Iingcali zengqondo zibiza le ngxaki ingxaki yokuqwalaselwa okanye isifo sengqondo. Umntwana akakwazi nje ukuzinikela ngokukhawuleza ukuba anike nayiphi na inkqubo nayiphi na inkqubo, makungacingi ufundisise, kwaye nangona engenandaba nomxholo. Ekhanda lakhe, ezininzi iingcinga kunye neengcamango ezinomdla ziyaxoshwa, okufuneka zifakwe kwaye ngoku ngoku.
Ukuzimisela kokunyanzelisa
Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba izilwanyana ezikhulayo zabantwana zihlala zisebenza ngamandla, ngoko kuyimfuneko ukuba sikwazi ukwahlula phakathi komsebenzi ophilileyo wokungasebenzi.
Ukongeza kwimisebenzi yabantwana abaqhelekileyo, abantwana abanomdla abaneempawu eziqaqambileyo: bazama ngokukhawuleza kwaye bathetha kakhulu, bahlala bekhawuleza, abakwazi ukuma nangona kwintetho. Izandla zabo azikrakra, zihlala zifuna into yokubamba okanye yokuguquka, ngokuphindaphindiweyo izandla zabo zingabanjwa zodwa. Kukho ukuvutha komoya kunye nokungafani kwemvakalelo, ngokoqobo ngomzuzu omnye odlulileyo, umntwana waqhekeka ekuhlekeleni kwaye ngoku sele ezele iinyembezi.
Ukunyaniseka kwenza abantwana bangene kwiimeko ezinje, abantwana abanjalo banokubamba ingqalelo, baququze iinkampani, babe yienkokheli zabo, bahlala bekhohlakele. Ngenxa yokuba Ingqwalasela yabo ishiya iqalo ekuqaleni, ngoko iyakwazi ukubonakala ilungelekile kwaye inzima, nangona ayithandi le meko. Nangona loo mntwana uchitha usuku lonke kwisitalato kwimidlalo, ngoko ngokuhlwa akayi kuba ekhaya. Yena nakhona, uqhubeka nomntu okhulayo owaziwayo kunye nehlabathi, kwaye elele ngokulala ngemibuzo elinde iimpendulo. Ngaphandle kwiphupha, unokubona ukuba umntwana uhamba kwindawo ethile, umntu ubiza kwaye into ithetha njalo.
Le ngxaki inokumiselwa nakwiiminyaka yokuqala yokuphila, ngelixa esengumntwana, unako ukulungiselela i-konsathi ngelixa elizolileyo emva kwemini. ukuba baphazamise abanye abantwana. Ukuba useneminyaka yobuntwana, abazali bebhengeze le ngxaki, ngoko akufanele ulibazise, kubalulekile ukuba ujike kwiingcali. Ingongoma kukuba emva kokuthetha nomntwana, isazi seengqondo siya kubhala umfanekiso wale ngxaki, kwaye uchaze indlela yokusingatha umntwana, ukuze yena kunye no-spalkspokoyno, kunye wadla, waphulaphula oko wayechazwe kuye. Emva kwayo yonke into, kuba engalali kakhulu, ingqondo yakhe ikhathele, nangona iyancipha.
Isizathu sokubonakala koxinzelelo
Inkcazo engafaniyo yolu bakala kwizengqondo zengqondo apho, kodwa kukho iindlela ezininzi ezinokwenzeka:
- imeko engxamisekileyo yentlalo kunye nengqondo, uxinzelelo;
- ububele kunye nemfuza;
- ukuxhatshazwa.
Enyanisweni, akukhathazeki ukuba kutheni kwaye umntwana unobungozi kangakanani, into ebaluleke kakhulu kukuphelisa ingxaki ngexesha, ngokukhethekileyo kwisigaba sokuqala. Ngokuchanekileyo, kuya kuchaneka ukutsho ukulungisa, ngokuchanekileyo uthumele umsebenzi omningi. Kudinga intsebenziswano yamabini omabini - bobabini abazali kunye neengqondo zeengqondo. Iingcali ziza kunika ukhetho, intsana inokukunceda njani ukujamelana nemvakalelo kunye nokuxhalaba, kwaye abazali kufuneka bakhulume kakuhle le nto kumntwana kwaye bahlale beqhuba.
Ukulala ubuthongo kumntwana onenkathazo
Njengoko sele kukhankanywe, ukulala okuzolileyo kunye ne-regimen yemihla yeengcamango zomntwana ezingasetyenziswayo azihambisani. Kubalulekile ukwenza yonke imizamo ukuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana ulala ngokulala.
Ukwenza oku, ukusuka kwisiqingatha sesibini sosuku ofuna ukuyihlawula ngokuthe ngcembe umsebenzi, ungabandakanyi uxinzelelo kwaye ungamgxeka umntwana. Ungamxeleli umntwanakho ngomsebenzi ogqithiseleyo, amagama anjenge "ewe ukuba awuhlali", njl., La magama enza umntwana abe nexhala kwaye abuye ahambele ukuhamba. Ukongezelela, khumbula, akazange akwenze oku, kwaye sele sele ezalwe nale ngxaki, ngoko uphathe ngokuqonda.
Ukudumisa izenzo ezintle ngexesha lokunyamezela luncedo kumntwana, kodwa ungamdumisi ngenxa yezenzo zonke. Zama ukususa ngokukhawuleza njengoko kunokwenzeka ukuthintela, ngaphantsi kokuphindaphinda igama alikwazi, ukuyeka, njl, ukuba unako, akayi kwenza njalo.
Imirhumo yosuku lwaba bantwana iyimfuneko, umzimba kunye nengqondo yakhe kufuneka ikhulise ngokuzenzekelayo ulwazi lwexesha. Ukuqala ngokunyuka kwesidlo sasekuseni, usuku lonke kufuneka ludlule ngokwemiqathango yeshedyuli. Uya kulala ngokulala nangona emva kokufika ekuphumleni kwindawo entsha, kufuneka nje enze zonke izinto ezifanayo akwenza ekhaya ngaphambi kokulala.
Ukuphumla nokuhamba komntwana kufanele kube neemidlalo ezihamba phambili, ngokufanelekileyo, xa umntwana echitha amandla amaninzi emini, ngokuhlwa kuya kuba namandla angaphantsi kunye noxolo lwengqondo.
Kodwa ungayikhohlwa, umsebenzi kunye nokuhamba, akufanele udibene nobudlova, umdlalo kufuneka ulawulwe kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo awuyi kuba nomsindo.
Nangona kunjalo, phakathi kweengqondo zengqondo kukho inqubo enjalo ekunceda ukulahla imvakalelo engeyiyo okanye enobudlova, kuba ngandlela-thile baqokelela. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba ufuna ukubetha umntu, mvumele ambethe ngentonga emhlabathini, kungekhona emthini, ukuba uzama ukuphonsa ilitye, endaweni yoko masilahle ibhola eludongeni. Oku kuya kususa ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo.
Isondlo esifanelekileyo kumntwana
Kwabadala kunye nabantu abathulileyo, ukutya okunzima kunye nobutyebi akukhuthazwa, ngakumbi ebusuku. Zama ukungabandakanyi ukusuka ekudleni okunamanqatha kunye nobutyebi kwi-carbohydrate yokutya. Umntwana akufanele abe nexinzelelo kwi-idiskomfort yesisu. Qinisekisa ukunika iimveliso zobisi ezinomuncu, okusanhlamvu kunye nemifuno, incike kunye nentlanzi, isibindi esihle, ukusuka kumavithamini: kiwi kunye namaqanda.
Ukusetyenziswa kweziyobisi
Kukho unyango lokuxhatshazwa ngokusetyenziswa kwamachiza, kodwa oku kwimiba ekhethekileyo kwaye ayikhuthazwa njengendlela yokuphuma. Kusetyenziswa i syrups kunye neepilisi zamachiza, kodwa zonke zichaphazela inkqubo yesantya yomntwana. Ugqirha kuphela unokuncoma iziyobisi ezifanayo, kwaye ke, kwiimeko ezimbi kwaye kunye nesilinganiso esifanelekileyo.
Kunconywa kakhulu ukuhlwaya okuphumayo, kubalulekile ukwenza ukunyakaza okuthabisayo, kufuneka uqaphele apho umntwana uninzi khona uya kuhlalisa. Kwakhona kubalulekile ukuphulaphula uluvo lwakhe, mvumele aqondise izandla zikamama wakhe, ngexesha elizayo uya kufumana amanqaku akhe axhuzisayo, okuya kwenza lula ubomi bakhe kunye nawe.
Ubunzima bokufundisa umntwana okhuselekileyo kukuba ngaphezu kokukhathala, abazali bahlala bephulaphula izikhalazo kunye nezibango zenzalo zabanye abantwana, ukusuka kootitshala ezikolweni nasegadi. Ukuze umsindise ekungcoleni, udinga urhulumente, ingqalelo kunye nothando lomzali.