Ekuqaleni, siya kucinga ngalabo ababhekwa njengabantu abaphumelelayo. Le ngcamango ebanzi iqulethe kuphela iinkwenkwezi ezidumile ze-movie kunye nabasebenzi bezoqoqosho abaphumelelayo. Umntu uyonwabile kwaye uyaphumelela, ukuba xa efunyenwe ngumcebisi, kwintsapho exabisekileyo kwaye ethandekayo, unolwazi oluninzi kunye nabahlobo bakhe, kwaye iinjongo zakhe zixabiseke kwaye zifunwa kwisangqa soqhagamshelwano lwakhe. Khuthaza umntwana wakho kumntwana, indlela yokuziphatha kakuhle kuluntu nasekhaya.
Kwili hlabathi lanamhlanje, umntu ophumelelayo ngumntu onobubele kwaye uyayinyamekela iimfuno zalabo abasondelene naye abaqhelana ne-label. Ukuze ukhulise umntwana ophumelelayo ukusuka kwintsana, umntu makayithobele ingqalelo ukuqinisekisa ukuba iimpahla zakhe kunye neemathoyilo zihlala zilungelelaniswe, iimpahla zicocekile kwaye zihlaziyekileyo, kwaye izandla zihlala zicocekile. Ekuqaleni, oku kufuneka kwenziwe ngamahlaya kunye namahlaya, njengokungathi uhlobo lomdlalo. Njalo ulungise kumntwana ezi zakhono, qhelana. Awukwazi ukukhulisa umntwana ophumelelayo ukuze angayikhokheli iminqweno kunye neemvakalelo zabanye abazungezile.
Omnye unokuvuma ukuba intombazana encinane ayiyi kukhwaza ukuba ithathe idonsa kwintombazana, kwaye umfana omncinci akayi kuphosa isanti ebantwaneni. Kwaye le ngcamango kufuneka ihanjiswe kumntwana, icacise abanye abalingiswa bebhali-mzekelo njengomzekelo: "Emva kwakho konke, ungokobukumkani, kwaye abafazi beentlanga bazingathandi, bahlala behlula. Mhlawumbi, kuphela oogogo ababi-i-hedgehogs inobungozi kwaye banomdla, kwaye akukho mntu uyabathanda oko. " Kulo mdlalo kufuneka uhlale uquka umntwana, vele udibanise imfesane yakho, ukuze igosa elithembekileyo lefeythi lijwayelane kwaye lisondele kuye.
"Awukwazi" kwaye "unako"
Kancinci kangangoko kunokwenzeka kwaye vumela ngaphezulu, kwaye apha asikhulumi ngemisebenzi eyingozi kumntwana. Ukuba umntwana wakho ufuna ukuqonda indlela yokuvula iTV usebenzisa i-remote, okanye ufuna ukucofa amaqhosha kwikhompyutheni yekhompyuter, zama ukunyamekela kwaye uchaze umntwana ukuba isebenza njani. Hlala ecaleni kwayo phambi kwesikrini kwisebe, vula idokhumenti entsha kwiLizwi, kwaye ubonise ukuba ukuba ucinezela ezinye iitshixo, ngoko kwesikrini kweso siza kubakho iinombolo kunye neeleta. Chaza ukuba yintoni inkinobho ebomvu enkulu kunye neentoloko kwi console kwaye zithe xa zifuna ukucinezelwa. Emva kwakho konke, abantwana bethu kufuneka babe ne-teknoloji kwi "wena", bakhula bajikelezwe yinkqubela phambili yezobuchwepheshe.
Kufuneka ivalwe ngokufanelekileyo. Cacisa zakho izithintelo ngeenkcukacha. Umzekelo, awukwazi ukukrazula indwangu yeetrafti, unokuyeka yonke into esekusetafile. Izitya ziya kuphulwa kwaye kuya kuba neglasi kuyo yonke indawo. Akunjalo zonke iiglasi zingasuswa, kwaye ke unokuba unyawo phezu kwazo kwaye uzuze. Ukongezelela, ukuba iintyatyambo nokutya ziyawa, ziza kuhlamba i-taptile. Emva koko, umntwana ekugqibeleni akanakucinga ngemiphumo yokuba uyaphula umthetho.
Kwaye loo mfanekiso, oza kuye kuye, iya kwenza umboniso ocacileyo kuye. Kancinci, uya kumela imiphumo yazo zonke iimeko, kwaye ukuhamba kwamanani kuya kubalwa izenzo zakhe. Khuthaza umntwana nayiphi na inzala. Kwaye ukuze ufundise umntu ophumelelayo, kufuneka uqhagamshelane nomntwana, uqale uneminyaka emncinci. Xa uthetha nomntwana, kufuneka uhlawule ingqalelo kwimeko engqongileyo yomntwana, xa uhlabelela iingoma uze umxelele ibali leenkcukacha, udala isiseko sokufunda ngempumelelo kwixesha elizayo. Uphuhliso olunzulu lomntwana luquka imemori, izakhono zokuthetha, isigama. Yaye xa umntwana ekhula, musa ukuyigxotha "kutheni" kwaye "kutheni". Khangela iimpendulo zemibuzo eyahlukeneyo kunye naye, ngoku kukho ininzi iincwadi ze-encyclopaedias zabantwana, iincwadi ezihlakaniphile kunye nemibala ehlukahlukeneyo ekuthengiseni.
Umntwana, njengentonga, uyakhumbula aze athathe ulwazi olutsha, kwaye ngokukhawuleza uya kumangaliswa ngolwazi lwakhe. Ukuphuhlisa iitalente zomntwana wakho. Ngokomzekelo, uqaphele ukuba ukhumbula amagama angaphandle ngokulula, ekubuza ukuba luluphi ulwimi okanye le ngoma. Thenga iimidlalo zekhompyutheni ezifundisa ulwimi, isichazi sesiNgesi-isiRashiya esineenkcukacha zokubhalwa kwamagama nemifanekiso. Mhlawumbi umntwana wakho akayi kuba ngumhumushi oqeqeshiweyo, kodwa kwikamva uza kufunda iilwimi ngokulula, kuya kuba lula ukuba anike, kwaye ubomi bomntu ophumelelayo buya kuhamba ngokufanelekileyo.
Abazali bafanele babe ngabokuqala ukuphawula iimfuno kunye nokuthambekela komntwana kwaye bathathe inxaxheba kwizinto ezithandayo. Akukho nto iphosakeleyo ukuba iimfuno zakhe zitshintsha rhoqo, namhlanje uthanda into enye, ngomso uhlukile. Ixesha liya kuza kwaye uya kukwenza isigqibo, kwaye ukuba uyamnceda kule nto, uya kukwazi ukubeka isiseko esihle kakhulu sempumelelo yakhe.
Ungayiphakamisa njani umntu ophumelelayo ukusuka kumntwana? Sebenzisa ezi ngcebiso kwaye uya kuba nokukhulisa umntwana kakuhle kwaye umncede abe ngumntu ophumelelayo ebomini.