Ukuxinezeleka ebomini bowesifazane wesimanje

Iingcamango zintle! Ulibale ingxaki! Zonke izifo - ukusuka kwindlela engafanelekanga ebomini, zonke iintlungu zokudakumba ebomini basetyhini banamhlanje. Ufanelwe ngcono! Zonke amaphupha ziya kuzaliseka! Abafazi be-walrus kuphela, abaxhonywe nge-chakras kunye ne-yoga, bathi ingcinga; Ngoku kubonakala kubonakala nakubantu abashishino abomeleleyo. Kwaye ngaba ngezinye izigulane kuleso sizathu sonyaniso, esakhiweyo!

Smile ngesidingo

Awu, siza, masihambe! Ngaphezulu kwempumlo! Kuwe ebomini yonke into ephezulu okanye ehlukileyo: umsebenzi, indlu, impilo! Ewe, kukho umgca ukuya kwi-Dnieper ukuthatha indawo yakho. Iingcebiso ezivuyayo zomhlobo wakhe azizange zithinteke - wanikela into embi, mhlawumbi, umona ofihlakeleyo kwintlalo yam enxulumene nemali, okanye nokuba novuyo lwentsimi malunga noko ndikugqibeleni ngokufanelekileyo. Konke oku kukukrokrela kwam, kodwa ukususela ngoko andizange ndifonele umnxeba - kuba engenaye kuphela umntu osondeleyo. Ukuba isiluleko sokukhahlela nokuphumula sinyanisekileyo, sinentsingiselo enjengeyokufuna umnqweno omnandi kumntu osondiswa yi-glucose ngokusebenzisa ityhubhu.

Omnye umzekelo ovela kwinqaku elifanayo mhlawumbi unengxaki enkulu yokudakumba ebomini yowesifazane wesimanje.


Kwiinkcubeko zaseSlavic kukho enye into ecebisayo: ngokudandatheka kunye novuyo sifuna ukuba abanye babelane ngeemvakalelo zethu. Neengxubusho ezinomdla malunga nezopolitiko kwi-trolleybus, kunye nokudakwa okudakayo, kunye nesimo sengqondo esinokusola kubantu abangaphuzi kwitafile jikelele-konke oku kungenako ukuhlonipha umntu onobunye. Kodwa kwiminyaka eyi-15 edluleyo, intsha ye-Western-innovative yaseYurophu-isifo sengqondo esilungileyo - siphezulu kule nkcubeko. Umxube wavela ngokutsha.


Iimbali ezimbini zeembali

"Ndingumnandi kakhulu kwaye ndikhangeleka," kutsho i-plump, iqhawe elimangalisayo laseMravvava, emva kwesimo sengqondo esingasemva somngane wakhe wengqondo. Ukuphindaphinda ngokukhawuleza "okunjalo okuqinisekileyo" (iingxelo) ngenye yezindlela eziphambili zengqondo efanelekileyo. "Ndiza kuphumelela"; "Ndiya ngokuzithemba ngakumbi"; "Ndiziva ndibhetele kwaye ngcono" ... Ugqirha waseFransi u-Emil Kue wasungula impilo kunye nesimo sengqondo ngexesha lokudandatheka ebomini bowesifazane wesimanje kunye nezigulane zakhe ekuqaleni kwekhulu lama-20, kodwa ukususela ngoko ke iingcamango zakhe zenziwe zaza zaqinisekiswa kumakhulu amabhuku ngababhali abahlukeneyo: uLouise Hay, uLiz Burbo, iMirzakarima Norbekova, uValery Sinelnikov, uNataliya Pravdina, u-Alexander Sviyash. Bonke bahluke kakhulu, ngamanqanaba ahlukeneyo emfundo kunye namava okuphila, kodwa bavumelana ngento enye: ihlabathi kwimisebenzi yabo ibonakala njengentengiso enkulu apho umntu ngamnye anako ukwanelisa intswelo yakhe yothando, impilo, ubutyebi, udumo, kwifowuni entsha, evulekile indlu kunye neholide kwii-Canary. Kwanele ukuyibeka ngokucacileyo isicelo sakho kwi-Universe, kwaye iya kuphendula. "Ucinga ntoni kwaye ukholwa kuyo, kuya kuzaliseka kuwe. Iingcamango zakho zidala ubomi bakho. Kulula! "Uvakalisa uLouise Hay. Yena ngokwakhe, ngokwe-biography esemthethweni, waphiliswa ngumhlaza kwisithuba seenyanga ezintandathu, esebenzisa ukutya kuphela, ukunyanga, kwaye, ngokubaluleke kakhulu, ukusikisela okulungileyo, okanye ukuqinisekiswa. Nangona kunjalo, akukho mntu uya kuqinisekisa ukuphumelela kwaloo unyango kumhlaza. I-oncologists yazi iimeko ezininzi xa i-tumor iphelile ukuphuhlisa okanye "iyancipha". Oku kubizwa ngokuthi "ukuxolelwa okungaxeliweyo." Ukuba bonke abantu abaphilisweyo benza ngendlela kaLouise Hay, oku bekuza kwaziwa kwihlabathi, kwaye uya kukhishwa uMvuzo weNobel. Kodwa -Ara. Konke kunzima kakhulu. Akunakuphikiswa ukuba umhlaza unengqondo kwisimo, kwaye kunokwenzeka ukuba ithemba legulane lenza imimangaliso. Kuphela ukuba nethemba ngokulandelelana akunakwenzeka.


Ubonakaliso obalulekileyo obunempilo yengqondo kunye novuthiweyo kunye nokudandatheka ebomini bowesifazane wesimanje kukukwazi ukuva iimvakalelo ezibuhlungu, ngaphandle kokuphelelwa yithemba kwaye ngaphandle kokuwa phantsi kokudakumba. Kodwa le ngxaki, ngelanga, ayiyi kuphuhliswa ngoncedo lwe-auto-suggestion. Le yinkqubo eyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu kunokuba ibonakale kwi-psychological positive, kwaye amagama abonakalisa imeko yangaphakathi kunokuba ayifake. Kakade ke, ukuzivala kakuhle kubalulekile. Abadlali bebhola bamiselwa ukuphumelela phambi kokhuphiswano, bezinikezela ngokuphumelela. Kodwa ngokusoloko sibona ukuba oku kusebenze, kwaye izithembiso 'zokuqhawula intshaba ngaphandle' aziqinisekisi ngempumelelo. Kwaye iingcamango ezintle zibonisa ukuba yonke into ehlabathini ilawulwa ngendlela enamandla onke, kwaye oku akuchazi kangako imeko yangempela njengoko ibonisa ukwesaba nokungakhathazeki.


Mania of Delight

I-psychological positive ikhangisa abantu abaneengxaki ezinzulu ebomini babo. Umzekelo, ngempilo okanye ngemali. Kwizithembiso zokuphumelela ngokukhawuleza kwempumelelo yezemali, iskimu sokwakha amanqanaba amaninzi sakhiwe. Kwiintlanganiso eziqhelekileyo, abaxumi bathengisa ukuba bazalisekisa njani izicwangciso ezibonakala zingenangqiqo; ngenxa yonyaka abawuthola ngayo amaphupha abo; ukususela ekusebenziseni iimveliso zabo abaye bathula iinwele kwi-patch yabo ye-bald, banomdla, njalo njalo njalo njalo. Bahlabelela iingoma, bamemeza amagama-ezifanayo eziqinisekisiweyo. Isiphumo kukusungulwa kwamawaka abantu ngokufana nesimo se-trance, okanye ukuzonwabisa. "Ngokweengqondo, i-diagnostic iyaziwa - i-psychoic depress psychosis. Isigaba esicinezelayo sibonakala ngoluvo lokuba akukho ikusasa, umntu-ukuziva ukuba akukho nto idlulileyo, yonke into ihamba phambili, yonke into inokwenzeka. Kulo rhu lumente, umntu ongenamdla, onomdla, akakwazi ukulala, angadli ... Kodwa ngokukhawuleza okanye emva koko umthombo uphelile, kunye nokudandatheka, ukuphazamiseka kwemiba, izifo zengqondo ziqala. Isimo somntu weentengiso sinoxanduva kubaphathi babo, ngoko kugcinwa rhoqo - ngoncedo lweencwadi, imithetho yeenkampani, iintlanganiso, iintlanganiso.

Umsebenzi weenkokeli ukugawula phansi kwaye uqokelele inzuzo.

Omnye umzekelo wokutsala i-psychological positive ukuphumelela kwimpumelelo yemali: "Uhlwempuzekile, kuba awuvumeli ukuba ukholelwe ukuba ufanelekile kakhulu. Kholelwa ukuba kwindawo ethile kukho umvuzo weedola ezili-10 zeedola, ezijoliswe kuwe-kwaye ngoko uya kuzifumana. " Inqaku elifanayo liqulethwe kwiintlobo ezininzi zeencwadi ezinesihloko esithi "Indlela yokuba ngumgidi-mali, kungekhona ngokugqithiseleyo."

Ukukhuthaza ukuzithemba okunjalo akunakwenzeka ngexesha lokudakumba ebomini yowesifazane wamanje. Ngokuphambene noko, isiphumo esichasene nayo sinokuthi: ukubeka iinjongo ezingenangqiqo kungonakalisa ukuzithemba. "Ukuba ndifumana amaxesha amancinane amahlanu kunoko ndiyifanele, kwaye andiyi kuthanda mna de ndiyifumane. Kwaye ukuba ndiyifumani, ndiyadumala gqitha. Nali ibali elivela kum. Umxhasi, umfazi osemncinci, ngexesha elinye wagqiba ekubeni ufuna ukukhawuleza ukufumana imali ethile kwaye enze ibhizinisi. Indlela yokufumana imali? Ubuqhetseba. Wabala ukuba kwiminyaka emithathu wayeza kuhlanganisa i-capital capital, aze ayibale yonke into, atshate aze aqalise ubomi obutsha. Ukucinga okulungileyo: Ixesha elizayo lingenasiphelo, kukho umtshato kunye nabantwana, kwaye iminyaka ezayo ayiyimi, akusiyo ubomi bam, yindlela yokufezekisa into oyifunayo. Wenza njalo, watyala yonke imali ayenayo - kwaye watshisa, kwaye wayenayo into eninzi yokwenza. Ucinga ukuba wenza ntoni? Ndagqiba kwelokuba ndibuyele kwikhishini lam kwakhona. Kwaye yonke into iya kuba yinto efanelekileyo ... Kodwa inyaniso kukuba iingcambu zethunzi zobomi ziqokelela kwaye zidubula ngexesha elingaphambili. Ngokomzekelo, kukho umnqweno othanda ukuxelela umyeni wakhe yonke into. Yaye lowo uhenyukazi wayengowomntu ofanayo ngaphambili. Ukuguquka komntu ongenakubuyiselwa kwenzeka. "


Ukususela ngokubanzi ukuya kwiindawo ezithile

Icandelo elibalulekileyo le-psychological positive libonakaliso, "umyalelo" wezinto ezifunwayo, apho i-Universe imele ifike kuwe ngokukhawuleza. Ngamanye amaxesha "umyalelo" uyenziwa, ngaphandle koko ababhali abakhankanywe ngasentla bangenanto yokuba bayibhale. Kodwa iincwadi azizithethi zingaphi iilawulwanga ezingenziwanga.

Imfihlelo yempumelelo ayifanelekanga ngokuqinisekileyo kunye nokunciphisa komsebenzi, kodwa ngokuchaseneyo - ekuvulelekeni okukhulu. Ukuba uthetha kuwe: eholidini, ndifuna ukuchitha ubusuku kwisiqithi ngaphantsi kwesibhakabhaka esisezantsi, elele ngaselwandle, ngakwesokunene sam kukho imithi yesithathu, kwaye ngakwesobunxele i-cliff imitha ezintlanu eziphezulu, lo mnqweno awuyi kuzaliseka - indawo emhlabeni mayingabi nhlobo. Yinto ehlukile ukuba ubeka iinjongo: Ndifuna ukuchitha iholide enomdla, njengokuba andizange ndenze; Ndifuna uhambo! Olu qulunqo lwenza ukuba umzimba uphonywe ngendlela ethile: siqala ukungaqwalasela ngokungazenzisiyo amathuba okungazange siqaphele ngaphambili.


Umculi odumileyo waseKievna u-Natalia Isupova wanquma ngo-1998 ukuthenga indlu kwaye wafumanisa oko wayekuphuphayo. Amaxabiso ngelo xesha awela kakhulu, kodwa i-15 000 yeedola yayingumlinganiselo omkhulu. Emva koko, umqhubi wezo zonke iintlobo ze-esotericism, wabuyela kwindawo yonke kunye nesicelo sokuthi "uthumele" imali yakhe. "Ndaqalisa ukufumana imiyalelo, ndakhawuleza ndafumana amawaka amahlanu, kwaye inani elingekhoyo linikezelwe yindodana," umculi uyakhumbula, ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba le yinto "impendulo" yendalo yonke. Enyanisweni, lo ngumzekeliso ogqibeleleyo wendlela yokukhangela amathuba okwenzeka ngayo. Ngokucacileyo, ekuqaleni uNataliya wenqaba ukwenza umsebenzi owongezelelweyo, kwaye unyana wakhe akazange afune ukunyanzela izicelo. Kodwa umnqweno wokuthenga indlu yayimkhulu kangangokuba wamnyanzelisa ukuba adibanise-kwaye ngenxa yoko wafumana oko wayekufunayo.

Inkolelo yakhe "ekucingeni okulungileyo" ayizange yonakalise nabani na. I-Isupova isoloko ihlala yinto enomdla, inomdla kunye nomntu onamandla, kunye neencwadi ezivela kwinqaku ethi "Zincede" zayiqinisekisa kuphela ngokuchanekileyo kwimeko yokuphila. Kodwa inyaniso yolu ngxaki kukuba i-psychology ebonakalayo idlalwa ngabantu abanengxaki "zabo"!

Umhlobo wam wafumana umtshato obuhlungu. Wayebuhlungu ngokuphindaphindiweyo kuba abazali bakhe baphumelela kakhulu abantu abahlala emtshatweni ovuyayo, kwaye intombi ihlale izama ukuhlangabezana nokulindela kwabo, nokuba, ukuba "yiqhawe" kuyo yonke into. Emva kokuqhawula umtshato, waba ngummeli wokuthengisa omnye weenkampani zonyango. Kule nkampani kwakukho isazi senzululwazi esasifundisa abafazi ukuba babe nembono elungileyo yehlabathi kwaye bachaze ukuba ukuba kunjalo ukwenza i-cilia kwaye yindlela yokusebenzisa ukhilimu, ngoko ubomi buya kuphucula. Umhlobo wam wenza konke oku, waqala ukuziva engcono kwaye ekhangele, wayekholelwa kuye kwaye watshata okwesibini. Kodwa kungekudala umtshato omtsha ube neengxaki ezifana neyokuqala. Ingokwemvelo - emva kwayo yonke into, ukuzithemba ngokwakho kunye nenkolelo yokuba yonke into inokwenzeka - yinto yokwenza izinto ezifihlakeleyo. Ukuba unesibindi sokugula, isiseko, ngokuqinisekileyo, siya kukufihla ibala elibi, kodwa ngaphakathi kwalo kuya kuhamba inkqubo yokubola!


Yihla emhlabeni

Ngoko, i-psychological positive - pshik, nkohliso, inhlamba? Akunjalo. Yindlela nje yokuyisebenzisa. Ekubeni kuluntu lwethu kwiinkulungwane zeminyaka kuye kwagqitywa isigqibo sokutshintsha uxanduva kuThixo, urhulumente, urhulumente, abo bajikelezayo, ngoko-ke abalandeli beengqondo ezintle bazama ukunika uxanduva kubomi babo ngenxa yeemifanekiso, izithunywa zezulu, i-Universe. Kwimimandla yaseMelika, apho esi sikhokelo sengqondo sazalwa, abantu basebenziselwa ukuthatha uxanduva kubo, ngoko ke isimo sabo sengqondo siba ngumzamo wenene wokufezekisa injongo. Zama ukuphendula umbuzo olula: uza kwenzeka ntoni xa umvuzo wakho unyuka? Ziziphi iimfuno zakho kunye namaphupha abe yinyani? Ziziphi iinzame ozenzayo ukuze uzifezekise? Kubonakala ngathi - i-nuance. Kodwa ukulala kunye nombono wemali ephezulu yinto enye, kodwa ngengcinga yokuba namhlanje wenza konke onokukwenza, ngenxa yephupha lakho - linye. Kwaye okulungileyo kwisibini kuninzi.


Ndikumema ukuba wehla ezulwini ufike emhlabeni uze ukhangele. Uza kubona izilingo ezilahlekileyo, amaphupha ashiyiweyo, iminqweno eshiyekile kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, iimeko ezibulalayo kunye nemingcipheko engaphephekiyo abantu abajongene nayo endleleni eya kwinjongo. Hayi, ubomi abukho phantsi kolawulo lwethu olupheleleyo, kungakhathaliseki ukuba sifuna kangakanani oku. Ukuba ufuna ukuhleka uThixo, mxelele ngezicwangciso zakho. Ngoko ke kukufanelekile ukusekela iinjongo, ukuba kungekhona zonke ezandleni zethu, ukuba yonke into ingaba yize? Ewe! Ndiyakumema ukuba ube nesibindi uze uthathe ngokungathandekiyo iminqweno yakho, uze ubenze ibe yiinjongo zokuchitha ubomi bakho ekuphunyezweni nasekuphumeleleni. Ubugcisa bokuphila bukwazi ukuhlala kumgca omhle, apho iinjongo zabantu kunye nokuzimisela ukwamukela yonke into ehambisa ubomi kuthi. Ukufumana lo mlinganiso, kwaye kungekhona umnqweno wokuba wenze into epheleleyo ebomini, iyimfihlelo yokukhanya kunye nobudlelwane obuhambelana nehlabathi.