Salma, siyakuhalalisela ngomhla wokuqala wentombi yakho! Yiyiphi imigaqo kwimfundo oya kubambelela kuyo? Yintoni ebaluleke kakhulu kuwe ngoku?
USalma Hayek: Siyabonga! Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba uValentine omncinci udibene nohlobo. Kwimi, izinto ezinjengendalo, umculo, ubugcisa zibalulekile. Ndiyamphefumlela ukuba, okokuqala, kufuneka uhloniphe, kodwa kuzo zonke izinto ... Ndizama ukuba ndingamxinzezeli ukuba amnike amandla okuzityhila. Kungenxa yokuba ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuvuselela ingcamango yomntwana, ukomoya wakhe kunye nokuxhaswa kwabo kweli lizwe, ngoko bonke abayidingayo kukuvumela ukuba bazibonakalise, kunokuzama ukuqondisa umntwana endleleni ebonakala ilungile kuwe. Ndicinga ukuba imvelo, umculo kunye nobugcisa zidlala indima ebalulekileyo kule nto. Bancedisa umntwana ukuba aziqonde ngokwabo, bathemba iiminqweno zabo kwaye bahlakulele ingcamango.
Kwintshona kukho ukuthambekela kokufumana abantwana okokuqala emva kweminyaka engama-30. Ngokucacileyo, kunzima kowesifazane ngokusemzimbeni, kodwa kukho uluvo lokuba xa esemdala, ulungele ukubeleka kwengqondo. Umdlali odlalwayo uSalma Hayek, ucinga ntoni ngale nto?
USalma Hayek: Ndizalele ngokukhawuleza, ngo-41, kwaye ndizama ukuthetha ukuba kuyimfuneko ukuthatha inyathelo elinjalo kuphela ukuba uyifunayo ngokwenene. Kubi xa umfazi ebeletha kungekhona ngenxa yokuba ufuna ukufumana umntwana, kodwa ngenxa yokuba kuyadingeka ngeemeko zentlalo. Uloyiko lokuba kamva liza kukhawuleza, kwaye lenze intsapho. Naluphi na, kodwa kuluntu kukho inkcazo yokuba xa umfazi engenazo abantwana, ngoko yonke into ayilungile kuye. Unako ukulungiswa kakuhle kwaye uncinci, unetalente, kwiimfuneko kwizakhono kunye nobutyebi, kodwa ukuba ngesizathu esithile unganabantwana ixesha elide, uya kuba noxolo. Ndiqinisekile ukuba ukuba ngumama ngumsebenzi obaluleke kakhulu, kwaye omnye akufanele angene kule ngcamango. Emva koko, ukuba ufuna ngokwenene ukuba ube ngowakho, ngoko ngokuzalela umntwana, uya kuziva uvuyiswa kukuba iya kuhlawula zonke iingxaki ngenzala!
Umdlali odlalwayo uSalma Hayek, kwimeko yakho, kwakunjalo?
USalma Hayek: Kakade! Ukukhulelwa kwakungelula kum. Ngexa ndandichitha uValentina, ndandigula ngexesha lonke. Ndandinomzimba omkhulu, kwaye ndibonakala ngathi ndikhulu kakhulu. Kodwa ndathi: kuba ndizimisele ukugqithisa oku, ndiya kukhuthazela yonke into. Enyanisweni, ukukhulelwa kufundisa ukunyamezela.
Salma Hayek, kodwa ukhangeleka! Ingaba unayo nayiphi na imfihlo eyimfihlo?
USalma Hayek: Ndinokuqinisekisa ukuba iiveki ezimbini ezedlulileyo (ngaphambi kokuqala kweprojekthi) Ndandijonga ngcono: uhambo luyimisebenzi enzima gqitha. Kwaye andiyi kuphazamiseka ngumzimba othile. Ukuzivocavoca kukhulu! Umzekelo, ndiyamthanda kakhulu uPilates. Kodwa ngokubanzi ... andicinga ukuba ubuhle buyekeleleke. Ndandisoloko ndithandwa kakhulu ngesini esahlukileyo kunabanye abafazi abaninzi. Nangona ndibe ngumntwana. Kwaye yayingu-skinny kwaye encinane kakhulu. Kwakhona ndingazange ndibe namazinyo angaphandle, kodwa ke ndatsalwa ngento. Mhlawumbi imfihlelo eyona mkhulu yokukhawulela kukuzithemba?
Ngaba ulandele ukutya ukuze uphinde ufumane ifomu elidala emva kokukhulelwa nokubeletha?
USalma Hayek: andizange ndihlazile ngokunyuka kwamanani kunye nokutya. Ngokuqhelekileyo sidla oko ndiyifunayo.
Ndiyaziqhenya ukuba ndithatha inxaxheba kwiprojekthi "IIPAMPERS ne-UNISEF" Ukupakisha - I-Vaccine ". Ndiyayithanda kule phulo ukuba oomama abavela kulo lonke ihlabathi bahlanganisene ukukhusela abantwana. Akunandaba nokuba yintoni isimo sakho sezenhlalakahle. Ukuba unesana, ke u-99% uza kuthenga ii-diapers. Ngokuthenga ipakethi enye, unokunika isitofu esinye kunye nomnye umama ohlala kwenye indawo yehlabathi. Ncedisa umntwana womfazi ongazi kakuhle yena, kodwa ... Kulo mzuzwana umxube ongabonakaliyo owakhiwa phakathi kwakho. Oku kuyimvakalelo emangalisayo! Kodwa emva kokuzala, ndaqala ukunikela ingqalelo ngakumbi kwondlo lwami. Ngoku ndizama ukutya ngokulinganisela kwaye nditya kaninzi, kodwa kwiindawo ezincinci. Inzuzo yale ndlela kukuba ngelinye icala awudingi ukuyeka ukutya okuthandayo, kodwa kwenye - awuzuzi ubunzima.
Kutheni ubambe iqhaza kwi-Pampers-UNIF-CEF? Ingakanani le sigqibo ngenxa yokuba wena ngokwakho waba ngumama?
Mhlawumbi, ndiza kuthatha inxaxheba kule projekthi, nokuba ndingeyena unina. Kodwa kunokwenzeka ukuba ubukho bomntwana wam bukunceda ukuba ndiqonde iingxaki zabantwana abahlala kumazwe asekude aseAfrika, ukuba bathabathe entliziyweni. Ndiyakhumbula ukuba eSierra Leone (ilizwe apho izitofu zithengwa khona, zixhaswa ngemveliso yeePampers), kukho enye inkwenkwana egama linguMelvin. Uneminyaka efanayo kunye nentombi yam. Wayegula kakhulu kwaye encinane, kwaye akukho mntu wayesazi ukuba kwenzekani kuye. Wayejonge, akazange avume ukutya kwinyanga. Ndakhangela amehlo akhe, ndizama ukuqonda oko wayenaye, indlela yokumnceda. Mhlawumbi, wayedinga kakhulu emphefumlweni, kuba wayeneminyaka efanayo kunye neValentine yam. Ndakhangela uMelvin waza ndaqonda indlela eyahlukileyo ngayo nentombi yam ... Ngoku ukuba ndibona intombi yam enempilo, ndivakalelwa ukungabi nabulungisa. Udla kakuhle, udlala, ulala ebusweni bakhe ... kwaye ndiyabulela umphumo wokuba ubomi bakhe bunjani. Ngoku ndiyazi ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba nabani na ngoku kunye nokuba ndiphi na kwixesha elizayo, ezo zinto ziza kuba kunye nam. Yonke imizuzu engama-3, ngelixa umntwana wamhleka aze agijime, omnye umntwana usweleka ku-tetanus. Kodwa le nkwenkwana inomama. Kwaye akunakunceda nakwiimeko. Ujonge umntwana wakhe ogulayo kwaye akakwazi ukwenza nantoni na. Ikoyikeka! Kodwa sinako! Siyakwazi ukuthintela le ntlekele, yaye ngamnye wethu unokunikela ...
Eyodwa
Umdlali onguwayo uSalma Hayek waba ngumama kwi-41. NgoSeptemba 21, 2007 kwiziko lonyango laseLos Angeles, yena kunye nomyeni wakhe uFrançois-Henri Pino wayenentombi. Wabizwa intombazana kaSalma Hayek Valentine Paloma Pinot ...
Nangona kunjalo kungekude kudlulileyo umdlali wesithandwa uSalma Hayek wanxusa ukuba angabagwebi abafazi abangafuni ukufumana abantwana ngokukhawuleza: "Inkwenkwezi ayikho kubo bonke abafazi," kuchaza inkwenkwezi. Ngoku le indima ayithandayo.
Ngaba uthengela i-diapers ngentombi yakho?
USalma Hayek: Kwiimeko ezininzi, andinakwenza oku. Kodwa ndihlala ndibuza umntu oya kuthengwa: "Qinisekisa ukuba ukupakishwa kunokhetho lwe-UNICEF!"
Umama usitshintshile njani? Ngaba uzive uhlukile? Yiyiphi indlela oku kubonakaliswa ngayo?
U-Salma Hayek: Nangona uwedwa, unothando, ulwela, uyasilinda, unokwenzakala ukuba unokwenzakala ... Kwaye ke, xa umntwana ebonakalayo, ubuninzi bezinto ezilimazile kwaye zenze ukuba ube namava ngaphambi kokuba zibe luphawu oluncinci. Ngoku ihlabathi lonke liyabonakala ngokuhlukileyo, zonke iingxaki ziyabonakala, ubomi bakho buba bukhulu.
Ndihlala ndibuzwa, ngaba umama ube yinto ebaluleke kakhulu? Akunjalo! Yaba yinto engcono kakhulu yam imisebenzi! Kodwa mhlawumbi kungenxa yokuba intombi yam iselula kakhulu? Mhlawumbi kwixesha elizayo kuya kuba nzima ngakumbi kuye. Makhe sibone ...
Iimfihlakalo ezi-5 zomdlali odlalwayo uSalma Hayek indlela yokuhlala emgangathweni emva kokuzala:
1. Zinike ixesha
Into yokuqala okufuneka uyikhuphe ebomini bakho emva kokubeletha akukhona nokutya okuphezulu kwekhalori, kodwa uxinzelelo kunye nokuxhalaba malunga nokuba awukho njengomncinci njengaphambili. Emva koko, nguye osenza sidle ngaphezulu!
2. Yidla ukuvuselela umntwana kunye nawe. Inyaniso yokuba ukuncelisa okuncedisayo ukubuyisela ifom emva kokubeletha kuyintle. Ngelixa uncelisa, kufuneka unamathele ekudleni okunokukunceda ubisi. Kufuneka udle iikhalori ezingama-500 ngaphezu kwesiqhelo.
3. Xa ukhetha oko udlayo, cinga nge-crumb "Nangona uncelisayo, idla okufana nawe. Ngethuba lokutya, ndakhetha iimveliso eziphezulu zekhwalithi. Enye inyama, imifuno entsha kunye neziqhamo, iisuthi, i-soybean, i-milk-shaped, ubisi lweengqolowa, umgubo weengqolowa kunye namafutha e-polyunsaturated.
4. Ukuphelisa utywala, i-caffeine kunye noshukela ngelixa uncelisa. Kwaye nazo zonke ezo zokutya ongazange uzidle ngexesha lokukhulelwa. Ndakwazi ukufika ngokukhawuleza, ngokuba ndigweba ukutya okuthosiweyo, iwayini elibomvu kunye neesitokisi.
5. Hlala usebenza nomntwana wakho
Ndizama ukuhamba ngeenyawo, kunokuba ndihambe ngemoto, ndithatha umntanami kunye nam xa ndifuna ukuya kwithengi kwaye ndihlala ndihamba ngomoya omtsha.