Incwadi yinto enokuvusa iimbono, ukuzonwabisa, ukufundisa nokufundisa. Ukongeza, le ncwadi inokuba luncedo kumbono wokujonga. Ukuba umntu ufunda iincwadi, unokufunda amagama amatsha, oku kuthetha ukuba uya kwandisa izinga lokufunda nokubhala. Abazali bahlala bekhalaza ukuba ngoku abantwana abasayi kulufunda, abayithandi - bayathanda ukubukela iTV. Ngoko ke, umbuzo wendlela yokufakela uthando lomntwana wokufunda luba lufanelekileyo.
Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba amaxesha athile amafilimu adume kakhulu neyaziwayo adutshulwa ngeencwadi. Ngokomzekelo, iincwadi ezintanda ezinjengokuthi "iNkosi yeeRings", "IAventures yeHuckleberry Finn noTom Sawyer" ihlolwe. Nangona kunjalo, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ipapashwe njani ifilimu, ayiyi kuba yinto evuyisayo yokufunda le ncwadi.
Ukuze umntwana afake uthando lokufunda, abazali kufuneka bathande ngokwabo ukufunda. Ukuba unina okanye ubaba akafundi, kwaye ngelixa exelela umntwana ukuba le nto ibalulekile kwaye iluncedo, ke akunakwenzeka ukuba isiphakamiso siya kusebenza ngandlela-thile. Ngenxa yoko sinokugqiba - kwintsapho kufuneka sifunde yonke into.
Ukuba umntwana uyaziqhelanisa neencwadi ezikolweni apho kufundwa yinkqubo enyanzelekileyo, ngoko akunakwenzeka ukuba kuya kumkholisa ukuba ukususela kumncinane umntwana "akazange abe ngabahlobo" kunye neencwadi. Ngoko ke, kubalulekile ukuba uthando lomntwana lokufunda luqala ukufakwa kwintsapho. Unokuqala ngeencwadi ezizodwa ezithambileyo ezinemifanekiso elula, uze uqhube kwiincwadi ezinzima. Ukuba uthabatha incwadi ngokuchanekileyo kwaye ujongane nomntwana ngexesha lonke, umntwana uya kuthanda ngokukhawuleza ukufunda.
Ngokukhawuleza xa umntwana efundile ukufunda, akufanelekile ukutshintsha rhoqo kwaye ulungise amagama angalunganga. Ngaloo ndlela, umntwana usenokudimazeka ekufundeni ixesha elide.
Inkqubo yokufunda kufuneka ivelise kuphela iimvakalelo ezintle. Ngokomzekelo, unina unako ukufunda kunye nokudlala nomntwana, ngokubonisa ngokucacileyo okubhalwe kwincwadi. Ukuba, umzekelo, inkcazelo yefayile malunga ne-kolobok okanye i-turnip ifundwa, ngoko kunokwenzeka ukuba unikeze umntwana ukuba abonise bonke abalinganiswa nazo zonke izenzo ezichazwe kwincwadi. Umntwana onomama unokufunda incwadi ngeendima, ngoko umntwana uya kuziva ngathi ungumdlali wangempela. Kwakhona, njengendlela yokukhetha, abazali banokufunda ibali lomntwana ebusuku.
Unokuphinde umvuza umntwana ngokufunda. Ukuba umntwana ufunda inani elibhaliweyo lokubhaliweyo, uya kukwazi ukufumana nawaphi na amalungelo avunyelwene kwangaphambili. Ngaloo ndlela, unokwandisa kakhulu iinjongo zokufunda iincwadi.
Awukwazi ukunyanzela ukufunda incwadi engayithandiyo ngumntwana. Ngoko ke, kunye neencwadi zezingane ezindala zingathengwa kunye. Kubalulekile ukwenza uhambo oluya kwi-bookstore umcimbi omnandi nolulindele ixesha elide. Ngokuqhelekileyo abazali bezingane ezineminyaka-ubudala esikolweni bayesaba ukuba abantwana, ukuba bakhethe iincwadi ngokwabo, baya kuthatha incwadi "engafanelekanga" ngoko ke banamathele kwiincwadi abazikhethelayo. Mhlawumbi, sifanele sithintele: umntwana uya kukhetha enye incwadi ngokuqonda kwakhe, kwaye yesibini iya kufundwa ekukhethweni kwabazali.
Umntwana kufuneka abe nomnqweno wokufunda - akunakwenzeka ukufaka uthando lokufunda ngamandla. Umama kufuneka athole indlela yokukhangela umntwana ngokufunda, kwaye angayi kumphoqa ukuba afunde. Abazali bezingane, abantwana babo abanokufunda kodwa abafuni, sebenzisa le ndlela elandelayo. Umama okanye ugogo ufunda le ncwadi kumntwana, kwaye xa kuziwa kwindawo enomdla kakhulu - ukuyeka, uthi unemiba eninzi ephuthumayo. Ingane ayinayo ikhethelo, ukuba umntwana ufuna ukwazi oko kuza kwenzeka emva koko, kufuneka ukuba aqedele ukufunda le ncwadi ngokwakhe.
Kukho enye indlela yokunciphisa umntwana ukuba afunde - indlela ye-psychologyist child Iskra Daunis. Ngelinye ilanga umntwana uyavuka aze aqaphele phantsi komlambo incwadi evela kwiqhawe lomfazi, apho etshela umntwana ukuba ufuna ukuba ngumhlobo naye nokuba unesipho kuye. Ingane igijima ifuna isipho kwaye iyifumana. Ngomso kusasa umntwana uya kuphinda afumanise phantsi komsila incwadi apho iqhawe likwazisa ukuba wayefuna ukushiya ithikithi lakhe lomhlobo kwi-zoo, kodwa wabona ukuba akazange aziphathe kakuhle. Ngoko ke, uhambo oluya kwi-zoo luhlehlisiwe. Nsuku zonke, iileta mazibe zide, kwaye ziya kufundwa ngokukhawuleza. Umntwana uya kuvuya ukufunda iileta, kuba le nkqubo inxulumene nento enomdla kwaye inomdla.