Ewe, kwindawo yokuqala, amadoda anomdla wokubonakala. Ungazikhohlisi uze uqiniseke ukuba ukuba indoda ebaluleke kakhulu ihlabathi lakho elithe tye. Akunakutsholwa ukuba le nto ayinanto kubo, kodwa xa ihlola intombazana esitalatweni, amadoda amaninzi ayicingi ukuba ubhala inkondlo okanye ungumntu onomusa. Kodwa bajonga ngentshisekelo enkulu emilenzeni nasesifuba.
Yingakho kufuneka uhlale ulungele kwaye ukhangele. Amathandana athande xa ibhinqa linomfanekiso. Hlulela kwi-wardrobe yakho i-t-shirts kunye neebhulukhwe ezinkulu. Zama ukugqoka iingubo kunye neengubo, i-sweaters kunye ne-jeans kufuneka zixhomekeke ngokucacileyo kwisidima sakho kwaye zifihlile iimpazamo. Kwakhona, ungalokothi ukhohlwe izithende. Bahlala beyenza imilenze yabo ibe yincinci, kwaye i-gait-feminine. Xa ukhetha i-wardrobe, akufanele unganciphise ukungcola kunye nokunyaniseka okugqithisileyo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ngale nto unomdla kumntu, kodwa ngobusuku obubodwa. Izambatho zifanele zibe njalo. Ukuvakalelwa ngento encinci yokutshatyalaliswa. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba unxibe i sweatshirt eneentambo, ungambathisi umkhonto omncinci kuye. Iifutshane ezimfutshane ziya kujonga ngeT-shirt evalwe kakuhle.
Phantse bonke abantu abaselula bathanda xa amantombazana enenwele ende. Ngoko ke, ukhetha iinwele, ungayeki ngexesha elifutshane. Kakade, iinwele ezinde zidinga ukunakekelwa kakuhle. Akukho mntu uya kuthanda intombazana enezingcolileyo, iinwele eziboyiweyo ezinentloko entloko. Ngako oko, kuyimfuneko ukuchitha ixesha kunye nemali kwiimaski ezahlukahlukeneyo, ama-creams, ama-shampoos, okuya kwenza ukuba iitshizi zakho ziphile, zikhulu kwaye zikhanyise.
Kwakhona, kufuneka usebenzise izimonyo eziphezulu zezinga eliphezulu. Khetha i-make-up echanekileyo kwaye uqinisekise ukuba izithunzi azifaki, kwaye i-ink yangasasazeka.
Yazi indlela yokukhetha izixhobo ezifanelekileyo. Isikhwama sefashini enhle, inqabunga, ubucwebe - yonke into ifanele ifake umfanekiso wakho wesifazana kunye nesitayela.
Kuphela emva kokuba ungatsho ukuba ubonakala ukhulu, yiya kwimpendulo elandelayo kumbuzo: indlela yokubambisana nomntu kunye noko bakuqwalasela khona.
Ngoku ungathetha ngokuziphatha nokuthula kwangaphakathi. Khumbula ukuba ukuba umntu oya kujongeka ukubonakala kwakho, oku akuthethi ukuba ngemizuzu embalwa akayi kudanisa, emva kokuthetha nawe. Indlela yokuziphatha ibaluleke kakhulu xa ufuna ukwenza impembelelo enhle. Bonke abafazi bahluke. Abanye babo bangamadoda ngokusemgangathweni, kodwa ezinye zifana nokuziphatha komfana. Ukuba ungowesigaba sesibini, kuya kufuneka uphinde ucinge ngemilinganiselo yakho. Ewe, oku akuthethi ukuba kufuneka uhlale udlwengula. Qonda nje ukuba nabahlobo unokuziphatha ngendlela othanda ngayo, kodwa kunye nomfana kufuneka ube yintombazana yangempela. Ngoko ke, jonga ukuhamba kwakho, indlela yokuthetha, indlela ohleka ngayo. Awukwazi ukuhlala uginya iingalo zakho, uthethe ngokukhawuleza nangokwenyama, kwaye uhleka kakhulu. Zama ukuzibamba kwaye ubukele yonke into oyenzayo. Ewe, okokuqala kuya kuba nzima, kodwa ke uya kulusebenzisa kwaye uyeke ukucinga ngako. Kwaye enye into - ungalokothi uphuze kakhulu. Nangona ubuye waba ngabahlobo kunye nabafana bakho bonke ubomi bakho kwaye uphuze ibhotile yobhiya ngokukhawuleza ngexesha lonke, umfana akanako ukwazi ngako. Ngokuqhelekileyo, musa ukuxelela amabali anokukutshintsha. Makhe bahlekise kwaye banjengomfana, emva kwabo uya kubona ukuba akukho ntombazana, kodwa ungumzalwana. Kwaye ngisho ne-outer chic ayinceda apha.
Enye into efunekayo kwintombazana efuna ukuthatha ingqwalasela yamadoda iyona nto. Ngokuqhelekileyo, abafana bayayikhathalela izinga lemfundo, inkcubeko yentetho yentombazana. Kakade, akubaluleki kubo bonke abafana, kodwa ndicinga ukuba iVasya, kunye nemfundo engapheliyo yezikolo zengqesho, oku akusiyo umda wamaphupha akho. Umntu oqhelekileyo uhlala enomdla ekuthetha ngeencwadi, ubugcisa, ithala. Kungabonakala nje ukuba amadoda anomdla kwiikhomputha kunye neemoto. Enyanisweni, oku akude kwimeko. Abantu abaninzi abaselula bahlala befunda, baya kwiigalari zezobugcisa, banomdla kwimveliso emitsha yeeatriki. Yingakho kufuneka uhlale uzifundisa. Ukuba uyazi ngakumbi, iya kuba yintetho, inzala kunye nentlonipho. Ngendlela, amantombazana aqondayo ngakumbi kunye nezinto ezidlalwa njengendoda, kubangela ukuba abafana bayonwabe ngokwenene. Ewe, yenza ukuba uthandane nemoto kunye nezixhobo akufanelekanga, kodwa ukuba oko kukuthakazelisayo, qiniseka ukukhankanya izinto ezithandwayo kwintetho.
Ibhinqa kufuneka lihlale liyimfihlelo. Ungalokothi ukhulume ngawe sonke ngexesha elilodwa. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukudlala iipuzzles kunye ne-charades akunjalo, kufuneka nje ukwazi umlinganiselo. Kukho ulwazi oluninzi olufunekayo ukuba luhanjiswe okanye alukhankanyi. Ungaze utshele abantu abangaqhelekanga malunga neengxaki zabo, iingxaki, intsapho, abahlobo. Kubalulekile ukumazi umntu ngaphambi kokuvula phambi kwakhe. Kukho izihloko ezininzi ezithakazelisayo ezingabalulekanga kwaye zikulungele ukuthetha ngokulula. Umculo, iifilimu, ezopolitiko, ekupheleni - olu luhlu luyaqhubeka ixesha elide kakhulu. Khetha kuyo oko kusebenza ngokusemgangathweni kwimeko kwaye uqhagamshelane nempilo.
Amadoda anesakhono - oku yikhono eliye lavela kithi ukususela ebuntwaneni. Umbuzo kuphela ukuba ngaba sikwazi ukuyisebenzisa okanye siyifihle kwindawo ethile. Kungenxa yoko, akumelwe ulibale ukuba ungumfazi. Omnye kufuneka ahlale ezama ukuba yindoda enenene, ethembekileyo kunye nekratshi, kodwa engaguquki kumntu onokuzibonakalisa nomntu onomdla ofuna ukubethelwa ngabantu. Abafana banqwenela ukunceda nokukhusela, kodwa abayi kuze bazalise zonke iifom, ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuba abayizixhobo zokungahlambululi. Yingakho, kuyo yonke into uyazi umlinganiselo kwaye uphulaphule intuition yakho, ngoko uya kuphumelela.