani elikhulu lamantombazana lihambisa i-satellites kunye neziqulatho ezisemgangathweni: "Ngubani na ofuna ngaphezulu, ngabahlobo okanye mna?" Ubukho bezinto ezithandabuzayo, ezingabandakanywa kwicandelo "lamalungu entsapho", zihlazo ezininzi, kwaye abanye abafazi bavutha nje.

Jonga ukusuka kwicala
Ukuba unomona ngabahlobo bakhe okanye izinto zokuzilibazisa, khumbula ukuba yintoni oye wathanda ngayo indoda yakho. Emva koko, indima ebalulekileyo ekwakheni ukufaneleka komntu othandekayo yadlala ngumbutho wakhe kunye nokuzilibazisa. Cinga malunga nokuba udinga umngane onomdla, ongathandekiyo? Khumbula ukuba rhoqo kunye nayo yonke into onokufikelela kuyo. Yenza isiqingatha sakho sesibini siza kubelwa ixesha elithile kwixesha lakhe lokuzilibazisa. Kule meko, bobabili uya kuphumelela: umyeni uya kuvuya, enze umsebenzi wakhe ozithandayo, kwaye unako ukuzinikela ixesha lakho kunye neentombi zakho ezincinci.

"Ndamfama"
Indoda efanelekileyo ingakhuliswa kuphela! "- abafazi bahlekisana phakathi kwabo baze baqhube iimpahla zabo, bajonge ukufundisa, bahlakulele, bakhule kwaye" batshabalalise. "Ngokuqhelekileyo kumntu olungiswayo yonke into ihambelana: ukubonakala, indlela yokuziphatha, imikhwa.

Jonga ukusuka kwicala
Ukuzisa okulungileyo kunye nokukhanyisa kuyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu. Kuhle xa amaqabane akhula kwaye avuselelana, kodwa kuphela utshintsho kunye nokuguqulwa kufuneka kube ngokuzithandela. Yinto enye xa umntu ngokwakhe ecela ukuba ahambe naye kwisitorethi aze akhethe i-jeans okanye i-suit, kuba uthemba ukuba uyayithanda. Kwaye kunjalo - ukufihla okanye ukufihla ngasese inkunkuma uyenze ibhulukwe ayithandayo ngenxa yokuba abayithandayo. Kwaye xa kulandelwa ixesha elilandelayo ukwenza into efanayo nekhanda lakho laseLouis Vuitton?

Wafika ngeentsuku zeveki
Emva kwexesha, umfazi uyaqaphela ukuba iintyatyambo ekamelweni lakhe lokuhlala zibonakala kuphela kwieholide, ukuhamba kwivenkile yokudlela kuyanda ukukhetha ukutya kwabasekhaya. "Buyisela umtshato!" - i-heroine yethu ihamba.

Ukubukeka ukusuka kwicala Kulo maninzi, ukuya kwindawo yokutyela kuyithuba lokuba ne-snack kwindawo engabonakaliyo, efuna iirhafu ezingenakunzima. Kuhlala kulufanelekile ukuthetha malunga nomnqweno womntu ngokukodwa, kunye nokuba okhethiweyo wakho ubhetele kunanoma yiyiphi into ephezulu.

Uluhlu lwamabango amaninzi athandwayo
Zihlolisise, ngaba le mizuzu ingena uluhlu lwakho lweemfuno zomntu othandekayo?

1 indawo
Wenyuka kunye naye, wacaphukiswa - italente yabesifazane ukuba bathethe indoda kwaye bafumane izigqibo kuye.

2 ndendawo
Ukumangalelwa. Kubonakala ngathi, sithetha nge-psytratrauma yentombazana ebizwa ngokuthi "Amadoda adinga enye kuphela." Akunjalo. Amadoda adinga kakhulu. Kwaye le "enye", ngendlela, nayo imithwalo emzimbeni.

Indawo yesithathu
Ukungakwazi ukuthula kunye. Ngamanye amaxesha kukuhle ukuphumla kwaye ungacingi malunga nantoni na, ukukhangela udonga, ungaphenduli imibuzo embane ngesitayela: "Ucinga ntoni na?", "Kutheni ungathuli?", "Ngaba undikhathaze?" Zama!