Iimbono zexesha elide kunye nezifundo ziqinisekisa ngokuqinisekileyo: ewe! Amanqanaba athile kunye neepropati zomlingani, ngokuqinisekileyo, zivela kuthi. Kodwa ngexesha lokuphila batshintshile, abatsha bafumana, batshintsha ubuso bomzimba. Ngoko, ukunganeliseki rhoqo kunciphisa iingcambu zomlomo phantsi, inkani inenza umhlathi udibanise kwaye uvelise isikhumba sesikwere, isimo sengqondo esilula siphakamisa iingcamango zomlomo. Yintoni onokuyifunda ngomntu ngokufunda ngokucophelela ubuso bakhe?
Amehlo
"Isibilini somphefumlo" - akusiyo into esetyenziswayo ngeli gama xa uthetha ngamehlo! Bayakwazi ukuthetha ngomnxibelelwano kuninzi ngamanye amaxesha yena ngokwakhe.
- Amehlo amakhulu. Kukholelwa ukuba abantu abanamehlo amakhulu, abanamehlo amakhulu banemvelo, ubuciko, ngokucacileyo, kwaye benza ngokuzimisela nangokuvulekileyo. Nangona kunjalo, bathambekele ekunikeni ukucinga okunqwenelekayo kunye novila.
- Amehlo amancinci anelisekile, kodwa kunokuba avaliwe kwaye angabonakali, angakulungele ukubeka iingcamango zabo kwabanye. Bahlala bekhwele kakhulu.
- Amehlo anamehlo athetha ngokubona kwangaphambili komntu kunye nengcamango ephakamileyo. Ubungqina obunjalo, njengommiselo, abantu baqulunqa kwaye banemilinganiselo.
- Amehlo avaliweyo-ukutyunjwa, ukuqwalasela iinkcukacha. Kodwa ngexesha elifanayo malunga nokugqithisa kunye nangomlingisi owomileyo.
- Ukunyamezela kwamehlo kuya phezulu kubonisa udidi oluthembekileyo, ukukhanya okukhawulezayo kunye nomoya ovuyoleyo ebomini.
- Ukutyeba kwamehlo phantsi kukukwazi ukuvelana nokuthintela iingxaki ngaphambi kokuba zenzeke.
- Ukuba iingongoma zangaphakathi kunye zangaphandle zitholakala malunga nomgca omnye wengqondo - ngaphambi kokuba ube ngumntu ogxekayo nenkani, owaziyo into ayifunayo ebomini aze afinyelele iinjongo ezibekiweyo.
- Amehlo ekugqithisweni ngumqondiso wentshiseko kunye nomnqweno wokuthatha inxaxheba kwimpilo yabanye.
- Utyalwe ngokujulile-malunga nokugcina, uqaphele kunye nokuthintela.
Ngokuchasene neenkolelo ezidumileyo, ixesha elide lithetha ukuba "unomdla." Kunoko, ngumqondiso we-conservatism. Kodwa ukuba impumlo ide kakhulu kwaye inkulu, kukho ubuntu obucacileyo okanye ...
- Impumlo emfutshane ithi umnini wakhe unengqondo evulekile, usebenza nzima kwaye unontlalontle. Abantu abanjalo bathanda ukufumana yonke into emitsha engachangekanga, iimfihlakalo kunye nemigqomo.
- Impumlo enkulu ingezo iinkokheli, ubuqu bobuqili, ukuzama ukulawula abantu abazungezile.
- Abantu abaxhamlileyo balawula ngokulula ukudala umkhosi wokuzonwabisa, bavakalelwa kwaye banamandla.
- Iphunga leBony kunye ne-hump - isalathisi sokuqhayisa, inkani kunye nokuzikhukhumeza. Oku kuchazwa ngakumbi i-hump, abantu abangenakukhathazeka.
- Ukubanzi kwisiseko sempumpo kunokubonisa umnqweno wokunyamekela nokuxhasa abanye.
- Nxubile, njengokungathi ucinezelwe ekuqaleni, ukuzimela kunye nokungafuni ukufumana uncedo. Iphupha lempumlo, likhuphuka, lithetha ngempembelelo kunye nompembelelo womntu. Ukuba impumlo ibukhali - malunga nekhono kunye nokugqithisa. Ukuwa phantsi - umntu akayithandanga ukuthembela kwabanye, unokungathembeki, ugobile kwaye aphuculwe - ukuzingca nokuzikhukhumeza. Amancinci amancinci athetha ngokunyamekela, umlingiswa omnene kunye nokungafani, okukhulu kakhulu malunga nokukhetha kunye nokupha. Ukuba amaphiko omntu akwanele ngokwaneleyo, ngoko sitsho ukuba udla ngokuzithemba, kunokukhohlakala nokungaqiniseki.
Kwimoko, ubungakanani kunye nesimo seendlebe, naye, unokufunda okuthile ngomntu.
Iindlebe ezinkulu - uphawu lobukho bezakhono zomculo kunye nenkumbulo enhle. Abantu abaneendlebe zivame ukuphazamiseka, kodwa zilungile.
Iindlebe ezincinci. Abanikazi beendlebe ezincinci abayithandi ukuhleba kwaye bathambekele ekuthembeleni amehlo abo, bazimeleyo kwaye basebenzayo ukuze baphumelele, badla ngokusebenza nzima.
Iindlebe eziphakamileyo kakhulu ziphawu lobunzulu obuphezulu. Ukunciphisa nokuphuculwa nokukwazi ukuphulaphula ulwazi olutsha. I-Lop-ered, njengomthetho, inenkani, inikwe i-intuition efanelekileyo kwaye iyakwazi ukuhlalutya.
Iindlebe, ifom elinezantsi, ibonisa ukuba umntu uyakwazi ukuqonda yonke into kwi-fly.
Umlomo
Njengemehlo, umlomo uthathwa njengenye yezona ndawo zikhangeleke kakhulu ebusweni. Ukuxelisa ubuhle bobugcisa obugcweleyo, amantombazana amaninzi afumana iindlela ezahlukeneyo ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Kwaye yonke into yokuba umlomo oqaqambileyo umlomo unxulumene nokuzithemba nokuziphatha ngokwesini. Ngabantu abanjalo kwaye ngokwenene andibuhlungu: zivulekile, zivuya, ziyazi ukuzonwabisa ubomi. Akunalo msebenzi, akukho myalelo kubo ongeke ulinde.
Abantu abanomlomo oqaqambileyo, nangona babenobungane kwaye banoluntu, banakho "ukukholisa" kungeyona nto ibalulekileyo: ubuqili, ukufihlakeleka, ubuqili. Ngaba unomlomo omncinci? Ngoko, uyisilumkiso, uqaphele, ukhululekile, kuphela ukwazi omnye umntu ngokusondeleyo, kodwa uhlale esincinci kuye.
Umlomo oguguleyo, njengokungathi uxhoma phezu kwesikhumba, kubonisa ukuba unobuntu obunomdla, osebenzayo kunye nobulumko.
Umlomo ophezulu ukhuphuka ngaphezu kwezantsi - umnini womlomo ololo hlobo, unqwenela ukuba ube ngumbindi wonk 'ubani, kodwa ngelo xesha unyanzelekile, ukwesaba ukwenza ukungahambi kakuhle.
Umlomo ophantsi, obalaseleyo phambili-umntu unamandla, akanakuhlala phantsi, uthanda ukudala i-whirlpool yeemeko ezizungezile, ngexesha elifanayo uyayiphendula kwaye akayi kukunyamekela ezinye iingxaki zabantu.
Umlomo womlomo
Ngokomzekelo wemilomo yakhe, umntu unokufunda iimvakalelo ezintle kakhulu zomnxibelelwano ukuze acinge indlela akhathalelayo ngayo nangendlela aziva ngayo.
- Umlomo ovuthayo - umsindo, ukudabuka, umsindo, inzondo, ukunganeliseki, intlungu. Umlomo ogxininisweyo, ococekileyo ngentambo encinci, unomsindo ongenamandla.
- Imilebe echaziweyo ibonakalisa ubundlobongela.
- Ukuphazamiseka komlomo xa uthetha nomnxibelelanisi-umntu ulungiswa ngumntu ongathandabuzekiyo, nangona ungabonakali oku ngezwi.
- Umlomo uhlaselwa kuyo nayiphi na indlela - uphawu lokudideka.
- Ukuba umlomo uphazamisa kwaye uyathuthuma, ngoko uxwayisa ngokuphazamiseka nokugqithisileyo komnxibelelwano.
- Amakhonkco omlomo ayabheka phantsi-imeko yexhala, intlungu, ukudabuka.
- Amakhonkco omlomo akhululekile kwaye alawulwa ngaphantsi - umntu usemva.
- Amakhonkco omlomo akhathazeke kakhulu kwaye abukele phantsi - umntu ulahlwa ngumntu ongathandabuzekiyo, kwiimeko zokuhlambalaza, ukuhlekisa, ukunyaniseka, ubumnyama.