Iingxikethi zesazi ziyazi ukuba malunga nesiqingatha sezo zonke iimeko zetyhefu zabantwana zityhefu ngenxa yokungenisa iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zamachiza. Ngokuqhelekileyo, abantwana badla amayeza asele kwiidrafti zetafile, kwiikhabhinethi; ngamanye amaxesha kukho iimeko xa abadala bebanika abantwana amayeza omdlalo.
Mhlawumbi, elowo wethu waqalekisa ngokukhawuleza, kungekudala ukufumanisa oku okanye loo mayeza, ingakumbi ukungenisa. Ewe, ngubani otywina? Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu, kutheni? Kodwa inyaniso yokuba abantu abadala bayabonakala bengenangqondo, ngokwenene ukhetho oluqinileyo lomenzi weziyobisi-iyeza akufanele likwazi ukuvula umntwana!
Abo banabantwana abancinci, oogqirha bezobisi bacela ukuba bakhumbule imithetho elandelayo yokhuseleko:
• Emva kokusetyenziswa kwamachiza, khangela ukuba uvale ngokufanelekileyo. Nokuba "ukukhuselwa kwe-detox" yokupakisha akusoloko isiqinisekiso sokhuseleko;
• Thatha amacwecwe amaninzi njengoko ufuna ukuwathabatha kwiphakheji, kungekho ezimbini okanye kathathu kwangaphambili;
• Musa ukugcina amayeza kwigumbi apho abantwana bedlala khona. Iindawo ezimbi zokugcina amayeza ibhokisi kwibhokisi yekhompiyutha (inokukhwabaniswa lula kunye nebhola) kunye netafile - oku ngokuqhelekileyo okokuba ootatomkhulu benza ntoni ukuba bangalibali ukuthatha isiza;
• Ukuba umntwana unomdla, ungagcini amayeza kwiingxowa, iifeksi, iipokethi kunye neekhokethi;
• Kungcono ukugcina amayeza kwindawo ukuze umntwana akakwazi ukuzibona, kwaye umncinane akanako ukufikelela kuwo;
• Musa ukuthatha amayeza nabantwana, bayakuthanda ukukopisha abantu abadala. Emva kokudlala "intloko", umntwana unokube esesibhedlele;
• Ukuba umntwana uyagula, musa ukumvumela ukuba athathe amayeza ngokwakhe. Kuphela ngaphandle kwezandla zakho;
• Ungaze ubizele abantwana ngeeskese okanye i-candy kubantwana. Xa ungabikho, umntwana uya kukhumbula ukuba kwindawo ethile kufuphi "iilekese" kwaye uya kuqala ukuwukhangela.
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