Umzekelo ochaphazelekayo
Kwihlabathi lanamhlanje, kukho intsalela yesini, sifuna ukuba udumo, sityebi kwaye sifuna ukutshintsha iiglavu zamalingane ethu. Ukuba ucinga ngako, sibheke phambi kwamehlo ethu abantu abaninzi abadumileyo abaye baphathwa kwiiklinikhi kule ngxaki.
Ngaphambi kokuba kutshanje, kwakukho inkolelo malunga nesithembu sendoda (kunye nenye isetyhini nayo), kodwa kwihlabathi lanamhlanje le ngqungquthela yaba sisifo. Kwaye oku kungqinisiswa kwenzululwazi.
Namhlanje, esi sifo siphumelele ngokukhawuleza, kwaye sele sele sifakwe kwiluhlu lwezifo ezidume kakhulu kwiminyaka yokugqibela yekhulu lama-21. Izifundo ziqinisekisa ukuthandwa kwesifo ngenxa yokuba namhlanje abantu abangama-5% bomhlaba wonke banesifo socansi. Ngokutsho koqikelelo olubi, ngabantu abayizigidi ezingama-360. Ubundlobongela bufaniswa nengxaki yengqondo kwaye bafuna ukwenza izigulane zengqondo kwi-American Bible.
Awubavumi
Ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo ukuhlala utshintshe amaqabane obulili kunye nobudlelwane bexesha elide abaqhelekanga. Abanomdla kwiimvakalelo, kodwa kunomdla njengenkqubo. Kwaye isondo esingakumbi, luba ngcono kubo. Yaye isondo kufuneka sibe nezohlukeneyo, kubandakanywa izinto ze-sadomasochism, ukuhlaziywa kweefestile zoononophelo ngokukhawuleza, kunye neengqumbo zesondo ezinqabileyo. Ukuqwalaselwa kugxile kwizesondo, apho inani lalo likhula ngokukhawuleza. Kwaye oku akusoloko befuna umlingane. Kukho uonografi okwaneleyo kwi-intanethi.
Xho mekeka ngqo
Iingcali zenzululwazi zithetha ukuba imbangela yesi sifo kubangelwa zizifo zengqondo. Amaxhoba esi sifo banabantu abangakhuselekanga, kwaye ukunqoba kwezesondo kubanika isizathu sokuziqhayisa. Kukho ezinye izizathu zokubonakala kwesifo - ukungabikho kwe-caress vladetstve okanye ukuxhatshazwa. Ukukhuthazwa ngabahlobo bakhe kwaye kungavunywanga yinkwenkwe yonyana kuya kuzibonakalisa ukuhambelana kwayo, ukutshintsha amaqabane ahlala ehlala njalo. Ngamanye amazwi, esi sifo singabangela ukuba iimeko eziqhelekileyo zemizwa engaphantsi.
Kodwa ngokwesondo kunokukhawuleza kunokugula, nokuxhomekeka. Kuyafana kakhulu notywala okanye utywala lweziyobisi: amaxhoba esi sifo anelungelo elingenakunqwenela inxalenye elandelayo yesini. Bafumana uxhamla kwinkqubo kuphela imizuzwana embalwa, kwaye emva koko kuphela umthamo omtsha olandelayo unomdla kubo. Ukususela kumxhomekeke apha ngasentla, ukuziphatha ngokwesondo kuyahluke kukuba akukhokeli kwimiphumo emibi yenyama, ngaphandle kwemiphumo yezocwangco ezingavumelekanga. Kodwa ngexesha elifanayo umgangatho wokuziphatha unzima kakhulu kulo mbandela.
Abaphengululi, ngokuqinisekileyo, zonke izinto zize zenzeke. Ngoku kutshanje, izazinzulu zakwaSirayeli ziye zafumanisa umthwalo onoxanduva lokuvuselela. Bakholelwa ukuba iigeni zidlala indima ebalulekileyo kubasebenzi bezesondo. Kukho nje abantu abathi isondo sibaluleke ngakumbi kunabanye. "Ukuncedisa, andinetyala, ndinezitshintsho zentsholongwane, ukuzalwa komntwana!" Sifanele sithethelele njani ingxaki? Kwaye ukuba ukuziphatha ngokwesini kusemntwini isizathu esilungileyo sokuba phambi kwenkomo yesiganeko esinomdla, yintoni uncedo oluyimfuneko?
Ubomi bobulili abukho ubomi obuqhelekileyo
Umntu okwenyaniso wesini angakwazi ukulawula ukuziphatha kwakhe. Ukuziphatha okunjalo okungalawulwayo kukuchaphazela kakubi zonke iindawo zobomi bakhe. Uhlala ecinga nje nge-axxe, uthetha ngesondo kuphela, uziphatha kakhulu, ukhululekile kwaye uhlala ekulungele ukulala ngesondo.
Ubundlobongela abuyikhuphiswano
Akakhathalele ukuba ngubani olala naye. Awuxhaswanga yimifanekiso ethile yeesetyhini, nto leyo ithetha ukuba amathuba okuba ngumlingani osisigxina akakho. Indoda ibanjwe kuphela ngesondo kwaye ukubonakaliswa kwemvakalelo yothando kuyimvelaphi kuye.
Ukwabelana ngesondo uyazi ngokuxhomekeka kwayo.
Izibophelelo ezingaqhelekanga kunye namaqabane amaninzi, ngokusemthethweni, awanakucaluli kuluntu. Ngenxa yoko, abasebenzi bezesondo bangena kwixinzelelo, bavale baze bagcine besazi ukuba banomlutha kwaye kufuneka badale ukuxhomekeka kwabo. Kwimeko apho, uthetha ngokuxhomekeke kumntu oxhomekeke kuye, umamele, uze uzame ukumnceda, kodwa akukho mzekelo ungafaki uxinzelelo kuye. Musa ukujika kumntu. Khumbula ukuba into ephambili kukuba inkxaso yabantu abasondele kuye.