Ukuba abazali bayaqonda ukuba okwenzekayo ngaphakathi kweendonga zeziko lemfundo livela nomntwana wabo, kwaye kungekhona nabo, abayi kubuhlungu kakhulu, bahlakulele intlungu yomntwana. Bonke abazali babo abanokukunceda kukuphulaphula kwaye bafundise ukuxolela, ukuxoxisana, ukukhusela izimvo zabo. Ukungena kwidayari kufuneka kuthatyathwe njengesikhalo soncedo okanye umnqweno wesititshala. Kodwa abazali kulo mzekelo akufanele bajonge ukunyuka-ukuma kwicala lomntwana okanye kwicala lootitshala.
Umama noTata bajonge umntwana
Intombazana idinga umdla kunye nenkxaso yabazali. Inomdla iboniswe kakuhle kwingxoxo eyimfihlo. Akusoloko ifuna ukuphazamisa kwimicimbi yakhe kunye notitshala. Awusayi kufumana isikolo esilungileyo, ngenxa yokuba asikho, kukho nto ongeyithandi - utitshala oqinileyo, imisebenzi emininzi, amaqela angakhathazekiyo, imfundo engumzimba onzima, abantwana abangenangqondo.
Ukuba uhamba kwisifundo somntwana wakho okhubekileyo, ngoko unokutshintsha iklasi kunye notitshala, okanye nakwisikolo, ngamanye amaxesha nezikolo ezininzi. Kungcono ukuzama ukufundisa umntwana wakho ukuba abhekane nobunzima bokuzifaka. Ukuba ubuzwa, hlalutya imeko, cinga kunye apho ungathetha khona okanye wenze ngendlela eyahlukileyo. Ukuthetha nomntwana, ungamgxeka, wabelane ngamava akho, uthetha ngesineke nangomnene.
Khumbula ukuba ukuba ungathandabuzeki uthabathe umntwana kwaye ukholwe nguye kuphela, ngoko ke, ukuba awuyikuqonda yonke inyaniso evela kuye. Ungaze uthethe kakubi ngutitshala, bonise ukuba ootitshala bahlakulela. Ukuba ucinga ukuba umntwana wakho waphathwa kakubi, uthetha notitshala kungcono ngaphandle kwabafundi. Cacisa intsingiselo yenkathazo kumfundisi, ngokophulaphule ngenyameko amabango uze ubonise uluvo lwakho. Umzali makakhusele kwaye axhasane nomntwana, kodwa yenza okulungileyo ngedwa kunye notitshala.
Abazali bathatha icala kwicala lootitshala
Abazali ngokubanzi kufuneka baxhase isikolo, emva koko, banike umntwana wabo kwesi sikolo, oko kuthetha ukuba bayazi kwaye bavumelana nemithetho yesikolo. Kodwa kukho ingozi: ukuba umntwana uyaqonda ukuba uhlala uxhasa abantu abadala, uyayeka ukucela uncedo. Kukho imeko xa ukungenelela kwabazali kusemfuneko, umzekelo, ukuhlukunyezwa okanye ukuxhatshazwa ngabafundi. Ukunyundela umntwana ukuba usemncinci kwaye usolwa ngokungaziphathi kakuhle komntu. Kwaye ekugqibeleni, ingxabano kunye notitshala, xa ilizwi lomntwana lichasa ilizwi lakhe. Rebenokraskazyvaet yintoni eyenzekayo, apho utitshala uyaphendula ukuba yonke into iyahluke. Nantsi kubalulekile ukuba ilizwi liza kuba likhulu. Umntwana makaqiniseke ukuba ukuba akanako ukuyicombulula ingxaki, uya kuba ngecala lakhe. Ukuba ukholwa nguye, uya kufumana ulonwabo, kuba ixesha elizayo uza kufaka isicelo sokunceda ngokuthe ngqo. Ngamanye amaxesha umntwana wenqaba ukuxelela ubunzulu beengxaki, kodwa umcela ukuba amthumele kwesinye isikolo. Abazali akusoloko bebagwebi nokwenza izigqibo, kodwa kufuneka basoloko benceda umntwana wabo ozifumene kwiimeko ezingenasimo.
Ukudibanisa ubudlelwane bomhlaba
Ukuba unako ukuxoxisana, xolisa, xolele ukuva abanye, ngoko ukuxolelana kwamaqela kuya kuba ithuba lokufundisa umntwana isifundo somntu. Utitshala unokungahambi kakubi, angalunganga, athinte isimo sengqondo okanye ukukhathala, wenza nje umsebenzi wakhe. Akukho titshala unomdla kwimpikiswano ehlala ixesha elide. Umntwana ufuna ukubonisa umzekelo wakhe ukuba unako ukufumana ulwimi oluqhelekileyo kuwo wonke umntu, ukunikezela encinci, ukudlala into ephambili.