Izibango zothando ngokude

Yakho ngokupheleleyo, iiresi zivula entliziyweni yakho, ufuna ukucula nokumemeza ngovuyo lwakho. Kodwa nantsi inhlanhla engalungile: yena ngokwakhe akayi kukwazi ukucula - uhlala kwenye idolophu okanye nakwezinye ilizwe. Okanye mhlawumbi kwenye indawo ekupheleni komasipala omkhulu. Ngenxa yokuba awukwazi ukukhwela kunye nomntu othandayo, yabelana ngokuzonwabisa kunye nentlungu yosuku oludlulileyo, kodwa ngenxa yokuba engekho, ukukrakra kwekati kunye nokunyaniseka kumphefumlo! Ezinye iintlanganiso ziyakwazi ukuguqula ubomi bethu. Yintoni endingayithethayo, ukuba ubani onamaphupha onwabileyo axhunyiwe uhlala kude! Ubuhlobo obunjalo bunokukwenza ucinge ngokukrakra malunga neenguqu ongazange uzicwangcise. Ubungqina bobudlelwane
Ngenxa ye-imeyile, i-imeyile, ukuthetha nge-ICQ kunye ne-Skype, rhoqo ngeefowuni zeefowuni kukho impazamo ekhohlisa ukuba uyazi yonke into! Izinto zisebenza njani ebomini bakhe, ziphi iingxaki ezixhalabisayo, ngubani ohlobo lwakhe oluzalwa, yintoni icebo lohlwaya ... Nangona kunjalo, kulo lonke unako ukubona omkhulu "kodwa": kwizicwangciso zakhe akukho. Nangona utsho ukuba kude kude nentanda yakhe yonke into ayilungile kwaye ayiyiyo yonwabile. Mhlawumbi, ngoko kunjalo, kodwa akwenzi kube lula kuwe!

Intombazana ediniweyo ifuna ukuba naye: hambani, bambani izandla, nivande izwi lakhe, niziva nidlwengula kumangqumbo kwaye nibambezele ... Endaweni, nidla ngokuhlwa yedwa, ndiphupha ngosuku xa ekugqibeleni nifumana. Uqale uqaphele ukuba ukhangele umona ngesibini esibini esonwabileyo, ukubanga kunye nokuvuma emagqabini angaphantsi komhlaba. Kuba buhlungu kakhulu ngokuhlwa kweSuku sababathandi bonke: ukhangele ngeengqondo kwiintliziyo, ii-postcards, iibhede ze-teddy kunye nezinye izinto ezinqwenelekayo angathanda ukumnika zona. Ukuba unako ukuchitha le mini kunye, ngoko kuya kuba ngumcimbi ongalibalekiyo! Kodwa nakwixesha elimnandi kakhulu, liza kuphumla entliziyweni: emva koko, ngokukhawuleza indoda ethandekayo iya kuphinda ibalekele kuwe iikhilomitha ezininzi, kunye nabangane bakho abathembekileyo baya kuphinda babe yocingo kunye ne-intanethi.

Qaphela, umona!
Kukho uluvo lokuba ubudlelwane obusondeleyo "ekude" bubona bunzima kakhulu. Ukuba umntu okhethiweyo wayehlala kufuphi, ngoko ubuye wabiza ngekhulu lamaxesha waza wabuza apho ehamba naye, kwaye kutheni engazange athathe kunye naye kwibhardi okanye ukudlala ibhilidididi. Kwaye kwimeko yangoku, kufuneka ube nexesha lokuthetha into ebaluleke kakhulu - indlela engalunganga ngayo omnye ngaphandle komnye. Ngoko akunakwenzeka ukuba uya kuqala ukubonisa ukunganeliseki. Kwaye ngoko umanyano ubonakala uphelele!

Kodwa unobungozi, ulungele nanoma yimuphi umzuzu ukuhlukanisa iintliziyo zakho, umona. Akazange abize umhla ovumelene ngawo okanye akazange uthumele ileta ngexesha? Mhlawumbi udibana nomnye - ucinga ngokukhawuleza ... Kodwa ukusola kunye nokuhlambalaza kunakho ukutshabalalisa nayiphi na, nokuba yintando enamandla kakhulu.

Ukongezelela, izazinzulu ziye zabonisa ukuba umntu kufuneka athole ubuncinci ubuncinane abalishumi elinambini osichukumisayo ngosuku: unokubhukuda ngobumnene iinwele zakhe, ukumbamba ngamehlo akhe, uthathe ngobumnene isandla sakhe, uthinte isifuba sakhe kwiintsimbi zakhe ... Emva kokufumana isabelo esibalulekileyo sothando, akayi kufuna ukukhangela kwindawo ethile kwicala. Kodwa ungaphila ixesha elingakanani xa ungekho? Kungekudala okanye kamva uya kufuna uthando kunye nobubele. Kwaye ngeli xesha ulunge ukuzama ukuza kuye.

Ukuzikhethela intanda
Enye imingcipheko iinjongo zomlingane. Xa intlonelo ihlala kude, kwaye ikhalenda yeentlanganiso zakho iyalinganiswa ngeveki, ukuba kungekhona ngeentsuku, unokukwazi ukugqiba "umfanekiso olula" ngokunika iimpawu ezingekho apho. Udidekile kakhulu, oko akuthethi ukuba okhethiweyo wayebi kakhulu, hayi! Kuphela umfanekiso owenziwe ngumbono okhutheleyo wesigxina awuhambisani nenyani. Kodwa ukuba uzama ukubona iimpawu ezilungileyo zomnye nomnye, ulonwabo lukhuselekile.

Ulungele ukuhamba?
Ngokuqhelekileyo, imeko yendawo iba ngumqobo wangempela. Emva kwakho konke, awukwazi ukuhlala uhlala kumntu othandekayo ngeekhilomitha ukusuka kuye. Kungekudala okanye kamva, ukuba ulwalamano lwakho lusaphila kulolu vavanyo, kufuneka ubuyele kwakhona. Kodwa umbuzo uwukuba: ngubani oya kuhamba naye? Ukuba umntu wakho ubona ithemba lobudlelwane bakho edolophini lakho - kakuhle. Kodwa ukuba ufuna ukufudukela eRashiya? Ngaba ulungele ukutshintsha indlela yakho yokuphila kwaye uhambe kwisixeko esingaqhelekanga kuwe okanye kwelinye ilizwe? Emva kwakho konke, kwidolophu yakubo kukho abazali, abahlobo, umsebenzi, kwaye kufuneka uhambe kwindawo engaqhelekanga, engaqhelekanga ... Akusiwo wonke umntu okwazi ukuhamba kwindawo entsha, kunye nomntu othandekayo onika inkxaso yonke.

Kodwa nangona kunjalo, impendulo echanekileyo inganikwa kuphela ngentliziyo yakho. Kodwa ukuba ekupheleni kwakho kukho umntu owawujika, ujabulele umvakalelo wemilingo uze uzame ukucinga ngeengxaki ezinokwenzeka! Uthando lokwenene luya kuhlola umgama - njengawo onke into.