Usuke utsho ewe. Hayi, kakuhle, yonke into yayithandana ... Iintyatyambo, indawo yokutyela kunye ne-ringlet kwibhokisi eneentliziyo. Ziziphi iimbandezelo eziya kuqhubeka? Ngoko waphupha ngaphandle kokucinga. Kwaye ngoku kunzima ukulahla. Kwenzeka njani oku: namhlanje "ewe", nangomso "akukho"? Azinakulungi kwaye azinakunyanzelwanga. Kwaye ngoku kufuneka utshatile umntu ongathandekiyo. Enyanisweni, akunakwenzeka ukuvula i-ambulera phantsi kweengubo, akunangqiqo ukususa zonke izinto zokutyiwa kwi-buffet yenkampani, kwaye akufanelanga ukunika ithemba lobuxoki kumntu onithandayo.
Uyakuthanda kakhulu. Ngoko ngoku ufanele umtshatile. "Ukutshata," abafazi abazizilumko basifundisa, kuyimfuneko kumntu onithandayo, kungekhona kumntu omthandayo. Ukugqibela kwesikhumba kuya kuhamba, kwaye uya kuphumla kwiimpawu zakho zobomi bonke ubomi bakho. " Kodwa akukho nto yimbi kunokuba ihlala kufuphi neyathandwa. Le meko iyancipha kwakhona kuba lo mva unqwenela ukulungelelanisa. Ngokuqinisekileyo, awuyi kuncedisa uthando olungenakuthelekiswa kummelwane wakho kwimpilweni yempilo yengqondo. Kodwa imeko echasayo iya kutshabalalisa ubuntu bakho kungekudala.
Yazi yethu, umrhwebi! Umrhwebi nguwe wakho. Ngubani owatshata omnye kwaye akazange aqonde ukuphakama kweempawu zakho zokuziphatha nokuziphatha, iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zeetalente, ukukhululwa ngokwesondo kunye nomonakalo wokubeleka othakazelisayo kwi-collarbone yekhohlo. Umrhwebi kufuneka afunde ukuba abaculi bafumaneke kakhulu, kwaye ngokukhawuleza. Ngoko umrhwebi kwaye kuyimfuneko, maye ngoku i-elbows ibetha. Ewe, into yokuba umrhwebi uya kuluma umgca wakhe ngokukhawuleza (kwaye ke akuyiyo into!), Kwaye ubomi bakho buya kuhlahla-yinto yeshumi.
Kwaye baya kuthini abantu? Esi sizathu sisoloko sisongela. "Wawukhansela umtshato, ucinge?!", Omnye umama ekhitshini lakhe elithandathu ibhloko ephuma endlwini yakho uya kuthi. Kwaye ke yintoni? Uya kukhetha ulonwabo kunye ne-stigma ye "bitch" ukusuka kumawaka angamawaka alishumi ukuya kwamkelwa kwezi zi-tetenecks, ezinxulumene nobukho obunzima phakathi kwenkqubo yesibini elandelayo.
Ukuba ababizi. Unyanzelekile ukuba umtshate naye, kuba uloyiko lokuba awukwazi ukubiza ngakumbi. Emva koko, sonke siyazi ukuba kukho amantombazana asithoba kumantombazana asithoba ngokwemibare, kwaye emva kwexesha elithile kungenakwenzeka ukuba angatshatanga. Ngoko, ukhokelwa ngqalelo kwezi ngqalelo xa wenza izigqibo ezibalulekileyo - le nto yokugqibela. Emva kwakho konke, uhlala ekhaya wedwa, kwaye abo banqwenela ukuxubusha bakho ubomi baya kufumaneka. Ngoko nokuba uya kubaphulaphula, kuba lo bubomi bakho kwaye unelungelo lokulahla ngokwakho. Yaye ukuba uthetha ngolu hlobo, ngoko uya kutshata, awuyikungabaza, kwaye ngaphandle koko, lowo ufanayo. Isizathu esisodwa sokutshata sifuna ukuhlala nomntu wonke ubomi bakhe aze abele abantu abanjengabo.
Ufuna igazi lam? Ngokwezinzululwazi, kwacaca ukuba ukuxabana kweyure kweyure kunciphisa amandla omzimba wokuphulukisa amanxeba omzimba. Oku kubaluleke ngokukodwa ngexesha lokungenelela kokutyalwa. Kwizibhedlele, kucetyiswa ukuqhuba iimvavanyo ezizodwa ukufumana ukuba izigulane ziya kufuneka zifumane ixesha elingakanani ukuhlinzwa.