Ngokuqhelekileyo unokuva ukuba ezichasayo ziyabangalisa kwaye ngabo bantu bavuya kakhulu emtshatweni. Le ngcaciso ngeemvanoveli, iifilimu kunye nee-serials. Kodwa kwenzeka njani kubomi boqobo? Emva koko, wonke umntu uyazi ukuba abantu abahlukeneyo kunzima ukudibanisana. Enyanisweni, umxholo wokutsala ukuchasana unokubonakala kuphela kwinxalenye. Emva koko, uya kuqonda ukuba kuthekani.
Yaogon, unamanzi
Uzolile, i-laconic, iyanqande, iminyanzelo. Yena-othethayo, ehlakisayo, engafuni ukuhlala ehleli, njenge-spark ekhanyisa yonke into. Nasi umzekelo oqhelekileyo wabantu abanamalungu ahlukeneyo. Ngaba bayakhangwa? Ewe, kodwa kungekho kuzo zonke iimeko. Abantu abanjalo banako kwaye bafuna ukuba kunye kuphela ukuba ukungafani kwabo kuphelelweyo ngabalinganiswa. Okokuthi, naphezu kwayo yonke into, bobabini banomdla kunye neminqweno efanayo, bafuna ukufezekisa into ebomini, ngokomzekelo, bathanda ukuhamba kunye ne-takadale. Emva koko abalinganiswa abahlukeneyo balinganise kwaye bancede ukufikelela kumntu ofunayo ngokukhawuleza. Indoda ezolile kwaye igcinwe ingayimisa intombazana ngexesha elifanelekileyo, mxelele ukuba ucinge ntoni, musa ukukhawuleza ukwenza isigqibo kwaye ulinganise yonke into. Ngaloo nto, le ntombazana iya kumphoqa ukuba enze isinyathelo esinqumayo, amqhubelele kwisisombululo esitsha kunye nezenzo ezenza izinto, apho yena, mhlawumbi, akayi kuhamba. Apha malunga neendidi ezinjalo zihlala zithetha intetho, xa zithi zichasiwe.
Ukuba ibhinqa kunye nendoda, ngaphezu kweempawu ezihlukeneyo, nazo zineminqophiso eyahlukeneyo kunye neminqweno, ngoko ke ukukhangwa kunakho, kodwa ekugqibeleni, akukho nto iya kuvela kuyo. Ngcono, baya kuzama ukuzivumelanisa. Kodwa njengokuba uyazi, indoda ayikwazi ukuzihlalisa ixesha elide, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ufuna ukukholisa ukuthandwa yakhe. Kancinci, uzama ukuqonda kunye nenkxaso kwizinto ongabelana ngazo, ziphendukele ekubeni yizigqila. Abantu abahlukeneyo babonakala bethanda kwaye bathanda umhlobo, kodwa imihla yonke iya kuba nzima kunzima. Esikhundleni sokulinganisa iqabane lomntu kunye nokumnika ezimbalwa zeempawu ezingenalo, abantu baqala ukutshintshana. Ukuba oku kwenzekayo, ophumeleleyo uthi udidekile ukuba lo mthandayo akade efana neyokuqala, kungekhona lowo ayemthandayo. Ukuba iqabane lingenenkani kwaye alifuni ukutshintsha nangayiphi na indlela, ngoko uthando luye lwaba yinto enokutshatyalaliswa ngokukodwa, apho kwiimeko ezinzulu kakhulu zinokuba yintlondi. Kwaye abantu abaye bathandana ngokwenene, ngoku akakwazi ukubukela iqabane lethu.
Nqununu
Olunye uhlobo lokukhawulelana nokuchasa, okuthandayo ukudlala kwiifilimu kunye neencwadi zivela kubantu abavela kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo zoluntu. Enyanisweni, oku kwenzeka rhoqo, kodwa kwiimeko ezininzi, kungekhona ngothando kunye nokudalwa kwintsapho, kodwa malunga nomdla. Abasetyhini bakhetha amadoda acebileyo ukuba abagcine. Ngendlela, ininzi la mabhinqa avuma indima yowesifazane ongafuni ukungena kuluntu oluphezulu. Ukuthetha ngeendidi ezizizityebi kunye namahlwempu, kubalulekile ukucacisa oko kuthetha ukuthini igama "isityebi". Ukuba umntu akayi kusebenza kakubi, ngoko akakwazi ukubizwa ngokuba sisityebi kwihlabathi lonke. Kwaye ukuba abantu abanjalo babonwa njengabachasene, ngoko banokutsala lula kwaye kulula. Emva koko, akusiyo umvuzo omhle, ngokuqhelekileyo umntu onjalo uyaqhubeka nokuchitha ixesha kunye nabahlobo abahlala ixesha elide kumaziko anako ukufumana bonke abemi abaphakathi. Ngoko, unako ngokupheleleyo, apho uyazi khona iindoda zentliziyo ezayo. Ukwahlukahluka kwiplani yezemali ayinjalo phakathi kwabo, ubuncinane ekuqalekeni. Ngoko ke, ukuthetha ngokuchasene, banokuthiwa abo bade kumgama omnye, ukuba bajongwa ngokombono wezenhlalakahle. Ngokomzekelo, intombazana ingaba ngumfundi ohluphekileyo, kwaye umfana uyindlalifa kumafama oyile athetha kunye nabaphathiswa kwi "wena" kwaye ubiza umninawa kaMongameli. Ngokweqhinga, abantu abanjalo banokwazi, kodwa ngokwenene, kuya kuba nzima kakhulu kubo. Ukuba, ngokuqinisekileyo, sithetha ngothando, kungekhona malunga nomdla. Kungokuthi eso sibini asinanto efanayo. Okokuqala, le ntombazana iya kufumana nzima ukuba ungene kwisangqa apho le ntombazana inxibelelana khona. Nangona unemikhwa emihle, akunakwenzeka ukuba uya kuziva ekhululekile ehleli eduze kwe-Ambassador eGuinea. Ukongezelela, iintsapho zabantu abanjalo banokungathembeki nakwizinto ezintle malunga namantombazana asezantsi. Iphuzu le-tuti ngokukrokrelwa kwenzalo, kwaye ukuba abantu abavela kwilizwe "elifani" bahlala bezicwangciso zabo kwixesha elizayo labantwana babo. Nangona kunjalo, phakathi kwalo mfana kunye nentombazana akunakwenzeka ukuba baninzi ukuqonda, kuba bekhulile kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo. Ziye zikhunjulwe ngokupheleleyo, ingcamango yexesha elidlulileyo nelikhoyo. Ngoko ke, kwiingcamango, iimbini ezinjalo zikhona, kodwa ngokwenza oku kungenangqiqo.
Yintoni engayi kuba nayo
Kukho ukuphikisana okufakwe kwii-movie kunye neencwadi, ezithintekayo kubomi bobubomi. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba ukhumbule ifilimu ethi "Beautiful Woman", oko kusengokoqobo. Ngokukodwa ukuba umntu ngokwakhe usemithetho ethembekileyo. Umfana onjalo unomdla kumfazi ongekho nzima kunzima, kuba kwezinye zala mabhinqa kukho into ekhethekileyo. Iyakwazi ukutshatisa intshisekelo. Kodwa ekugqibeleni, uya kuphinda ahlaziye yonke into kwaye aqonde ukuba akanakuphila ngokuthula, emthintele, ecinga ukuba ungubani na oko akwenzayo. Ngokufanayo, abafazi abanjalo, ngokungafani nabalinganiswa be-cine, abayitshintshi. Zonke zijikeleza ngakwesobunxele kwaye azikwazi ukuchasa. Ngako oko, "olungileyo" akalokothi athathwe "embi." Ewe, umzuzu wentshiseko, kunjalo, ukho. I-Ideovochki, ngokukodwa esemncinci, yenza nje iphosa kumakhwenkwe "amabi." Kodwa ekugqibeleni wonk 'ubani uyaqonda into enye: "embi" ebomini kwaye "embi" kwisikrini ahlukile. oku kwenzeka.